Wayne Carey's ex posts brutal video mocking him and reveals what she really thinks of his toilet scandal

Daily Mail​

19-07-2025

Kate Neilson, the ex-partner of AFL 'bad boy' Wayne Carey, has brutally mocked his viral toilet tryst video.
On Wednesday, footy great Carey confessed that he was the man in the viral footage that featured him and a woman emerging from a bathroom in a trendy Melbourne bar.
Kate, who was in a fractious four-year relationship with Carey, took to Instagram on Saturday to brutally roast her former flame.
She shared a clip that showed her re-enacting the viral video while on holiday in Italy.
The video showed Kate emerging from a public toilet, covering her face.
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The clip was set to the Bloodhound Gang tune The Bad Touch, while Neilson added another not-so-subtle dig at Carey with a duck emoji - the AFL star's nickname.
Neilson said she hoped the video was merely a misunderstanding.
'It's really too hard to tell what went on. I just hope for the sake of everyone involved there is no truth to it,' she said.
Neilson and Carey's relationship came to a head in 2007, when the premiership winner was accused of smashing a glass into her face as the pair were having dinner at a restaurant in Miami.
He was arrested and charged by police and later pleaded guilty to two counts of battery on a law enforcement officer and one count of resisting arrest with violence.
Neilson decided not to press charges against him over the incident, and Carey was ordered to perform 50 hours of community service, attend classes to manage his anger and alcohol consumption, and pay money to a police charity.
Carey is now in a relationship with Jessica Paulke, and the couple share two children.
Wayne confessed he was the man in the viral video that featured him and a woman emerging from a bathroom.
The North Melbourne premiership winner said he had contacted Victoria Police in an effort to hold those who filmed and distributed the video accountable for their actions.
The footage, which was taken at the Toorak Cellars bar in Armadale in the city's inner south-east, shows Wayne and Kate Aston, 38, a Melbourne marketing and communications executive, walking into view about 20 seconds apart.
A female voice is heard saying 'we've got you on camera' as the woman walks past, before asking 'What's he doing in there?' and remarking, 'She looks embarrassed'.
Wayne and Aston have both lashed out over the video, with the ex-AFL star branding it 's**t shaming' and cyberbullying, and both parties insisting there was no 'tryst' in the toilets.
'Annoyed is the wrong word, I've gone through about 10 different emotions in the last three days,' he said on Sam Newman's You Cannot Be Serious podcast.
'I've gone through disbelief, sadness, anger.
'This woman has been thrown into this just because I could kick a footy.'
'And you've got two vile, disturbing, probably p**sed women who want to do this to another woman.
'That's all they were doing, they were s**t-shaming another woman.
'If two men had done that they would be raked over hot coals, it would be the biggest story going around.
'But because it's two women doing it to another woman… you don't know what's going on, this other woman has had all sorts of stuff going in her life, I've since found out.
'You talk about vile and disgusting, what they've done and who they have affected by a few sh**s and giggles drinking their chardonnay, sitting up there, doing whatever.
'Once again, I'm not going to name them because that would be as pathetic as what they are. I'll let the law take care of it.'
Meanwhile, Aston has described the dissemination of the clip as 'a deliberate act of bullying'.
She posted a lengthy statement to Instagram Stories on Thursday, revealing she had initially chosen to remain silent to protect her professional reputation and her mental health, but had now come forward to hold those who released the video to account - and to set the record straight.
'Overnight, from footage of me simply exiting a toilet at a bar, I've had my life turned upside down,' she wrote.
'What has happened to me could happen to anyone, and no one should have to go through what I have been put through – the damage, the speculation, the impact on my livelihood, all from the malicious actions of a small few.'
Aston said she fears the impact the video will have on her future, her career - and even her personal relationships.
'At a time when I am navigating my next career move and visibility matters, the personal and professional toll has been immense,' she said.
'Who would want to employ me, date me, be associated with me? What's left now that this has all happened to me?'
The executive indicated she would be taking legal action over the matter.
'Whilst it's only been a matter of days since this incident unfolded, there has been immeasurable damage to my reputation, and my ability to lead a normal life has been adversely affected,' she said.
'These women and others who've provided hateful commentary have put into jeopardy my reputation, and so I've been left with no choice but to try to protect it.
'Two women not known to me have turned my life upside down and I have to set the record straight.'