
Heartbroken family of Dannielle Finlay-Jones reveal the one change that could've saved their daughter after she was killed by her Bumble match
Jacky Finlay-Jones refuses to say the name of the man who murdered her only daughter, Dannielle, at her friend's home in Cranebrook, western Sydney, on December 18, 2022.
The 31-year-old had been on just three dates with Ashley Gaddie, 33, when he brutally assaulted her before fleeing to the Blue Mountains, where he was found on a cliff two days later.
Although Dannielle didn't know it at the time, Gaddie had five AVOs taken out on him by five different women and was on bail for a domestic violence offence when he killed her.
Dannielle met Gaddie on a dating app. He only had to give his first name before having access to thousands of women, despite his history of gendered violence.
Ms Finlay-Jones and her son, Blake, on Sunday said they've struggled to move forward in life when domestic violence is still such a prevalent issue in Australia.
'As much as we have hoped and prayed that we were the last person this would ever happen to, that things would change, there has been over 100 deaths last year, the numbers are going up and it's just devastating,' Ms Finlay-Jones told news.com.au.
'Danni would still be here if there had been stricter bail laws for repeat offenders and tougher rules around AVOs. In her case the man, we don't use his name, had five AVOs taken out on him by five different women.'
Blake, who was due to meet Gaddie over Christmas lunch, said Gaddie's existing AVOs would have been a massive 'red flag' for the family, had they known about them.
Worsening the family's situation was the death of Gaddie, who was found unresponsive in his cell in April 2024.
His death meant Dannielle's murder would not be heard in court and Gaddie 'will always to the outside world be known as the accused'.
Now, the Finlay-Jones family has to wait through a backlog of cases before the coroner can reach Dannielle's.
'We understand a small wait, but it has already been one year since the accused took his own life, one year of your lives are still in a holding pattern, one year of any recommendations that may have helped other domestic violence victims come out of the inquest wasted due to the time delay, the wait is just horrible, it is almost like they have forgotten the victim's family and friends,' Ms Finlay-Jones said.
The frustrated mother said it's unfair for her family, and other victims', to be forced to live in 'limbo' while domestic violence continues to rule headlines.
'These men have a pattern, they are charming, the love bombing, then the controlling, and then the escalation,' Blake said.
'It's almost like a hate crime, like a woman's hate crime and there he is on the end of an app. Swipe the wrong type of situation, a murder waiting to happen.'
Ms Finaly-Jones believes the only way her family will get closure will be with a coronial inquest with recommendations on how to prevent further deaths.
NSW Local Courts confirmed no dates have been set for a coronial inquest into Dannielle's or Gaddie's deaths.
Attorney-General Michael Daly said 'the NSW Government is working to strengthen the coronial system'.
'Funding worth $18 million for the Bondi Junction inquest has allowed an additional magistrate to be appointed. This ensures other inquests and inquiries can continue to progress,' he said.
'We have also made it harder for accused serious domestic violence offenders to get bail and ensured those who are bailed are electronically monitored by Corrective Services.'
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