Virgil Lee Messenger
Virgil Lee Messenger, 87, of Morgantown, passed away Tuesday, June 24, 2025. A memorial service will be planned for a later date.
Hastings Funeral Home has been entrusted with cremation arrangements. A full obituary can be found at www.hastingsfuneralhome.com
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