Woman Is Fed Up with Mother-in-Law on 2-Week Vacation, Says She's 'Driving Me Insane' with Days Left
A woman on a two-week vacation with her mother-in-law says she's had enough — and she still has a few days left
In an anonymous post on Reddit, the woman writes that her mother-in-law is judgmental and critical
Her husband, meanwhile, says his mom is "old" and there's nothing that can be doneA woman updating the internet on a two-week vacation with her mother-in-law says she is at her limit with just a few days left on the trip.
In a since-deleted post shared to Reddit, the anonymous woman offers a slew of examples of how her mother-in-law is "using her sweet old lady card to say insane things and act controlling knowing we can't really say anything (she is 74)."
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The mother-in-law "non-stop badmouths" her other daughter-in-law, "judging her diet, shopping habits, the way she raises, feeds, dresses her children, etc." She also judges strangers, complaining about families who bring babies to the beach or women who breastfeed in public.
"There are so many other little things that are slowly driving me insane and causing problems between me and my husband," she adds in the post. "When I bring it up with him he says he understands she is annoying but that she is old and we can't do anything. I am not sure what that means because she is quite sharp and shows no mental decline, so that's not an excuse."
She continues: "I also believe she is nice to me only because I haven't given her anything yet, and that things will change when we have a baby or if I start setting boundaries or shutting her down."
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Reddit commenters are weighing in, with many advising the woman to set boundaries now — before it's too late.
"You need to create boundaries and get your husband on board before you have children. So many stories on this sub are grandmothers deciding how the children are raised and their sons are like 'that's just how she is,' " writes one.
Adds another: "She's trying to 'train' you to allow her to be this. She's already trained your husband."
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