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The Dos & Don'ts of Parties in the Digital Age
The Dos & Don'ts of Parties in the Digital Age

Vogue

time08-07-2025

  • Entertainment
  • Vogue

The Dos & Don'ts of Parties in the Digital Age

For better or worse (probably worse), the digital age has thoroughly reshaped the party experience. On one hand, tech-friendly tools like e-vites and Pinterest moodboards streamline and embellish hosting duties, while on the other, that omnipresent smartphone reliably jerks the focus away from connecting with your fellow fête-ers. The art of entertaining has always been an elusive quality to master regardless of era, but now, it's all the more fickle a beast. And while there's no silver bullet solution to healing the party circuit of its information-age-woes, there are experts who know a thing or two about reinstating elegance and presence to festive environments—Carmen Haid being one of them. As the vintage curator and founder of Atelier Mayer, as well as a seasoned hostess (and guest), here, Haid demystifies how to throw a successful shindig in the 21st century. Ahead, her dos and don'ts for parties in the digital age. Do: Match Your Invite to the Mood Depending on the formality of your event, your invitation should match the mood. For casual soirées, a chic WhatsApp message, a curated broadcast list, or a tasteful email will do the trick. Don't: Forget to BCC Be sure to send invites individually, not en masse in a group chat or email, and always keep addresses private. Nobody needs another inbox flooded with messages from strangers. Do: Opt for Paperless Post A well-crafted digital invitation sets the scene before anyone arrives. Personally, Paperless Post remains the gold standard. Think of it as the Hermès of evites: customizable, elegant, and blissfully efficient at collecting RSVPs without fuss. Don't: Neglect Your RSVP (Even If It's Digital) RSVP stands for the French phrase, répondez s'il vous plait, which means 'please respond.' If a host asks for an RSVP, you are expected to respond whether you are attending or not. Silence is not mysterious, it's simply impolite. Don't: Assume Everyone Is Digitally Fluent Not everyone wants to scan a QR code. Provide analogue alternatives: a printed menu, visible wine labels, or handwritten place cards never go out of style. Do: Employ Your Apps Ambience is half the experience. Consider candle light and live music such a piano, guitar, violin, percussion, tablas, harp. Alternatively, you can use a music app to queue a playlist. Spotify and SoundCloud have elegant options—just make sure it's ad-free. Don't: Forget to Mic Check Smart lights, Bluetooth speakers, and virtual assistants are all lovely until your Wi-Fi fails. Test your tech, light and sound before guests arrive. An atmosphere dimmed because of a tech glitch is simply not recommended. Do: Read the Room When entering a private event or home, do not whip out your phone like a paparazzo at Cannes. Always ask before photographing people or interiors. What is charming to you might be deeply personal to someone else.

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