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The short maple sugar season consumes all their time now and often finds them working late into the night if the sap is flowing well. As Paula placed another heavy white container of sap on the floor to be boiled, Jeff wore heavy leather fire gloves, leaning over to fill firewood into the roaring wood stove. His timer goes off at regular intervals to remind him to add more wood which keeps the temperature constant while the sap boils. He admits they got off to a slow start this year because of the constant cold days in February, but he hopes to make syrup for the next few weeks. Sap flows the best with nighttime temperatures from 20-30 degrees and daytime temperatures in the 40s.
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'Mother Nature, she's in control,' Paula said.
The aroma of smoke from the burning maple and oak logs permeates the air inside the pristine sugar shack. Jeff's glasses are fogged as he swirls a wooden stick inside the violently bubbling sap. Ninety-eight percent of maple sap is water. The next step is the most satisfying for the couple as the spigot is opened to let the amber-colored syrup flow out slowly and steadily.
'We love it. How could you not love it?' Jeff said.
Together they poured small shots of the syrup into sample cups, said 'cheers' and tasted what they think is the best maple syrup around.
'I don't envy anyone else's syrup,' Jeff says.
A steady flow of sap dripped from a spike on an old silver maple tree to a bucket below.
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He's so passionate about his product that he only wants blue ribbon quality syrup. Award ribbons hang in their shop as proof, winning three blue ribbons at the Hillsborough County Fair in 2024, and before that First Prize and Best of Show at that fair in 2022.
The Babel's are looking forward to the New Hampshire Maple Weekend when they expect hundreds of visitors to their sugar house. A sample bar will be set up in the shop with their bottled maple syrup for sale. They will be open March 15 from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. and Sunday, March 16 from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.
The Babels have over 600 taps, hoping to produce into late March, depending on the weather.
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Paula Babel checked the amount of sap collected in a bucket attached to a sugar maple tree in their backyard.
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Jeff Babel loaded firewood into the wood stove below the evaporator, a constant process to keep the temperature consistent when the sap is boiling.
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After it was boiled down in the evaporator, maple syrup dripped into a metal bucket. Ninety eight percent of maple sap is water, the rest sugar.
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Jeff and Paula Babel boiled down maple sap into syrup in their backyard sugar house, using an Amish built evaporator and wood burning stove to boil the sap into amber-colored maple syrup.
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Paula Babel opened the doors to the sugar house shop where customers can purchase their maple syrup.
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Ribbons fill the wall inside the sugar house shop, including a 1st Prize and Best in Show for their amber and dark syrup at the Hillsborough County Fair in 2022.
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Paula and Jeff Babel sampled a new batch of maple syrup inside their sugar house.
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(Randy Vazquez/Globe staff) This reconstruction of the deadliest fire in Massachusetts since 1984 is based on interviews with more than 20 people who were at the scene, including many residents, interviews with former workers of Gabriel House, police body cam footage, recordings of public safety dispatches, and other official sources. Visibility was near zero as smoke rapidly filled the building. People were screaming for help; some stayed in their rooms and called loved ones, some invoked the Almighty, and some were able to break open windows on their own or were rescued when firefighters tore apart windows and doors to get people out. For 68-year-old Debbie Bigelow, escape came with a bang on her door and first responders yelling for her to 'Get out!' She was barefoot and dressed only in a nightgown; they led her out an emergency door and then wrapped blankets around her shoulders to keep her warm. 'I'm glad it was in the summer and not in the winter,' Bigelow said. The fire would claim the life of her longtime boyfriend, Rui Albernaz. 'He didn't get burnt, did he?' she asked the official who told her Albernaz died in the blaze. 'I don't like smoke inhalation either, but getting burnt and flames, that's terrible.' She described Albernaz as joyful and charming. He didn't get into arguments at Gabriel House like other residents, she said. They had no secrets, and she hoped they would marry one day. 'I miss him,' she said this week after a funeral Mass for Albernaz. In her room at Fall River HealthCare, Debbie Bigelow held up the funeral card for Gabriel House resident Rui A. Albernaz, who died in the fire. Suzanne Kreiter/Globe Staff Like Albernaz, Gabriel House residents were typical New Englanders. One man visited a local Dunkin' so frequently staff knew his regular order: a croissant sandwich and iced coffee. Others were Vietnam War veterans, one would be later described as a 'tough cookie' with a robust sense of humor and another would be eulogized for his warmth and keen social intelligence. A great-grandmother was recalled as Advertisement Among the 10 who died from the fire was an 86-year-old grandmother, Eleanor Willett, who had lived at Gabriel House for just shy of a year. For as long as Willett lived in room C15, one of its two windows didn't function properly, said her granddaughter, Holly Mallowes. 'They were supposed to fix it, and they never did,' said Mallowes. 'So that window wouldn't open.' Many other rooms, meanwhile, had air-conditioning units in their windows, which complicated rescue efforts. Hearing that people were trapped on the third floor, one Fall River fire captain rushed into the burning building without an air tank and kicked in a door. There were bodies in some of the rooms, he would later say. Clues emerge in a complex investigation Some residents said they saw sprinklers go off in some parts of the building but not others. The owner of Gabriel House would later say the sprinkler system was checked just days before the fatal inferno, and a maintenance worker said that smoke alarms were updated in recent weeks. The annual fire inspection of Gabriel House, which includes checking the sprinkler system, was completed on Aug. 9, 2024, according to public records. The fire alarms passed inspection on Aug. 7, 2024, the fire department said. The cause of the fire is thought to be accidental and not suspicious, authorities have said. This week, authorities zeroed in on one room, on the east side of the building, where they found 'numerous smoking materials' and an oxygen concentrator, a medical device that increases the amount of oxygen in the air a patient breathes but can fuel flames when exposed to embers. 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One former resident said the $25 fine did not deter some residents from smoking inside. Fall River Fire Chief Jeffrey Bacon (center) along with police, fire investigators, and a priest (left) gathered at the entrance to the Gabriel House Assisted Living facility on Oliver Street in Fall River Monday morning. MARK STOCKWELL FOR THE BOSTON GLOBE In one lawsuit filed since the fire, a lawyer for one resident who allegedly lost consciousness during the fire, said smoke alarms went off regularly at Gabriel House and the facility lacked an 'effective evacuation plan.' 'So when the smoke alarms went off, it was almost just another day, and there was no effective plan to say, 'Hey, this one's real. You got to get out,'' said attorney Robin Gouveia. Advertisement An Etzkorn spokesman, George K. Regan Jr., said Tuesday in response to the lawsuit: 'In this situation, there is nothing else to say.' Etzkorn himself has not granted interviews since the fire. 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People screaming. It was crazy.' Meanwhile, at a nearby house, Cleber Parra, 40, was playing volleyball with a group of his friends in his backyard when he heard sirens and saw red and blue emergency lights bouncing off the buildings of his neighborhood. At first, he thought 'it was nothing crazy,' because he usually sees the Fire Department respond quickly. But he soon realized the situation was more serious when he could hear people calling for help. Cleber Parra (left) and his brother-in-law Danny Auqui sat on the steps of their home near Gabriel House assisted living facility. The two men helped rescue residents during the deadly fire after hearing cries for help while playing late-night volleyball in their backyard. Erin Clark/Globe Staff A construction worker, Parra grabbed two ladders from atop a van and ran toward the Gabriel House, placing them along the right side of the building. He climbed up one, and saw an old man through the window. 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'I brought (him) down, and my other friend brought down another person from another window.' wistia-player[media-id='hg9fi34p1v']:not(:defined) { background: center / contain no-repeat url(' display: block; filter: blur(5px); padding-top:56.25%; } @font-face { font-family: BentonSansCond-Regular; src: url(" format('woff2'), url(" format('woff'); } @font-face { font-family: BentonSansCond-Bold; src: url(" format('woff2'), url(" format('woff'); } .creditcopy2 { font-family : "BentonSansCond-Regular", "Impact", "Arial Narrow", "Helvetica", sans-serif; line-height : 1.2; font-size: .8750em; letter-spacing: .25px; color: #333; padding: 3px 0px; } .creditcopy2 span { font-family : "BentonSansCond-Bold", "Impact", "Arial Narrow", "Helvetica", sans-serif; font-size: 1em; } .creditcopy2 { font-size: .8750em; } .creditcopy2 span { font-size: .8750em; } } In police body camera footage, firefighters are seen rescuing an unidentified person from Gabriel House. (Randy Vazquez/Globe staff) An unthinkable loss of life A neighbor, Peter Primo, 69, said the scene he saw when he stepped onto his porch was so nightmarish that he can't imagine ever forgetting it. 'It was like my Blizzard of '78,' he added. 'You'll never forget where you were when this [expletive] happens.' There was smoke everywhere and against this murky backdrop frenzied scenes of firefighters in motion. 'They're breaking the windows,' Primo said. 'They were pulling people, you could hear the firemen, 'Watch my light, follow my light. I need a stretcher up here.' It was crazy.' Primo said air conditioners were falling out of some windows but that 'too many' were still in place and blocking the rescue efforts. An air conditioner was in the charred window of the Gabriel House facility on July 14. MARK STOCKWELL FOR THE BOSTON GLOBE 'And the most morbid part was when they were bringing the bodies, and they were putting them in the back there,' Primo added. 'It was just, 'wow.' Playing out right under your nose.' Primo saw five bodies moved to a tent behind Gabriel House. At the scene, survivors and neighbors were in tears. 'It's still the somber scent that lingers,' Primo said. 'Ten people, not two, not three, but 10. Those people had every intention of waking up the next day, and it didn't happen.' Ken Medeiros, who lives directly behind Gabriel House, recalled looking out his back window around 9:50 p.m. to see flashing lights from firetrucks. The 70-year-old Medeiros went out to his backyard and watched as evacuated residents from the facility stood in groups in a parking lot across the street. He saw ladders propped against the side of the building, but no one was being evacuated at that point. There were no flames at the moment, but the smoke made everything 'hazy.' Unlike more modern nursing homes and higher-end assisted living facilities, Gabriel House was in an older building dating to the 1960s that once was a motel. 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Are you (or your parents) thinking about downsizing? There's help for that.
Get Starting Point A guide through the most important stories of the morning, delivered Monday through Friday. Enter Email Sign Up According to the Pew Research Center, Americans in their 40s are the most likely to be sandwiched between their children and an aging parent. More than half in this age group (54 percent) have a living parent age 65 or older and are either raising a child younger than 18 or have an adult child they helped financially in the past year. Advertisement 'It often takes 30 to 40 hours to downsize a house on average, and adult children do not have that time,' Hammond says. 'I watched my mother work tirelessly driving up and down I-95 trying to help her mother move, and it's often unpaid work of women in families.' Advertisement Downsizable handles sorting, packing, junk removal — I'm flashing on a plaid couch in my parents' basement — donation coordination, unpacking, creating floor plans, and settling into the new space. Sign up for Parenting Unfiltered. Globe staff #mc_embed_signup{background:#fff; clear:left; font:14px Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; } /* Add your own Mailchimp form style overrides in your site stylesheet or in this style block. We recommend moving this block and the preceding CSS link to the HEAD of your HTML file. */ Subscribe * indicates required E-mail * 'We also provide emotional support for people. We're finding really personal details out about people's lives. You're intimately involved with their possessions, in a way. We always joke, we wouldn't be on the second floor of each other's homes going through paperwork. We really get to know the person. And, for our clients, I think they really like having people to have company with, to talk to,' Anderson says. Here's their free advice for how to help your parents respectfully, gradually, and hopefully happily. Start small. Very small. If your parents mention moving, your first instinct might be to summon your favorite real estate agent and bookmark listings on Zillow. Deep breath. 'Timelines for downsizing do not follow timelines of a typical move. Usually, when someone says, 'I'm thinking of downsizing, but I'm not quite ready,' that means they're really considering it. They just don't want to be hounded by vendors or real estate developers. They want to come to a full decision on their own. But a lot of times that means they actually are ready for the first step,' Hammond says. This means decluttering a bedroom. Paring down a bathroom. Maybe getting your 1996 high school yearbook out of the basement. Baby steps. On that note: Take your own stuff out of your parents' house. Finally. 'There's not one client who doesn't have boxes for their adult children to go through. When you're visiting your parents, you should ask them: 'What's the stuff that you want me to have?'' Anderson says. Advertisement When a parent is finally ready to move, plan on one box of sentimental items per grown child, they say. Encourage your parents to tell people that they're downsizing. Think of this as a slow streamline. Friends and relatives could pop by to take things that they no longer have space for over an extended period, so it doesn't feel like a yard sale. Consider donation partners. 'Research donation partners in your area, and also your town and city trash rules. You might be able to put some things curbside, but a lot of things you cannot: air-conditioning units, mattresses, box springs. All of those require special pickup, and every town and city is different,' Hammond says. 'If you have 10 or more items, typically big donation partners like Big Brothers, Big Sisters will come to your home and get them, if it's worth their trip.' (Note: Donation partners will often charge a pickup fee.) Make peace with not making a profit on old furniture. A gigantic mahogany grandfather clock? A dining room table from the 1940s? Gorgeous, and likely sturdier than your kids' IKEA bunk bed, but not a money-making proposition. 'Our clients are from a generation where they spent a lot of money on their furniture, and their furniture lasted them for a long time. But the amount of money they spent on their furniture is not the value of the furniture now. We try to gently remind people: If you've spent $5,000 on a dining room table and you use that dining room table for 30 years, you've gotten the value out of it,' Anderson says. 'There's some really big brown furniture, and the resale value is quite low, or really you're paying people to remove it.' Advertisement Use special occasion items all the time. 'If you have beautiful items that you love, don't save them for special occasions. Being alive is a special enough occasion as it is. Celebrate; use the things you love. With so many clients, we are boxing up or donating items that have never even been opened,' Hammond says. This also goes for wine: The duo say they often end up trashing unused bottles before a move. If your parents can still safely drink, encourage them to have some friends over. 'Drink the wine that you have. So often people save it for special occasions. If your friends come over for a casual Friday night pizza dinner, pop open the good bottle of wine, the bottle of champagne. Enjoy that stuff, because at some point, Blair and I will be painstakingly dumping it down the drain,' Anderson says. Take your time. Especially with sentimental items, it's hard to know whether to keep them or to offload. 'That's why the process goes much slower than a typical move. We're hearing stories, and on some days the person is overwhelmed with emotion and memory. We say, 'We're going to set this aside and we're going to come back tomorrow, and we'll resume our work,'' Hammond says. Put piles aside. Revisit them. Your parents didn't accumulate a lifetime of sentimental objects in one day; don't force them to eliminate them in one day, either. Advertisement Avoid storage . Anderson and Hammond try to steer clients from expensive storage purgatory, because storing things indefinitely is really just a form of (costly) procrastination. 'We recommend that people do not put stuff in storage, because they never come out of storage. And what you're doing by putting them in storage is avoiding making a decision. It's just punting it for another day.' Their rule: Use storage for three months maximum, while transitioning to a new space. Beyond that, sell or donate. Plan early, before a fall or an illness forces the moving issue. 'This is personal to me: What I would wish people would talk about is making a plan of where they want to go next,' Anderson says. 'By not making a plan, you're inviting yourself to have to make a plan in some sort of emergent situation. The best clients that we've had — the most prepared ones — have said, 'I'm living in this house, then I'm going to sell the house. I'm going to move to a place of my own choosing, and I'm going to have full autonomy of the process. No one's going to tell me what to do.' And I think that those people are the most satisfied. They feel the most in control.' And last but not least, I love this (nonprofessional, but important!) tip from my friend Rachel, who recently moved her dad from his longtime home in the suburbs to her house closer to the city. 'Go out of your way to create celebrations and opportunities for friends and family to see them in their new space. A move can be isolating. When my dad moved in with us to a town that was 20 minutes away from his previous home, we set up a series of dinners and teas for friends to come see him. He was so proud to show his new space in his new garden — and it gave them a chance to visit with him and stay connected.' 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