A Night Of Strength, Stories & Support: An Evening With Sir Wayne ‘Buck' Shelford
This dedicated to celebrating the strength and spirit of our rural communities. Farmers, growers, and the networks that support them. It's an opportunity to pause, connect, and recharge in the company of others who understand the unique challenges and triumphs of rural life.
Sir Wayne 'Buck' Shelford - legendary All Black rugby captain, cancer survivor, and advocate for men's health - will take the stage to share powerful personal stories of leadership, grit, and overcoming adversity. His words promise to be as real and unforgettable as the man himself.
'This event is about strengthening our rural community - not just with stories of rugby greatness, but through genuine connection and conversations that matter,' says Wanda Leadbeater from Waikato Rural Support Trust.
Attendees will enjoy a two-course dinner curated by LaValla's renowned kitchen team, all in a warm, relaxed setting designed to encourage laughter, storytelling, and support.
Thanks to the incredible generosity of sponsors and ongoing Rural Support Trust fundraising, the bulk of the event costs have been covered. A subsidised ticket fee remains to help with final expenses, ensuring the evening is accessible while covering essential logistics.
Event Details:
Date: Thursday 31 July 2025
Time: 5:30pm
Venue: LaValla Estate – 131 Dominion Road, Tuakau, Waikato
About Rural Support Trust
The Rural Support Trust plays a vital role in supporting New Zealand's rural people through difficult times - whether it's drought, floods, mental health challenges, or financial strain. Their confidential, on-the-ground assistance helps build resilience and keeps communities strong when it matters most.
This event is not only a celebration - it's a reminder that no one in rural New Zealand needs to face hardship alone.
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Press Release – Rural Support Trust Sir Wayne Buck Shelford – legendary All Black rugby captain, cancer survivor, and advocate for mens health – will take the stage to share powerful personal stories of leadership, grit, and overcoming adversity. The Rural Support Trust proudly invites the rural community to a special night of inspiration, connection, and shared resilience at: An Evening with Sir Wayne 'Buck' Shelford on Thursday 31 July 2025, at the stunning LaValla Estate in Tuakau. This dedicated to celebrating the strength and spirit of our rural communities. Farmers, growers, and the networks that support them. It's an opportunity to pause, connect, and recharge in the company of others who understand the unique challenges and triumphs of rural life. Sir Wayne 'Buck' Shelford – legendary All Black rugby captain, cancer survivor, and advocate for men's health – will take the stage to share powerful personal stories of leadership, grit, and overcoming adversity. His words promise to be as real and unforgettable as the man himself. 'This event is about strengthening our rural community – not just with stories of rugby greatness, but through genuine connection and conversations that matter,' says Wanda Leadbeater from Waikato Rural Support Trust. Attendees will enjoy a two-course dinner curated by LaValla's renowned kitchen team, all in a warm, relaxed setting designed to encourage laughter, storytelling, and support. Thanks to the incredible generosity of sponsors and ongoing Rural Support Trust fundraising, the bulk of the event costs have been covered. A subsidised ticket fee remains to help with final expenses, ensuring the evening is accessible while covering essential logistics. Event Details: Date: Thursday 31 July 2025 Time: 5:30pm Venue: LaValla Estate – 131 Dominion Road, Tuakau, Waikato Tickets available online: About Rural Support Trust The Rural Support Trust plays a vital role in supporting New Zealand's rural people through difficult times – whether it's drought, floods, mental health challenges, or financial strain. Their confidential, on-the-ground assistance helps build resilience and keeps communities strong when it matters most. This event is not only a celebration – it's a reminder that no one in rural New Zealand needs to face hardship alone.
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