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Yahoo
07-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Help! I Love Everything About My Partner. But I'm Afraid to Tell My Parents What He Does for Work.
Hi Advice readers! Have you ever thought about writing into Prudie? Now's the time—our inbox is in need of more questions! Conundrums big and small are welcome, and of course, it's anonymous. Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we're diving into the Dear Prudence archives to share classic letters with our readers. Dear Prudence, I'm in my early 20s and dating a sex worker. I love our relationship, and I am happy he is doing something he takes pleasure in and is proud of. I'm personally comfortable with his job. We talk a lot about it and he is extremely transparent about his activities. But some people in my life that I have told have been uncomfortable, and I'm dreading telling my parents. I know they won't react well but I don't want to force him to lie about a part of his life he is proud of. I tend to care too much about what people think, and others' judgment of my partner tends to affect me quite a bit. Is it something I should stop the relationship over? I'm afraid of being unjust to him by 'hiding' this part of him to some of the people around me. —Dating a Sex Worker Dear Dating, I think the first person to discuss this with is your partner! Does he want you to tell your parents about his work, or is it possible you're putting the cart before the horse here? Plenty of people are upfront about their sex work but aren't in any rush to disclose it to a new partner's parents, so I wonder if it's as high up on his list of priorities as it is on yours. This is likely not the first time he's had to consider the possibility of dealing with the reaction of his partner's relatives, so he may have his own set of interests, his own plans for a cover story, etc., and you should seek to learn more about them first. If you're absolutely convinced that you'll fold under the weight of your parents' disapproval, should you ever discuss your partner's work with them, and that you'll be unable to defend and support your partner in such a situation, then that's worth discussing with him now. But that's a discussion to be had, not reason to unilaterally end things because you've already run the various possible scenarios in your mind and determined all outcomes in advance. You may decide to break up over this, or you may find an unexpected resolve somewhere within your spirit and realize you're capable of proudly avowing your own decisions and values even if your parents cast a stern eye over you. Some worthwhile questions for the future: Do you care 'too much' about what all other people think, or are there specific people whose opinions you traditionally give a lot of extra weight to? Do you just defer to whomever you spoke to most recently? Whomever seems the most upset? If they invoke feelings of shame and repression? What's happened in the past when you've pushed back against your parents' disapproval? Have you ever pushed back? Might you ever like to push back against something in the future, and if so, how will you separate your fear of punishment or disapproval from your sense of yourself? Perhaps more immediately pressing—do you consider sex work a question of 'personal comfort,' where it's fine for you to respect your boyfriend as an individual but equally fine for someone else to potentially demean, as long as that's within the limits of their own 'personal comfort'? —Danny M. Lavery From: Help! My Friend Lost Several Pregnancies. How Do I Tell Her I'm Happily Expecting? (March 15, 2021). Dear Prudence, My boyfriend and I have fundamental philosophical differences regarding the treatment of guests. As an example, he thinks it's weird and fake that I go through extra effort to clean the apartment before we have a guest come to stay. I think it's a common courtesy? He also gets offended if I put guests' needs before his—for example, if I'm not free to do something he wants to do because I'm hosting someone from out of town. Some of our biggest fights have been about this! This was one factor in our decision that he should move out of our shared apartment and that we should take it slow as we try to figure out if we're compatible as a couple. But now I'm not so sure, because his move-out date coincided with—you guessed it!—a visit from a friend, which had been planned for months. He knew this upfront, and I tried to help him pack before she arrived. No dice; there was always something better for him to do. So, on the day of his move, I had planned to be showing my friend the sights of the city. All day I got guilt-inducing texts about how sad he is about leaving our apartment and how he has no help moving. In his mind, I should have left my friend to her own devices for a few hours so I could be there to give him emotional support. I get that it's an emotionally fraught situation—I was an emotional wreck at the thought of him leaving, too—but I feel that this would have been super rude of me. He only thinks about his own feelings and not my friend's or about what a ridiculously awkward social situation he's put me in. Part of me wants to drop him like a hot potato, but part of me still really cares about him. Am I stupid to want to try and make this relationship work? —Boyfriend Doesn't 'Get' Guests Dear Guests, Just as an aside, I would love to know what your boyfriend thinks is 'fake' about cleaning an apartment before a guest arrives! 'This dirt is really authentic to our relationship, and I want Moira to really get that during her visit.' But to answer your question: The only thing 'fake' here is the self-created nonemergency your boyfriend is trying to guilt you over. The date of his moving out was not a surprise, you tried to help him for months, he chose to prioritize other things, and now, like the grasshopper and the ants, he's trying to make you feel bad for his failure to plan. When I was a kid, I used to ride horses. Invariably the kind of brisk, super-together women who ran the stables had signs on their offices with whimsical-yet-no-nonsense slogans like 'A failure to plan on your part does not constitute an emergency on mine' and 'I can only please one person per day. Today is not your day. Tomorrow is not looking good either.' I lived in terror of displeasing them, and I hope they all live to be 100 years old. Channel a bit of these horsewomen's energy as you try to continue your relationship in separate houses. Is he interested in being your partner, in supporting you even when he doesn't feel the same way about a particular situation? Or is he interested in making you feel unreasonable for wanting to have guests and letting him take responsibility for his own choices? If it's the latter, well, you can still care about him while also letting that hot potato serve as your guide. —D. M. L. From: Help! I'm Worried My Engagement Ring Is Cursed. (Dec. 04, 2018). Dear Prudence, I have a sister who is famous and who has not spoken to me since our mother died. We have a bad relationship because my mother and I decided not to pay for her college tuition and room and board, and she was forced to get scholarships and work. My home burned down in a fire last October and I lost all my pictures. My sister has the only originals from my childhood. How can I ask her for copies in a way that does not alienate her further? I want copies for my family, not for any other reason. —Estranged Relative Dear Estranged, If you and your sister haven't spoken in years and you're only getting in touch to ask her a favor—even a relatively small and necessary one—then I think there's a limit to how much framing can help you get what you want. Prepare yourself for the possibility of hearing either nothing, or a 'No' followed by a series of recriminations, even if you ask in the kindest way imaginable. If you're able to accept that, then let her know you're not attempting to relitigate your past relationship and regret bothering her, but that you've lost all of your childhood photos in a fire and would be grateful if she'd be willing to share any copies, digital or otherwise, with you. —D. M. L. From: Help! Are We Too Old to Adopt? (Aug. 27, 2018). My boyfriend is completely emotionally and financially dependent on me. We've been together since we were 13 years old, and in a lot of ways I feel like I basically raised him. He's extremely loving and devoted and was my rock through a long, difficult period of my life, but I've reached a point where I'm tired of mothering him and I need him to act more like a partner than just a source of emotional support.
News18
18-06-2025
- Entertainment
- News18
Zayed Khan Had An Affair With Esha Deol After Marrying Malaika Parekh? Actor Reveals TRUTH
Zayed Khan refuted affair rumours and said that Esha Deol has been a buddy for him. Zayed Khan and Esha Deol have worked together in films like Chura Liyaa Hai Tumne, Dus and Cash, among others. As such, their frequent collaborations led to speculations about an affair. However, Zayed Khan has clarified that he was never romantically involved with Esha Deol. Speaking to Siddharth Kannan in a recent interview, Zayed said, 'No, I was never in a relationship with Esha Deol. We have done a lot of films together. I was always with my wife, Malaika, and Esha and Malaika have always been good friends. Esha is a sweetheart, and I don't want to say anything because she got married and all. She has been a buddy for life." For the unversed, Zayed Khan married his childhood sweetheart, Malaika Parekh, on November 20, 2005. The couple, who met in 1995 at Kodaikanal International School, have two sons: Zidaan, born in 2008, and Aariz, born in 2011. Meanwhile, Esha Deol's journey of finding love, getting married and getting a divorce has been quite public. Her relationship with businessman Bharat Takhtani began during their school years. After a brief teenage separation, they rekindled their romance and married on June 29, 2012, in a modest ceremony at the ISKCON temple in Mumbai. The couple has two daughters: Radhya and Miraya. In 2024, Esha and Bharat announced their separation, stating it was a mutual and amicable decision. They emphasised that the well-being of their children remained their top priority and requested privacy during this personal transition. Reflecting on their relationship, Esha shared insights in her book, Amma Mia: Stories, Advice, and Recipes from One Mother to Another. She mentioned that after the birth of their second daughter, Bharat became irritable and felt neglected due to her divided attention between their children, her book, and other commitments. Esha acknowledged these challenges and made efforts to reconnect, including planning date nights to rekindle their bond. Despite their separation, Esha and Bharat have maintained a respectful co-parenting relationship. Esha has emphasised the importance of setting aside personal differences for the sake of their children, ensuring they continue to receive love and stability from both parents. First Published: June 18, 2025, 18:00 IST
Cision Canada
22-05-2025
- Cision Canada
Wander Wisely: Safe Travel Advice for Three Bucket List Destinations Français
OTTAWA, ON, May 22, 2025 /CNW/ - Travelling outside Canada during the summer months and visiting your bucket list destinations can be the experience of a lifetime, especially if you've just spent the last 8 months with your nose in a textbook or working hard at your 9 to 5. Whether you're going on an extended solo backpacking adventure or taking a short vacation with friends or family, it's important to read the Travel Advice and Advisories for each destination you want to visit and take the necessary steps to ensure you have a safe and enjoyable trip. Here is some important information you can find on for popular bucket list destinations: Greece Wildfires are common between July and September throughout much of Greece. Make sure you consult weather forecasts and the latest information on fires ahead of your trip. Accidents involving tourists renting motorbikes, scooters or mopeds are common, especially on the islands. Use caution when selecting a rental company and drive carefully, especially on busy roads and on rough or uneven terrain. If you have or are eligible for Greek citizenship, you may be subject to compulsory military service. Before travelling to Greece, check with the Embassy of Greece in Canada to certify your status as residing permanently in Canada and for more information. Practise respect for cultural heritage and archaeological sites by understanding and following the laws and leaving sites undisturbed. Check out the Government of Canada's Travel Advice and Advisories for Greece for more information before setting out to explore Greece. Thailand The rainy season extends from June to October, so check the weather forecast and take precautions as flooding and mudslides could make travel difficult and reduce access to essential services. Keep in mind that it is illegal to import, possess, or use e-cigarettes and vapes, so leave them at home! It is also illegal to promote the consumption of alcohol, and you can be fined for posting pictures with alcohol on social media. If you plan on renting scooters or engaging in activities like zip-lining, rock climbing or parasailing, research and choose a well-established and reputable company. Make sure your travel insurance covers adventure tourism and includes helicopter rescue and medical evacuation. Check out the Government of Canada's Travel Advice and Advisories for Thailand for more information as you plan your getaway to Thailand. Costa Rica Hurricanes usually happen from mid-May to the end of November, with the rainy season sometimes continuing into January. Keep an eye on the latest weather forecasts and plan appropriately. If you are hoping to experience Costa Rica's rainforests, volcanoes, and more by visiting their national parks, research the entry requirements in advance as you may have to make a reservation online. Petty crime targeting tourists, such as theft, is very common. Make sure your belongings (including your passport) are secure, avoid showing signs of wealth, and always be aware of your surroundings. Check out the Government of Canada's Travel Advice and Advisories for Costa Rica for more information before you travel to Costa Rica. And remember, safety first! Get comprehensive travel insurance and read the fine print so you know what it does and does not cover. It's better to be safe than sorry! Stay in regular contact with your loved ones at home, and be clear about how often you'll be able to check in. Share your detailed itinerary and any changes, as well as contact information for your travel companions. Know the laws around illegal drugs, as consequences for possession, use or trafficking can be severe. Even if cannabis is legal at your destination, there may be restrictions on its use. Respect your visa expiry dates as overstaying could lead to fines, deportation and even immigration detention. Sign up for the Registration of Canadians Abroad service to be notified in case of an emergency at your destination or at home. You should also take note of the contact information for the Canadian office closest to your destination and the 24/7 Emergency Watch and Response Centre in Ottawa, as they can provide consular services (like replacing a passport!) and help your loved ones locate you if they are unable to reach you. Travelling abroad is an exciting and formative experience. Make it better by being prepared and staying informed!
Yahoo
22-05-2025
- Yahoo
Wander Wisely: Safe Travel Advice for Three Bucket List Destinations
OTTAWA, ON, May 22, 2025 /CNW/ - Travelling outside Canada during the summer months and visiting your bucket list destinations can be the experience of a lifetime, especially if you've just spent the last 8 months with your nose in a textbook or working hard at your 9 to 5. Whether you're going on an extended solo backpacking adventure or taking a short vacation with friends or family, it's important to read the Travel Advice and Advisories for each destination you want to visit and take the necessary steps to ensure you have a safe and enjoyable trip. Here is some important information you can find on for popular bucket list destinations: Greece Wildfires are common between July and September throughout much of Greece. Make sure you consult weather forecasts and the latest information on fires ahead of your trip. Accidents involving tourists renting motorbikes, scooters or mopeds are common, especially on the islands. Use caution when selecting a rental company and drive carefully, especially on busy roads and on rough or uneven terrain. If you have or are eligible for Greek citizenship, you may be subject to compulsory military service. Before travelling to Greece, check with the Embassy of Greece in Canada to certify your status as residing permanently in Canada and for more information. Practise respect for cultural heritage and archaeological sites by understanding and following the laws and leaving sites undisturbed. Check out the Government of Canada's Travel Advice and Advisories for Greece for more information before setting out to explore Greece. Thailand The rainy season extends from June to October, so check the weather forecast and take precautions as flooding and mudslides could make travel difficult and reduce access to essential services. Keep in mind that it is illegal to import, possess, or use e-cigarettes and vapes, so leave them at home! It is also illegal to promote the consumption of alcohol, and you can be fined for posting pictures with alcohol on social media. If you plan on renting scooters or engaging in activities like zip-lining, rock climbing or parasailing, research and choose a well-established and reputable company. Make sure your travel insurance covers adventure tourism and includes helicopter rescue and medical evacuation. Check out the Government of Canada's Travel Advice and Advisories for Thailand for more information as you plan your getaway to Thailand. Costa Rica Hurricanes usually happen from mid-May to the end of November, with the rainy season sometimes continuing into January. Keep an eye on the latest weather forecasts and plan appropriately. If you are hoping to experience Costa Rica's rainforests, volcanoes, and more by visiting their national parks, research the entry requirements in advance as you may have to make a reservation online. Petty crime targeting tourists, such as theft, is very common. Make sure your belongings (including your passport) are secure, avoid showing signs of wealth, and always be aware of your surroundings. Check out the Government of Canada's Travel Advice and Advisories for Costa Rica for more information before you travel to Costa Rica. And remember, safety first! Get comprehensive travel insurance and read the fine print so you know what it does and does not cover. It's better to be safe than sorry! Stay in regular contact with your loved ones at home, and be clear about how often you'll be able to check in. Share your detailed itinerary and any changes, as well as contact information for your travel companions. Know the laws around illegal drugs, as consequences for possession, use or trafficking can be severe. Even if cannabis is legal at your destination, there may be restrictions on its use. Respect your visa expiry dates as overstaying could lead to fines, deportation and even immigration detention. Sign up for the Registration of Canadians Abroad service to be notified in case of an emergency at your destination or at home. You should also take note of the contact information for the Canadian office closest to your destination and the 24/7 Emergency Watch and Response Centre in Ottawa, as they can provide consular services (like replacing a passport!) and help your loved ones locate you if they are unable to reach you. Travelling abroad is an exciting and formative experience. Make it better by being prepared and staying informed! Resources Advice for different types of travellers - About consular services - Missing persons - Financial assistance - Lost, stolen, inaccessible, damaged or found passports and other travel documents - SOURCE Global Affairs Canada View original content to download multimedia:
Daily Mail
25-04-2025
- Automotive
- Daily Mail
Mechanic reveals the cars he would NEVER buy in 2025... and which are actually worth the money
A mechanic has revealed the three cars he would never buy in 2025 - as well as the ones that are actually worth the money. Andy, who goes by Andy's Auto Advice on TikTok, regularly posts about cars and maintenance advice to his 88,700 followers. He previously detailed how to avoid falling into sales traps at the dealership and prevent overpaying. And now he is back with another series of helpful insights - this time about the kind of models you should and shouldn't be setting your sights on. The clip has raked in 154,400 views and almost 3,800 likes to date - but does your vehicle make the lists? Cars to avoid in 2025 Jeep Grand Wagoneer Andy, who goes by Andy's Auto Advice on TikTok, has revealed the three cars he would never buy in 2025 - as well as the ones that are actually worth the money Andy started by saying: 'Please do yourself a favor and don't buy the Jeep Grand Wagoneer. 'Not only are they ridiculously priced in the $50,000 to $60,000 for a Jeep, but they are a heaping pile of garbage. 'These are known to be riddled with issues ever since they were released. Jeep was trying to enter the luxury SUV segment and they terribly and radically failed at it and these are a prime example.' He continued: 'They have a ton of electrical issues, the engine is not very good, the build quality is terrible, and for that price, I don't know about you, but I could go out and buy something much nicer, much better build and much more reliable.' Kia Telluride 'Avoid buying the Kia Telluride. These are overpriced and overhyped. I'm not sure why everyone wants one of these,' Andy said passionately. 'They are jacking the prices up on these ones even the used ones and they're not very good. 'Kia tries to be competitive with their packages and they're technology, but in the end, your vehicle is going to end up in their shop getting a new engine at 20,000 miles. 'So save yourself the $40,000 to $50,000 on this - I don't know what you want to call it - not very good is what I'd call it.' Chevrolet Tahoe Andy started by saying: 'I don't know who came up with the prices for Chevrolet Tahoes nowadays because getting a Tahoe RST model - that's like a mid-level trim - for $63,000 with a 53V8... I don't understand the prices. 'Who's making these prices because in no world am I paying over 60 grand for a family hauler? 'And it's not even a nice family hauler. It's not like it's a luxurious, leather-appointed family hauler, it's just your basic V8 family hauler.' The Tahoe was recently ranked the most expensive popular car in the US market to insure, fill with gas, and fix. Cars to buy in 2025 INFINITI Q50 The car expert said he thought the INFINITI Q50 is 'excellent,' though the company recently discontinued making them. 'They are excellent with reliability, they do not have a CVT transmission, they have a V6 engine,' he explained in the video. 'The Sport model has 300 horsepower, all-wheel drive, and is a very comfortable, luxurious, and fast sedan.' Referring to a 2020 model, Andy said the car was five years old and only $25,000. 'They're cutting prices on these like crazy across the country because they're trying to get the old models off their showroom floors,' he said. He firmly recommends the INFINITI Q50 if you're 'looking for a good deal on a nice uxorious, sports sedan.' Nissan Frontier Andy said he recommends the current and prior generation of the Nissan Frontiers. 'These are a great deal on the market right now. 'They're $2,000 to $3,000 below the asking price - you can pick one up that's a few years old in the mid-20s. 'They're great - they have a V6 engine, I believe they are naturally aspirated V6s, they have a nine-speed automatic transmission, and they have a great towing and cargo capacity.' RAM 1500 Andy said he doesn't normally recommend Stellantis products, but liked the RAM 1500. Stellantis is the Netherlands-based carmaker conglomerate that owns the Detroit brands Dodge, Jeep, Chrysler, and Ram. 'You can get a two-year-old RAM 1500 with a 57 hemi engine for about $10,000 to $15,000 cheaper than its counterparts right now because they quit making the 57 hemi so they're trying to get the old models off their lots and they're slashing prices like crazy,' Andy explained. He displayed a 2023 RAM that was $4,188 below the retail price. 'You can get one of these in the low 40s with nice options like a Laramie. So I would recommend it. The 57 hemi is a great engine and it's proven to be reliable in most aspects,' he concluded.
