Nostalgic Beauty: North Carolina Woman Photographs Abandoned Houses—Here Are the Shots
Stotts is certain of one thing: She's alive for a reason, and that reason is to document forgotten places through her camera. For Stotts, preserving their memory is tied to her former bout with addiction and teetering on the brink of death.
'
God has performed a miracle in my life and saved me,' she told The Epoch Times, speaking of a trauma that nearly killed her in 2016.
In encountering abandoned homes across America that date from colonial times to as late as the 1950s, Stotts felt a spiritual connection with past lives 'in every fiber of my being,' she said. She's even bonded with people who had lived here.
This past winter, she explored a cluster of some 30 old log cabins from the 1700s in Idaho, where Mormon pioneers first settled along the Oregon Trail—a long ribbon of ruts cutting westward through the valley. The town, called Chesterfield, began to decline after a Pacific Union railway bypassed the town in the 1880s and made the trail obsolete.
Chesterfield, Idaho.
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Chesterfield, Idaho.
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Chesterfield, Idaho.
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Chesterfield, Idaho.
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Chesterfield, Idaho.
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Toting her camera and fueled by nostalgia for simpler times, Stotts trudged through the snow to photograph the stout red-brick schoolhouse and much older sagging cabins.
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They
look the same as the primitive log cabins from the late 1700s on the east coast,' she said. 'You can very much get a feel of just how hard life was for them, just to be surviving in these very remote towns in these snowy conditions.'
Winter snowdrifts in Chesterfield were said to tower over the houses and bury them, with buildings 'snapping' in the cold. As the town began declining, it was also plagued by drought, the
'Chesterfield faded like a photograph left in the sun,' Stotts said. 'The creaking of the windmill felt like their final lament.'
She said it's 'a miracle' that the buildings are still standing.
On her journeys, Stotts has visited over a thousand abandoned homes and buildings across dozens of states, including North Carolina where she now lives, in the city of
Winston-Salem
. Tied to these places, her own story of survival started here nine years ago.
Renewed Sense of Purpose
After a failed suicide attempt, Stotts found a new purpose knocking on doors. Her intention was to ask permission to photograph an abandoned home, but she soon met Mr. Nanney, a 98-year-old living in a tiny shack who owned a vine-covered house nearby. He became her best friend.
An abandoned home in Tennessee.
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A general store in Cleveland County, North Carolina.
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Laura Stotts with Mr. Nanney.
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An abandoned farmhouse at an undisclosed location.
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Laura Stotts poses in an abandoned home.
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'
I hear this guy opening up like 10 deadbolts from top to bottom on his door,' Stotts said. 'He allowed me to come in, and I introduced myself, and I'm like, 'Hey, I want to know what your story is.''
Hearing his story lit a fire in Stotts. From then on, she couldn't find enough doors to knock on to hear more stories that would otherwise die with these folks and their homes.
'
It was a new addiction for me,' she said. 'T
hese homes are disappearing fast.'
In the years since, Stotts's journey has been punctuated by sublime moments in forsaken places and by friendships with all-but forsaken folks. Sometimes, the feelings of nostalgia she experiences in these abandoned homes are so strong that the visions they conjure from the past are unmistakable. Other times they're downright haunting, such as an early visit to a mid-1900s house in North Carolina.
'A
s soon as I set foot on the grounds of this home, outside of my car, it's almost like a full-body experience,' she said. She recalled the sensation she felt, both conjured and real: 'The sun shining on my skin. It's the smell of the flowers, it's the wind, it's imagining the mother and the father outside of the home hanging clothes on the line.'
The house, Stotts discovered, was owned by one of two wealthy Italian brothers who both built homes and, in an epic sibling rivalry, tried to outdo each other in lavishness.
This abandoned home in North Carolina was owned by one of two wealthy Italian brothers.
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A log cabin at an undisclosed location.
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An undisclosed location.
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An old Dodge in Buke County, North Carolina.
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An undisclosed location.
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An undisclosed location.
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An undisclosed location.
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An undisclosed location.
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An undisclosed location.
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There were other times where Stotts says she felt repelled by a house as if by a supernatural force.
'Remember being a
kid and trying to take the opposite ends of two magnets and pushing them together and
it's impossible? I started feeling that. That's the only way I know how to describe the feeling walking into this home,' she said, speaking of one dilapidated 'oversized' house from the mid-1800s with tall doors and a huge porch with pillars.
She said she found the 'negative energy' in the house 'overpowering' and decided she'd best make her exit, even though she normally doesn't 'buy into that feeling.'
To tell their story, Stotts has done extensive research on the places she's been. Using 'Find a Grave' and 'Ancestry' apps, she uncovered names like Martha Simmons, who was 16 when she got married and moved into the log cabin her husband, Joel Simmons, built in 1870 in Stokes Country, North Carolina.
Stotts paid the cabin a visit.
The Simmons cabin in North Carolina.
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The Simmons cabin in North Carolina.
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Inside the Simmons cabin in North Carolina.
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The Simmons cabin in North Carolina.
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'The 1880 census lists Joel as a farmer, likely growing tobacco or crops to support their growing family,' Stotts said, adding that the couple had 12 children. 'As tiny as the cabin is, it was hard to imagine such a large family living in such tight quarters.'
To honor their story, Stotts created a family tree for the Simmonses, listing Martha, Joel, and the children: Rilla, Calvin, Mary, Powell, Fletcher, Frannie, Martha, James, Robert, John, Joel, and Roy.
Stotts, who is now seven years sober, says a miracle saved her life and now she's repaying the favor.
'At one point I felt like my existence and my story didn't matter anymore,' she said. 'I
t's just been a very beautiful thing over the past 10 years to be able to be engaged in this endeavor of photo-documenting history and people's stories.'
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COLUMN: Think Provo, Utah is not a Big 12 road trip worth taking? Think again
MORGANTOWN — My feet were dangling, suspended over a 500-foot drop. I wasn't scared. 'Wow,' I said. I was surrounded by miles of Utah's beautiful mountains, a lake and waterfalls. After a couple of moments, I accelerated my zip-line trolley forward, moving at speeds of up to 60 miles per hour. It was one of the coolest experiences while visiting Provo, Utah. In 2021, BYU was one of many schools announced to join West Virginia in the Big 12 for athletics in the future. Fast forward a couple of years, and BYU is about to begin its third year in the conference. The Cougars have already made an impact in athletics, and don't show signs of slowing down. BYU landed top-rated basketball recruit, A.J. Dybantsa, and was ranked the highest Big 12 team in the Learfield's Director's Cup. BYU has made a surge in football, too. In 2024, the Cougars finished 11-2 and tied for the best conference record. If BYU quarterback Jake Retzlaff didn't recently transfer, it'd be a Big 12 contender this season, and still may be. On Oct. 3, Rich Rodriguez's Mountaineers make the 1,700-mile trek to play BYU for the third time and first time in Provo, Utah, as a member of the Big 12. Provo will be new territory for a lot of West Virginia fans, so what should they expect? I spent three days in Provo, learning what the town of 113,000 people has to offer for Mountaineer fans if they make the trip. At first glance, Provo's a Mormon town with strict rules, and more importantly for sports fans, no alcohol. While alcohol might not be as easily accessible as it is in Morgantown, there are some places where you can get a drink. Mormons do come in bunches, but it plays to the benefit of how friendly the community is. You could say that won't be the case when Mountaineer fans roll into town for the game, but BYU is one of the few schools that offer free ice cream after the first quarter to visiting fans. Provo might be stereotyped to have a lot of rules, but there's also a lot of fun to be had when visiting. If you are making the trip for the Friday night game, here are a couple of highlights from my trip that might be of interest. MOZZ Artisan Pizza Located right in downtown Provo, it specializes in craft pizzas, which are sourdough. I had the Serrano Honey pizza, which had that sweet and a little bit of spice. It was easily consumable by one person and will run you under a little under $20. It could be shared with guests if not so hungry. Black Sheep Cafe One of the highlight restaurant spots on the trip. It's a Native American-style restaurant, but it has your usual lunch and dinner foods. I recommend the Navajo Pork Tacos, and so will everyone in the town if you talk about Black Sheep Cafe. It's another place in downtown Provo, and it was busy, so I'd recommend getting a reservation in advance. Ernies Sports Deli This is a place for sports fans. There are pool tables and televisions everywhere. This is another spot in downtown Provo. There were a lot of options for lunch and breakfast sandwiches, and it wasn't too crowded. Backdoor BRGR This was a classic burger spot just a couple of blocks down from MOZZ downtown. The burgers were a bit small, but they had a neat Western vibe. Strap Tank Brewery This place is where West Virginia fans can get the alcohol fix. This is a classic brewery with fill-you-up bar food and craft drinks. I didn't try any of the drinks, but the drinks menu looked like it had a bit of everything. This place is a bit outside of downtown Provo, so a car or a rideshare will be needed. Bearclaw At the top of Sundance is a little restaurant with some entrees but more shareables. It's not a place to center a whole meal around, but good for a quick bite with an amazing view. Sundance Owl Bar There are two restaurants at the base of Sundance Mountain, and this is the 21-plus option. 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07-07-2025
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He saw her in Yellowstone and thought ‘I'm going to marry that girl.' And he did
The moment Andrew McGowan and Shallen Yu met eyes through a storefront window, it felt like something passed between them. Andrew was sure his life was about to change. 'I saw her through the window and I was like, 'I'm going to marry that girl,'' Andrew tells CNN Travel today. Andrew and Shallen were strangers. They'd never spoken before. They were from different worlds. But against the odds, Andrew was right. It was the summer of 2013 and twentysomething college student Andrew was on vacation in Yellowstone National Park, known for its incredible wildlife, volcanic landscapes and beautiful views. Vacationing with his entire extended family — siblings and their partners, nieces and nephews, parents, aunts and uncles — Andrew's main goal for the weekend was to avoid any complicated family dynamics and focus on catching a fish or two. 'My parents described it as a family reunion,' says Andrew. 'I was mostly just there to go fishing with my brother.' The McGowan family hailed from Utah and usually headed to Yellowstone for a camping weekend every few years or so. Andrew and his brother always spent their time in Yellowstone fishing for trout. 'We grew up fishing,' says Andrew. 'What was unique about this trip in particular was that my family had never camped at the Canyon area of Yellowstone before. We just happened to camp there that year, and Shallen was working in the Canyon village right next to our campground.' Andrew grew up in a conservative small town in Utah as one of seven siblings, part of a large Mormon family. In the summer of 2013, Andrew had just returned from two years in the Philippines on missionary service — a typical rite of passage for young Mormons who volunteer to spend time away spreading the teachings of the Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter Day Saints. But while he was away, some of Andrew's family had begun to question Mormon doctrine, with his parents eventually deciding to leave the church. 'My parents were these really conservative Mormons, all my life, growing up,' Andrew recalls today. 'Then they moved away from it. They left it, went completely the other way.' For Andrew, this was discombobulating. Even though he no longer shared a belief system with his family, they remained close. And so the McGowans decamped to Yellowstone for a weekend of hiking, grilling and family time. While most of the family set up camp, Andrew and his brother went to the park's nearest general store, to secure fishing licenses. 'And we went into the store that she happened to be working at,' recalls Andrew. 'She' was Shallen. A twentysomething student from Taiwan, working in Yellowstone for the summer, as part of a student summer working program. Shallen, who was studying for a degree in geographic information, was thrilled at the idea of working in the national park for several weeks. 'I had never been there before. It was magical, it was beautiful,' she tells CNN Travel today. For Shallen, the summer in the US was a new experience — though she had spent time away from Taiwan before. 'I had never done anything like this specifically before but my mom would send me to summer camps in English speaking countries when I was a kid,' she recalls. Before Andrew entered the store, he spotted Shallen through the window. He walked in determined to speak with her — even when it turned out she wasn't in charge of selling the fishing licenses. 'She was working over at another counter,' Andrew recalls. 'So I went and bought chocolate milk at her register that she was working at, so that I could talk to her.' For Andrew it was something akin to love at first sight. For Shallen, it wasn't quite that. But it was a memorable first interaction — a tall, blond guy bouncing up to her with a grin on his face. 'He's smiling really big, and he looks like he froze,' Shallen recalls today, laughing. The employees at the store all wore name tags, listing both their name and where they came from. Shallen's badge said she was from Taiwan. When Andrew spotted this, he decided to attempt to introduce himself in Mandarin. Andrew had a bit of a flair for languages; he'd picked up Tagalog while living in the Philippines, and dabbled in Mandarin as part of a college language requirement. Still, Andrew had never attempted to flirt in Mandarin before. And what came out of his mouth was 'really poor Mandarin,' recalls Shallen today, laughing. 'And then he left,' she says. 'We had so many customers come in, I didn't think much of it.' While Shallen moved onto her next customer, Andrew sat in his brother's car, debating what to do next. Fishing licenses secured, the brothers could move onto the focus point of their weekend away. But Andrew couldn't stop thinking about Shallen. 'He was like, 'Alright, we gotta go back.' And I was like, 'No, I gotta talk to that girl again,'' recalls Andrew. 'My brother had started the car, he was starting to back up, and I was like 'No, I'm going for it.' So, I got out the car while he was backing up.' Leaving his brother baffled, Andrew ran back into the store. He met Shallen's eyes, and she smiled. 'She saw me,' he recalls. 'She was smiling really big, like she was waiting for me to say something.' For a moment, Andrew and Shallen just stood there, smiling at each other. Not saying anything. 'Then I was like, 'You got a boyfriend?'' recalls Andrew. 'He said this in Mandarin,' adds Shallen. 'He was just straight out saying, 'Do you have a boyfriend?'' She shook her head and told him she was single. Still speaking broken Mandarin, Andrew asked Shallen if he could take her out for dinner that night. 'And I go, 'No,' because we're in the middle of nowhere, and dinner sounds so formal,' recalls Shallen. 'I'm like, 'This is weird.'' But Shallen was intrigued by Andrew. 'So I said, 'Well, if you want to practice your Mandarin, we can grab ice cream,'' she recalls. 'My thought process at a time — it's like, 'I don't know you, and I'm here in the States, all by myself. If we just sit in front of the store, there's a lot of people watching over me.' A lot of retired people come work in Yellowstone over the summer, and some of them, I could be their granddaughter… They can see me, I'll be safe.' 'Okay. Deal,' said Andrew. 'We'll do it.'' The two set the ice-cream date for two days later. In the intervening days, Andrew and his brother enjoyed hours spent fishing, while Andrew daydreamed about his upcoming date with Shallen. He was so preoccupied that sun screen was the last thing on his mind and he ended up with some unpleasant sunburn after a hike to a fishing spot took longer than expected. 'The area we were fishing that trip was called Slough Creek and to this day it was the best trout fishing I've ever experienced, making the nine-mile hike worth it,' recalls Andrew. On the day of his date, Andrew borrowed some clothes from his brother as his own 'smelled like trail and sweat.' He did his best to hide his uneven tan lines and met up with Shallen outside her store. The two said their hellos, slightly awkwardly, but both smiling just as widely as they had the day they met. Shallen gestured to the ice-cream store, which was attached to her workplace. 'And so we go over to this little rustic Western ice-cream shop, and we grabbed ice cream,' recalls Andrew. 'And then his sister saw us,' says Shallen. 'My sister was coming over to the general store to buy something, and she had her DSLR camera with her,' recalls Andrew. 'So, I hear her yell… She's like, 'Drew!' She's the only person in the world that can call me Drew…' Andrew turned around, Shallen also looked over. And then Andrew's sister snapped a series of 'paparazzi photos.' In the pictures, Andrew and Shallen look surprised but happy. Andrew's sister had captured the chemistry brewing between them. Over scoops of Rocky Road and chocolate, Andrew and Shallen started opening up. Andrew's stilted Mandarin only took them so far, so they switched into English. Shallen talked about what brought her to Yellowstone that summer. Andrew talked about his travels abroad. Shallen asked him how he ended up learning Mandarin. 'Shallen remembers that I high fived her on a couple things we talked about that we had in common but I can't remember exactly what they were,' says Andrew. There was an easy camaraderie between them right away. Shallen says at this point it was 'more bonding than flirting.' But she felt 'like I've known this person for a long time.' A self-confessed introvert, Shallen usually took a while to open up to someone. 'But for him… I didn't feel uncomfortable. We just talk and talk,' says Shallen. 'As for me, I like talking to new people, but I don't really connect deeply with people very often,' says Andrew. 'With her, it just clicked. It felt like a really good connection. I liked the way she talked about everything. I could tell that she was a really curious person.' As the conversation turned to Yellowstone's beauty, Andrew mentioned a spot called Artist Point, a cliffside viewing area. 'It wasn't particularly scenic at the ice-cream store itself so we drove over to Artist Point, which is an incredible view,' he says. Andrew drove them over there, in his brother's truck. They talked the whole way. At Artist Point, the two stood side-by-side, surveying the view of the cascading waterfall, framed by red rocks, still deep in conversation. 'We talked about the beauty of Yellowstone,' says Andrew. 'For me it was more commonplace since I grew up in the mountains and had been to Yellowstone multiple times but I remember being impressed and enthralled with how much Shallen appreciated it.' Then, their conversation was disrupted by a a passing family, who asked Andrew and Shallen if they'd take a photo of them. The family turned out to the from the Philippines. 'We ended up speaking Tagalog with each other for a bit,' recalls Andrew. 'They then offered to take a picture of us, which I thought would be a little odd since it was our first date, but Shallen was very chill and said okay. I'm glad she was chill and said yes because now we have that picture of our first date.' Picture taken, Shallen and Andrew turned their attention back to each other. 'We were having a really good conversation. I don't think either of us wanted it to be over. And then my sister texted me and said that my family was making peach cobbler,' recalls Andrew. Without overthinking, Andrew asked Shallen if she'd like to join the family get-together. 'I didn't know what peach cobbler is, and I'm a sweet tooth. And he explained. I was like, 'Of course, I'm gonna come,'' says Shallen. 'And all I think about is the dessert. I didn't think about I will meet his entire family.' 'So she met my family on the first date,' says Andrew. In the moment, his priority was just continuing the connection with Shallen. But he had no qualms about introducing his ice cream date to his loved ones. 'I have a really warm family, and my mom was smitten with her, right away,' says Andrew. Looking back, Shallen suggests part of this enthusiasm was Andrew's mother hoping her Mormon son would 'meet someone that's outside of the church and then just pull him out.' 'She also just liked you,' says Andrew to Shallen today. In between bites of peach cobbler, Andrew's siblings and extended family welcomed Shallen into an environment Andrew describes as 'chaotic but always warm.' 'My sister had brought her dogs and my nephew was chasing them around the campsite. My little niece was 7 months old at the time and my sister-in-law or my sister was like 'here, hold the baby,' to Shallen,' recalls Andrew. Shallen loved babies so she was unpertubred. She held her while Andrew's family got the cobbler ready. And later, when the McGowans posed for a family photo, they encouraged Shallen to join them in the shot. For Shallen, the whole affair was a bit surreal. But she tried not to overthink it. She felt happy, relaxed and welcomed. 'I'm just having the best time,' she recalls thinking. She also felt like she'd never experienced an evening quite like this back home in Taiwan. 'My family is very traditional and very protective,' Shallen explains. 'They will never let me do anything like this. Even though I'm already an adult, but in Taiwan, a lot of times it's like, 'Oh, you're in your 20s, you're still a kid.'' But that evening, Shallen felt a sense of freedom. 'I can do things that I choose to do, and I'm having this great connection with the guy I just met,' she recalls thinking. As the night wound to a close, Andrew's family retreated to their tents to sleep. But Andrew and Shallen stayed up by the campfire, chatting. 'We ended up just staying out and talking,' says Andrew. 'We took my brother-in-law's truck, and we went stargazing for a bit.' 'So our first date, it was like, six, seven hours long,' says Shallen. 'It was more than that,' says Andrew. 'We stayed out until 2 a.m.' The next day, Andrew was set to leave Yellowstone. He and Shallen exchanged phone numbers before he left. And while they'd both had a great time — an incredible time — Shallen says she wasn't thinking 'too much of it.' 'Because I was like, 'Well, at the end of my job, I'm going to go back to Taiwan, you're going to stay here,'' she says. 'I hadn't thought that it's going to go anywhere. But he came up again in August for a camping trip.' 'I came up to see her,' says Andrew. On this trip, Shallen introduced Andrew to her gang of Yellowstone work friends, and the group enjoyed a campfire and evening swim in the park's Firehole River. 'We were jumping in and having a really good time. It was really fun,' says Shallen. Shallen and Andrew felt an even stronger bond on this second visit. 'We had more connection,' Shallen says. 'And my friends all liked him.' A few weeks later, Shallen returned the favor and visited Utah to meet Andrew's friends — who couldn't quite believe she was real. 'His friends, they thought he was lying,' she says, laughing. 'Like, 'How do you meet someone in Yellowstone, just like that?'' 'They all liked her,' says Andrew. 'They all thought she was hilarious.' But then, just like that, summer was over. Andrew and Shallen were both in their early 20s. Still at college. From opposite sides of the globe. It wasn't obvious what their path forward could be. 'I was more like, 'Let's make this work.' She was more like, 'Let's just see what happens,'' recalls Andrew. It was the same sentiment — more or less. Andrew felt things deeply. When he was sure about something, he was sure about it. Shallen was more cautious. And she was sure her family back in Taiwan wouldn't approve of the relationship. 'One part of me is like, if I go home, I know my family would have all the disapproval,' she says. 'Which they actually did.' But Shallen was falling for Andrew. She loved spending time with him, and loved the idea of a future with him, even if she wasn't sure what it would look like. So, Shallen agreed, they should stay in touch. 'I went back to Taiwan, and we began our long-distance relationship,' says Shallen. The two navigated the multi-hour time difference as best as they could, organizing video calls, sending instant messages. 'I would call her early in the morning as she was getting ready for bed,' recalls Andrew. And for the next nine months, Andrew and Shallen communicated from afar. Meanwhile, Andrew started saving up 'as much money as I could' to buy a plane ticket to Taiwan. 'I worked two jobs, as a carpenter for a friends' construction company and then as a youth mentor at a boys home for kids that were in state custody,' he recalls. In the summer of 2014, Andrew reunited with Shallen in Taiwan. 'I loved Taiwan because it's this semi-tropical, verdant, agricultural paradise,' he says. 'I grew up in a smaller town, farming, and I've always had this fascination with the green things of the world. Taiwan was just this beautiful island, so there was a lot of natural beauty there. And then because I grew up in a smaller town, I was really impressed with the cities, how they function… You can take public transport everywhere.' Whenever Andrew and Shallen were together, eating out in Taipei or hiking in the countryside, things were easy. They also went to the Philippines for a little while, and Andrew showed Shallen where he'd lived. They felt closer than ever. But Andrew's interactions with Shallen's family were more complicated. They made it clear that Andrew wasn't what they'd envisaged for Shallen. 'My family's standard is like, 'Oh, did he graduate yet? Does he own his own house?'' says Shallen. 'It's very traditional East Asian culture. So, my mom's like 'Yeah, this would just be child's play.'' Andrew was intimidated by Shallen's family of academic high achievers. 'Her mom is, like, this really accomplished person in the finance industry,' he says. 'When we met, her mom was like, 'Okay, I guess I'll take you around.' I think at that point she was like. 'All right. I have to deal with this.' 'So, she takes me golfing, takes me to a driving range, and I've never golfed before…she's trying to teach me. I think she thought I was pretty dumb or something, I don't know, because I could not get it.' When Andrew finally managed to hit a ball properly for the first time 'it flew up over the fence, and it came down and it hit a golf cart.' It turned out one of Shallen's mother's friends was in said golf cart. 'And they're like this, this dumb American or this dumb foreigner hit my golf cart,' recalls Andrew. While bonding with Shallen's family was a little tricky, Shallen's friends liked Andrew right away. 'Her friends always had fun because I really tried to learn Mandarin,' he recalls. 'You also have a gift of learning languages,' says Shallen to Andrew today. 'I don't think anyone could just pick up Mandarin like that. But he's also very curious all that time. So, he had questions, and he's funny, making all of us laugh… All my friends liked you.' Post-vacation, in a quest to spend more time with Shallen, Andrew applied for a semester abroad studying Mandarin at Taipei Normal University's Mandarin Training Center. He enrolled in January 2015. 'That's when things became more serious,' says Shallen. 'He moved in with me in my apartment.' The couple started talking about marriage for the first time. They discussed the idea of Shallen moving to the US. 'And that's when her family was like, 'Absolutely not,'' recalls Andrew. After many difficult and tense conversations, Shallen made the decision to disregard her parents' pushback. 'We didn't get my family's approval,' she says. 'So we just eloped.' 'We were like, 'They're not going to support us, but we have to do what we want and what makes us happy,'' says Andrew. 'And so, we were like, 'Yeah, we're gonna get married anyways.'' In the summer of 2015, two years after they first met in Yellowstone, Andrew and Shallen eloped in the hills above the Utah town where Andrew grew up. 'The ceremony itself was really small,' says Andrew. 'My closest friends helped me carry up tables for food and blankets for people to sit on. I think we had like 20 people there in total.' While it was a special day, there were mixed emotions at play. Shallen was saddened by her family's absence. Andrew's family wasn't there either, but they wholeheartedly supported his decision to marry Shallen. Shallen, meanwhile, felt conscious she was breaking from her family's expectations. She was unsure what her relationship with them would look like in the future. 'I get really emotional when I talk about my family,' she says today. But Shallen and Andrew were excited to start a new chapter together. And in time, Shallen's family came round to her decision to marry Andrew. 'My mom was like, 'Okay, my daughter is not coming back to me,'' recalls Shallen. 'She went to this Chinese fortune teller… and got both our birthdays matched. And the guy actually told her, 'They match really well. They're going to have their differences. But they always work it out.' And so because of the fortune teller, my mom's like, 'Okay, I guess that's okay.'' In 2016, a year after their elopement, Andrew and Shallen — who took Andrew's name following her wedding, becoming Shallen McGowan — celebrated their marriage with a big party in Utah. Andrew's family were all in attendance. And this time around, many of Shallen's loved ones were present too. 'My mom, my brother, his wife, and their one-year-old baby; they flew here and two of my best friends came,' says Shallen. During these celebrations, Shallen and Andrew referenced their first date in Yellowstone: 'The catering that we hired…' begins Andrew. '… Half of it's ice cream,' laughs Shallen. This day also marked a moment of healing for Shallen and Andrew, as they spent the day celebrating with Shallen's loved ones. 'Now her family's come to terms with it, and they see how happy we are,' says Andrew. 'And we also have really cute kids, like really cute kids, and so you know, you can't complain about that.' Andrew and Shallen welcomed their two children in 2017 and 2019. When their second child was born, they left Utah and moved to California. Over time, Andrew also distanced himself from the Mormon religion he grew up with, before leaving the church altogether. Moving to California allowed the couple to find a new community. 'We're in a very multicultural place, and so it's better for both of us,' says Andrew. 'And better for our kids,' adds Shallen. Their love of their children is a big unifier for Andrew and Shallen. 'We said, 'We're going to have our family. It's going to be us and our kids, and that's going to be what matters the most to us,'' says Andrew. When it comes to raising their children, and navigating life together, Shallen and Andrew pride themselves on working as a team. 'We work things out, we try to see each other and see how we can help each other grow,' Shallen says. While Andrew views the moment he saw Shallen as love at first sight, as fate intervening, he also stresses their romance is an active choice. 'I think in some ways the universe chose us for each other, but we did ultimately make the choice of each other,' he says. 'And then we've made choices to respect and care about our relationship with each other and value that.' The result, he says, is they're very connected. 'I feel like she's an extension of me, and I'm an extension of her,' he says. 'And we're able to work together.' And whenever summer rolls around, the couple remember their first date. 'When we eat ice cream, we definitely think about it,' says Shallen. Shallen and Andrew also took their kids to Yellowstone a few years back. 'We told them, 'This is where we first met,'' says Shallen. 'It was very cute.' While their children were too little to take in the significance of the moment, for Shallen and Andrew, it was special. They hiked to Artist Point, and looked over the waterfall and views, thinking of the hours-long first date, and of the moment they first spoke to one another in the general store. 'Walking in and seeing her, like I said for me it was love at first sight,' says Andrew. 'I obviously couldn't see where our journey would take us, and I couldn't see where life was going to take us… but if I could go back, I would do it 100 times over. I mean, even with the difficult things, even with the hard things, 100 times over, I would do it again.'
Yahoo
11-06-2025
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"It's Basically A Cult Town": 24 Places Across The U.S. That People Deem "The Most Unsettling"
A hot minute ago, Reddit user Bennevada asked the folks over on r/AskReddit to share the little towns across America they've passed through that gave them the creeps. From abandoned ghost towns to cities stuck in the past, here are 24 of the most bone-chilling places they shared: Hey, you! Have you visited or passed through a town in the US that was so eerie, you won't ever forget it? Tell us about it in the comments or anonymous form at the end of this article. Note: The following submissions are simply the opinions of these Reddit users from the previously mentioned thread, as well as these three (1, 2, 3) similar ones. If you're from one of these towns and think they got it all wrong, set the record straight in the comments! 1."Tonopah, NV. It's on the north end of the Tonopha missile range and Area 51. It's the beginning of nowhere and is home to the world's largest Clown Motel. The only reason to stop is for gas, then get TF outta there as quickly as possible." —littlebitstoned AK: "The entire population lives in a single apartment building, and the only access to the town is by boat or a 2.5-mile tunnel." —WeOwntheNightX Whittier has about 200 residents, almost all of whom live in the Begich Towers. TX: "We detoured through it due to a road closure. The residents hung white sheets saying, 'Don't stop' and 'Go that way.' They seem to have lots of white sheets..." —whatyoucallmetoday "I did some engineering co-op assignments in the Golden Triangle area (Beaumont, Orange, Port Arthur) back in the early '90s. Everyone I worked with warned me to never stop in Vidor for any reason. I took their advice to heart. They said the town's claim to fame was being the former national headquarters for the KKK, and that there was a billboard on the stretch of I-10 that passed through Vidor that would occasionally get spray painted with the message '*n-word*, don't let the sun go down on you in Vidor.'" —underpants-gnome 4."Los Alamos, NM: Lots of land surrounded by barbed wire. Signs EVERYWHERE indicating 'No drones allowed.' Weirdly quiet. Pretty much everything closed at 3 p.m. We joked that it must be to give people time to get inside before all the radioactive monsters came out. A lot of the labs and facilities are still active for, I assume, reasons." —knittinator City, AZ: "Me and some friends were driving up to Duck Creek, UT from Vegas in winter and had to go in the back way via 89. This route takes you through Colorado City, Arizona, which is Mormon territory and about the creepiest place I've ever been. We had to stop for gas and we were watched like we were being hunted." —thai-stik-admin "I came here to see if anyone posted about this place. I stopped in there on my way to the north rim of The Grand Canyon back in 1999. This is not just Mormons, but Warren Jeffs's polygamous sect. I went into the grocery store to get supplies. All the young women wore 19th-century style clothes and would not look me in the face when they spoke to me. They tried to establish a compound in Texas several years later and Jess was arrested. Their idea of marriage was 50-year-old men marrying 12-year-old girls." —Troubador222 "So many polygamists. You can feel how unwelcome you are as you enter the town. We stopped there once on a family trip to get gas. A police officer immediately parked behind us and wanted to know where we were going and how long we were going to be in his town. He didn't leave until we did and he followed us until we got to the town border. We never stopped there again. It's basically a cult town." —ProfessorBrownie 6."The Loneliest Road" (Route 50), NV: "I went on the 'loneliest road' in Nevada, and it truly gave me a sense of scale for America as a place. In Europe, you simply cannot go that distance without encountering multiple massive cities. Where I live, every square cm of land has been apportioned for centuries, and then you go to Nevada, and it's And you have actual warnings telling you to fill up your car or else." —Ok-Commercial8968 St. Helens area, WA: "If you're adventurous and have a truck, you can find the old forest service roads on the side of Mt. St. Helens that got blown out by the eruption. I found them at night driving through there on a whim. Old forest service signs with half of the sign melted or blown off, completely overgrown roads, muddy trails, and absolutely no light. It was a clear sky with a full moon and, I shit you not, I couldn't see more than 50 feet ahead of me with the brights on. Eeriest shit I've explored, and I grew up exploring abandoned asylums and prisons. 14/10, absolute recommend." —Beautiful-Page3135 Related: "Something In My Head Said, 'Don't Get Up'": 16 Older Adults Reveal The Wildest Supernatural Encounters From Their Childhood 8."Centralia, PA: An underground coal fire drove out most of the population, so it's essentially an abandoned town. It was the inspiration for how Silent Hill is depicted in the first Silent Hill movie." —rookhelm An underground mine fire has been burning beneath the town since at least 1962. While most of the small town's residents have fled since then, a handful have remained. 9."Harrison, AR: It has billboards for White Power Radio. I had heard about it on the internet but had forgotten until some friends and I went camping on the Buffalo River. It's 100% legit." —pickleparty16 Haw, OH: "I've driven through it four times. Every single time it's the same story. Cars parked on the sides of the road, but no traffic. Doors wide open, but nobody is visible. No music, no people. Legitimately saw a ball roll across the street once and nobody could have thrown it. It looks like everyone who lives there disappears whenever I drive through, and then spontaneously, they reappear when I leave." —GNSasakiHaise *** Salton Sea area, CA: "The area around the Salton Sea in Southern California — particularly the upper half of the western shore, towns like Salton City, Desert Shores, and Oasis. I actually quite enjoyed the people there. Back in the 1960s, a bunch of resort towns popped up along the sea. In the 1980s, agricultural runoff severely polluted the sea. There were also wild variations in the salinity of the sea, and those two factors combined to kill off a ton of the sea's fish. The dead fish washed up on shore, the sight and smell of which pretty well killed the tourism industry. What remains is an ecological disaster and a bunch of not-quite ghost towns. "It's a really eerie corner of the world, and as someone who's spent a lot of time in tiny back towns across the western states, the Salton Sea area is definitely unique in my memory." —MasteringTheFlames of Tears Road, GA: "My wife and I drove on it, and it was a beautiful, sunny day when we made the turn. As soon as we were on the road, it started raining, and the weather got worse and worse until it was like driving in a hurricane. Then, as soon as we got to the end of the road and turned onto the highway, the skies cleared up and it was a beautiful, sunny day again. Super weird experience, and now years later, when strange things happen in the world, we joke with each other that it's all a dream and we're still trapped on Trail of Tears Road." —brickhamilton Related: Adults Are Sharing Their "I Can't Believe I Have To Explain This To Another Adult" Stories, And I Need A Break From Life After Reading These MO: "A few years ago, I got lost in rural Missouri. Super lost. Like, back county roads lost. So I got directions from a gas station where the worker was super pissed I wouldn't buy his overpriced map. He gave me directions, and I followed them down this backroad and ended up in Skidmore. It was like 2 p.m. and completely dead. Not a single person around. Mostly older houses, a run-down downtown, a new post office, that kind of thing. I was suddenly filled with dread. Like, Stephen King dread. There's trash blowing everywhere and there's just nobody. I drive by the library, and it's pretty much abandoned. There are oversized books in the window, and they're completely swollen from what I assume was water." "So I made it out of town and kept heading on my way, finally making it safely to my destination. Later on, I Googled the town, and what I found was wild. For a small town, it was full of gruesome murders, like one woman murdering another pregnant woman to get her baby, a guy terrorizing the entire town to the point where they just all kill him in the street, and murders from the 1800s. That kind of thing. It creeped me out more than any other place on three continents I've been on." —Vio_ d'Alene, ID: "Stopped at the visitor's center, while passing through Coeur d'Alene. On the way through town, we passed by multiple breweries and interesting places to stop for lunch, but there seemed to be an odd feeling about the place. We chatted with the people at the visitor center while my friend went to use the restroom. When she came back, she changed her mind about staying in town for lunch. She had found out that Coeur d'Alene is home to a major compound for the Aryan Nations. We realized, as we left, that there were not any non-white people walking around downtown." —Grigio_cervello Tree, CA: "As someone who lives in a big city, I thought the desert was creepy as hell. I absolutely loved Joshua Tree, but it was hard for me to fall asleep. It's completely silent out there at night." —AmericanWasted WA: "Creepiest place I've been is Forks, WA, and the areas around it. Almost constant cloud cover, all the locals seem to know something you don't, and knowing you're on the tippy top left of the states feels strange." —PineTreeGorgon 17."Edgefield, SC: A friend and I had to drive through there on a long excursion to the only Gamestop in the area that had a part for his Xbox. We first got there during the day, and there wasn't a soul on the streets. This was a Friday afternoon, and the streets were dead. Grocery store parking lot? Empty. Gas station? No customers. Sidewalks? Barren. Traffic? Non-existent. Add to that a general feeling of spookiness and we were pretty glad to put it behind us. Later, returned from where we'd been going and had to go through Edgefield again, this time at night. The town was fucking jumping. Cars all over the place, the stores full, people walking around. "When I got home, I hit Google out of curiosity, and the first thing to autocomplete was 'Edgefield SC Vampire.' Not going back to Edgefield if I can help it." —PowerSkunk92 GA: "Lots and lots of really creepy places — graveyards, many tight walkways in the historic district with no lights, and lots and lots of swamp land. It is said to be one of the most haunted cities in the USA." —HunterRoze 19."Vineland, NJ: A utopian sober town known as the home of Welch's Grape Juice. NJ's largest city by area but, it only has only 60,000 people. Strange 'planned' city with huge spaces between buildings, ridiculously wide streets, and everything out of normal proportion." —tpatmaho IL: "Driving through there was like going through a town in the Walking Dead. No people around, all the buildings are decrepit and worn down." —ArguingPizza NV: "It's a semi-ghost town and remnants from the old west. Time seems to stand still there in that old mining town." —g6paulson Outer Banks, NC: "They felt surreal to too flat." —manicpixidreamgirl04 "The Outer Banks in the winter feels like they are lost in time and space, it's VERY eerie." —StrangePondWoman CA: "I had to drive through it in the dead of night due to a bad accident closing part of the 15 freeway on the way to Vegas. It looks like something out of a bad '80s horror movie." —Additional-Software4 finally, New Orleans, LA: "The entire city has an ethereal vibe and it just feels haunted. Lots of creepy and unexplained events have happened there throughout history and people go a little wild there (in my opinion). I personally love the place, but I couldn't live there because it would make me mental after a while." —None Now it's your turn! Have you visited or passed through a town in the US that was so eerie, you won't ever forget it? Tell us about it in the comments or anonymous form below and you just might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community article. Also in Internet Finds: People Who Never Believed In The Supernatural Are Revealing What Made Them Change Their Minds, And I'm Terrified Also in Internet Finds: "The Job Is A Complete Joke": People Are Revealing Professions That Are Wayyyyy Too Respected, And I Want To Know If You Agree Also in Internet Finds: "It Was Driving Everyone Bonkers With Mystery": 49 Times The Internet Came Together To Identify Weird Items That Had Everyone Completely Stumped
