How I Learned About Homemaking From a Couple of Birds
I've never had much of a sense of home. Before the age of 21, I'd moved house roughly 20 times, from the army base in West Germany where I was born to YMCA housing in southern England in my late teens. My itinerant childhood gave me itchy feet as an adult. Wherever I landed, I'd soon feel pulled toward the next place, and then the next.
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State pension mistake means nearly 200,000 owed up to £31,000
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I Thought The Turbie Twist Towel Was a Waste of Money. Then I Had Brain Surgery.
I was watching reruns at my grandma's house when I saw a commercial for the Turbie Twist Microfiber Hair Towel for the first time. It was sometime in the early 2000s, and as a self-conscious preteen just starting to care about my looks, I was immediately captivated by the lightweight, tapered towels and the beautiful women wrapping their hair with them. By the end of the ad, I was convinced that this fitted hair towel was a necessity. When the 'buy now' number flashed at the bottom of the screen, I sat up straight and called out to my mom. 'I need one of those,' I announced with the kind of conviction only a bratty 12-year-old could muster. My mom, used to my antics, just rolled her eyes and said, 'No, you don't, we have towels at home.' I sat with my mom's words, turning them over in my head. She was right. We did have towels at home, and I'd been using them for as long as I could remember to dry my hair after a shower. I decided right then and there that a towel designed specifically for your hair was an unnecessary extravagance, even if this commercial tried to convince me otherwise. For nearly 20 years, I held on staunchly to this belief. Why buy a towel I can only use for my hair when I could easily twist a body towel (that I already own!) into a hair-wringing turban? Then, I had brain surgery, and suddenly the Turbie Twist became something I simply couldn't live without. Designed with a tapered shape and elastic loop for a secure fit, this hair towel is made from quick-drying microfiber that cuts down on frizz, prevents breakage, and stays put without the bulk of a traditional towel. $20 from Amazon (pack of two) If you've used a body towel to wrap up your hair after a shower, you're probably familiar with the process: You have to bend at the waist and flip your head forward so that your damp hair hangs upside down. 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I tilt just my head forward so my wet hair hangs freely and gather it into the skinny end of the towel. I twist the towel (and my hair) until it feels snug, then bring the twisted end up and over my head, securing it by threading it through the elastic loop on the wider end of the towel. Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter As an extra precaution, while I still had staples in my head, I wore the Turbie Twist backwards. I didn't want my hair hanging over my staples, afraid that it could potentially get twisted in the metal and irritate the surgery site. So, I positioned the wider end of the towel against my forehead rather than the base of my neck, and twisted the length of my wet hair into the skinny end. Then I brought it up over the back of my head, securing the end in the elastic loop. The correct way to wear the Turbie Twist is pictured on the left; on the right is how I modified it to accommodate my surgery staples. 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Curious to see how other brands compared, I ordered a set of three Hicober hair towels, an affordable option with mostly positive reviews on Amazon. I wasn't impressed when they arrived: Though they were the same shape and length as the Turbie Twist, the Hicober towels were made of a thicker material that took a lot longer to dry. I also found Hicober towels harder to secure; you have to loop the elastic around a button, which requires a lot of fiddling. The Turbie Twist towel (top) and the Hicober hair towel (bottom). Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter The Turbie Twist material (left) is thinner, while the Hicober towel material (right) is fluffier and less absorbent. Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter The Turbie Twist towel (top) and the Hicober hair towel (bottom). Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter If you had asked me a year ago, I would have told you the Turbie Twist is an unnecessary waste of money. And unless you are having brain surgery, it really may not be a necessity. 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