Pope Leo XIV's marriage advice? Keep calm and pray the rosary
Newlyweds Anna and Cole Stevens meet Pope Leo XIV at the general audience in Rome on Wednesday, June 11, 2025. | Credit: Courtesy of Anna and Cole Stevens
By Courtney Mares
Pope Leo XIV recently offered marriage advice to a young American couple days after their wedding, sharing how he was blessed by the example of his own parents who prayed the rosary together every day.
Newlyweds Cole and Anna Stevens received Pope Leo's personal blessing for their marriage during one of the pope's first general audiences under the hot Roman summer sun on June 11, just four days after their wedding at the Cathedral of St. Paul in Birmingham, Alabama.The moment, captured on video, became an unexpectedly intimate exchange with the American pope, who responded warmly to their question of how best to pray together as a married couple.
'First of all, it is very important to go slowly and to find the style of prayer that works for you and your spirituality,' Pope Leo replied in English.
'My parents prayed the rosary together their whole lives every day,' the pope said. 'I found that I was always blessed by their love for one another and their faith in God … It's a wonderful thing.'
The Stevenses, who now live in Pensacola, Florida, approached the crowded general audience in their wedding attire unsure if they would even get the chance to meet the pope. They were one of about 65 newlywed couples in St. Peter's Square that day to receive the pope's ''sposi novelli' blessing,' an opportunity that the Vatican offers each week to Catholics within six months of their wedding.
'We prayed a rosary while we were waiting for the audience [to begin] because we were in the square at 8 a.m.,' Cole said. 'And the question that really came to my heart while we were praying the rosary [was] how can we deepen our faith, our prayer life inside of our marriage?'
Anna recalled how Pope Leo responded to Cole's question as if there was no one else in the crowd at that moment.
'There was no rush in his voice. There was no looking around… He was solely focused on the question that Cole asked and then how could he answer it to the best of his abilities,' she said.
After the exchange, the couple gave the pope a prayer card from their wedding. 'Then we asked for his personal blessing, which he gave to us … laying hands on us and blessing us.'
'He just entrusted us to the Holy Family,' Anna added, 'and prayed over us that the Holy Family would watch over us, protect us, guide us, and lead us.'
Unbeknownst to Pope Leo, Cole had been holding a relic of the Holy Family — cloth that had touched St. Joseph's staff, Our Lady's veil, and Jesus' manger — when he blessed them.
A match made in heaven
Cole, 24, originally from Colorado, and Anna, 25, a schoolteacher from Birmingham, Alabama, met on a blind date when Cole was pursuing his master's degree at the University of Alabama.
'My good high school friend had met Cole and was asking Cole what kind of girl he was interested in,' Anna said. 'And Cole threw out there 'a Catholic volleyball player' and she said, 'Well, I have one girl for you.' And that was me.'
'I played volleyball in college and I was her one Catholic friend. And so that was how we started off.'
Their relationship grew through long-distance calls and visits between cities in Alabama. 'He took me to the [adoration] chapel on our third date,' Anna remembered. 'And that's where he ended up proposing two years later.'
They prayed novenas together for 90 days leading up to their wedding — to St. Joseph, Our Lady of Lourdes, and the Holy Family.
Their honeymoon, originally planned for the Amalfi coast, took a surprising turn when they realized the Vatican offered special blessings for newlyweds. 'We were looking at Sorrento and we're like two hours away,' Anna said. 'Why would we skip out on the jubilee year and the Holy Doors? And then when we heard about the 'sposi novelli,' we were like, we have to go.'
It was Cole's first time out of the country. 'There's no other experience in my life that I can look back on and say it was truly life-changing and just awe-striking at the same,' he said on meeting Pope Leo.
Romantic rosary walks to remember
Back in Pensacola, Florida, Pope Leo's advice has already shaped the young couple's routine. 'It's funny,' Anna said. 'At the end of the night we're like, 'Oh my goodness, we haven't said the rosary. We have to say the rosary; Pope Leo told us to pray the rosary.' And so we've built it in.'
Their solution? Rosary walks after dinner.
'Our new goal now is after dinner we go on rosary walks every night and that has been one of our favorite parts of the night,' Anna said. 'It has been so peaceful. It is usually right around sunset.'
'We use it as a chance to pray for individual intentions throughout the week,' Cole added.
Anna, reflecting on the papal advice, said it's important to work at 'finding, like Pope Leo said, a way that works for you. So for us right now with our stage of life, it's been rosary walks. And every couple will have a different stage and life and how they can pray the rosary together.'
What struck Cole most about the pope's advice was its applicability. 'I was surprised at how real it was… It was very practical in the sense of, here's what my parents did, and find out what works for you. … I can actually use this advice.'--CNA
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'He just entrusted us to the Holy Family,' Anna added, 'and prayed over us that the Holy Family would watch over us, protect us, guide us, and lead us.' Unbeknownst to Pope Leo, Cole had been holding a relic of the Holy Family — cloth that had touched St. Joseph's staff, Our Lady's veil, and Jesus' manger — when he blessed them. A match made in heaven Cole, 24, originally from Colorado, and Anna, 25, a schoolteacher from Birmingham, Alabama, met on a blind date when Cole was pursuing his master's degree at the University of Alabama. 'My good high school friend had met Cole and was asking Cole what kind of girl he was interested in,' Anna said. 'And Cole threw out there 'a Catholic volleyball player' and she said, 'Well, I have one girl for you.' And that was me.' 'I played volleyball in college and I was her one Catholic friend. And so that was how we started off.' Their relationship grew through long-distance calls and visits between cities in Alabama. 'He took me to the [adoration] chapel on our third date,' Anna remembered. 'And that's where he ended up proposing two years later.' They prayed novenas together for 90 days leading up to their wedding — to St. Joseph, Our Lady of Lourdes, and the Holy Family. Their honeymoon, originally planned for the Amalfi coast, took a surprising turn when they realized the Vatican offered special blessings for newlyweds. 'We were looking at Sorrento and we're like two hours away,' Anna said. 'Why would we skip out on the jubilee year and the Holy Doors? And then when we heard about the 'sposi novelli,' we were like, we have to go.' It was Cole's first time out of the country. 'There's no other experience in my life that I can look back on and say it was truly life-changing and just awe-striking at the same,' he said on meeting Pope Leo. Romantic rosary walks to remember Back in Pensacola, Florida, Pope Leo's advice has already shaped the young couple's routine. 'It's funny,' Anna said. 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'I was surprised at how real it was… It was very practical in the sense of, here's what my parents did, and find out what works for you. … I can actually use this advice.'--CNA
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