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Scottish Sun
18-07-2025
- General
- Scottish Sun
I was 18 & living in a homeless shelter when I had a baby via sperm donor – trolls say I'm ‘extremely selfish'
Read on to see what the mum's have to say about the pregnancy NOT KIDDING I was 18 & living in a homeless shelter when I had a baby via sperm donor – trolls say I'm 'extremely selfish' Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) A MUM has revealed that she got pregnant at the age of 19 while being homeless. Kai, who is now 24, revealed that she was living in a homeless shelter when she decided to seek out a sperm donor. Sign up for Scottish Sun newsletter Sign up 3 Kai and Dee were both homeless when they decided to get pregnant Credit: instagram/@twomomsdoublethelove/ 3 The pair have been branded selfish for giving birth while homeless Credit: instagram/@twomomsdoublethelove/ Kai and her wife Dee, 26, were living separately in different homeless shelters at the time. While many have accused them of getting pregnant to get housing, Kai told Love Don't Judge that wasn't the case. She said: "I would never promoted it. It was just my situation at the time and I was young. "I love kids and I just decided to have kids on my own." Kai revealed that she sought out a sperm donor using Google instead of going to a clinic so it would be free. She said she had no idea that it would work the first time round. "I was in shock because I didn't think it would work the first time by inserting a diva cup in me and I would just get pregnant," she explained. Kai used the diva cup, which is a reusbale type of tampon to hold the semen and inserted it so that the it travelled up to her uterus. She then gave birth to Kaidee, who is now five, and while she only has one sister living with her, Faith, 3, she has lots more out there. Kai said she knows of at least 80 - 100 of her siblings (as they used the same sperm donor) but that the number oculd be as high as 200 and calls them Kaidee's 'diblings'. 3 Kai was just 18 when she got pregnant using a free sperm donor Credit: instagram/@twomomsdoublethelove/ I lost 'everything' when UC stopped my £4.3k-month payment... now I've been sacked from my new job When she did give birth to Kaidee, Kai was still in a homeless shelter living apart from Dee. But they soon got offered an appartment and could live together as a family. The pair then got married and went on to have their second daughter Faith through the same means. Looking back, Kai admits her family were not happy she got pregnant so young but that she wouldn't change it for the world. Now the pair both have secure jobs and homeschool their daughters. Despite life working out for the better, the pair say they are often trolled online. Kai said some of the comments include '18-year-old homeless couples shouldn't be having kids,' and 'This should be illegal.' But she said things have worked out, 'We are now adults that have lived and learned. "We cannot change the past, but we just have to move on in life." The clip soon went viral on YouTube with over 13k views and people were quick to share their thoughts. One person wrote: "Personally, I would never have kids with no money and no shelter. That's selfish towards your kids. That's just my opinion." Another commented: "Beautiful little girls, and children are always a blessing, but to get pregnant whilst homeless is ridiculous." "This has to be the most irresponsible thing a person can do," penned a third. UK Teen Mum Statistics Teen pregnancies in the UK have been decreasing considerably since 2007... The under-18 conception rate has decreased considerably since 2007, reports Nuffield Trust. Between 2007 and 2021, the under-18 conception rate in England and Wales decreased by 68%, from 42 per 1,000 women to 13 per 1,000 women. This resulted in 13,131 under-18 conceptions in England and Wales in 2021. Meanwhile a fourth said: "Me personally I find that extremely selfish. Imagine being homeless and having a baby to take care of.. like why would you do that to yourself and your baby??" "They look like they are good parents regardless of what they decide to do when they are younger they do take good care of them,' claimed a fifth Someone else added: "Ignorance and selfishness. They're messing those children up with their foolishness. Lazy and using the children as props to play the system. Sick."
The Irish Sun
06-05-2025
- Entertainment
- The Irish Sun
I'm twice my man's age, we met through my sons, folk call me a desperate cougar but he's on a mission to get me pregnant
A WOMAN has hit back at trolls who claim she is a 'desperate cougar' and 'groomer' for marrying her sons' friend. Tanya, 44, met her now husband Josue, 26, when he was just 19 as he was her sons' close friend. Advertisement 3 Tanya and Josue first met when he was just 19 Credit: tiktok/@josueandtanyaofficial 3 He was a friend of her two sons but the pair soon fell for each other Credit: tiktok/@josueandtanyaofficial But the pair soon began to develop feelings for each other after breaking up with their significant others. Tanya told "'This is lowkey giving cougar desperation vibes,' 'Is that your mum?' 'She had to pay him to stay,' they call me a groomer." Josue admitted that he fancied Tanya as soon as he saw her. Advertisement READ MORE ON AGE GAP COUPLES He revealed: "The first thing that came to my mind was 'She's hot.'" But it wasn't the same for Tanya, who found him 'loud and annoying' at first. A year after breaking up with their previous partners, the pair began dating but it was a rocky start. Josue said his emotional immaturity got in the way as he acted 'toxic' and would check through her phone. Advertisement Most read in Fabulous While Tanya is already a mum-of-four, Josue has no children and plans to get his wife pregnant. "She's twice my age and I want to get her pregnant," he said adamantly. 3 Now, the pair face trolling with Tanya branded a 'desperate cougar' Credit: Youtube/Love Don't Judge How one poly couple make it work while raising teenage sons Josue said his relationship with her sons was still the same and they regularly hang out. Advertisement "I don't tell him what to do I don't mummy him," he added. For those who troll the couple over the age gap, Tanya has one thing to say. "When we got together, he was 21 and I was 38, at 21 years old you're able to drink alcohol, you're able to gamble, you're able to go to war for your country why are you not able to love who you want?" she asked. A-list age gap relationships that have stood the test of time Kris Jenner & Corey Gamble - 25 years The Kardashian matriarch, 69, met her younger man, 44, at a mutual friend's 40th birthday party in Ibiza. They've been together since August 2014. Sam & Aaron Taylor-Johnson - 23 years The director, 57, and actor, 34, reportedly met at a film audition in 2009, and were married by 2012. The pair share two daughters and Sam has two children from a previous marriage. Rosie-Huntington-Whiteley & Jason Statham - 20 years The model, 37, started dating actor Jason, 57, in 2010. They were wed in 2016 and have since welcomed a son and a daughter together. Catherine Zeta-Jones & Michael Douglas - 25 years Catherine, 55, was introduced to Michael, 80, a film festival in 1996 and engaged three years later. Shortly after their engagement, the couple welcomed a son and married in 2000. The pair admitted things haven't always been easy but that they 'love each other a lot' and have no plans to change. Advertisement The video was a hit on One person wrote: "That was her sons' friend. What a mess!!" Another commented: 'If they are happy, I wish them the best. She's not a predator." " Nice couple and very normal. It's refreshing to see people on here like them. Much success for their Advertisement Meanwhile a fourth said: "I would never sleep with somebody as young as my sons are." "'I felt like I was dating a teenager,' says the woman interested in a 19yr old that she got with a year later,' claimed a fifth. Someone else added: 'If they're happy, good for them. But I don't know if he's ready for parenting..." Fabulous will pay for your exclusive stories. Just email: fabulousdigital@ and pop EXCLUSIVE in the subject line . Advertisement
