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New York Post
01-07-2025
- Lifestyle
- New York Post
Summer is the season of divorce, study says: ‘More singles than ever'
Divorced girl summer is in. New data from SplitUp, an app that helps people navigate their divorce, revealed that more recently married couples look to call it quits once summer rolls around. The app analyzed searches for 'divorce lawyer' using Google Trends from June 2020 through June 2025. The team found a 4,950% increase in searches for this term — the highest in five years — within the last three months. Advertisement Summer seems to be the season when everyone wants to be single. LIGHTFIELD STUDIOS – Divorce lawyers often have their work cut out for them the first working Monday of the year — which is officially known as 'Divorce Day' — a time when many couples look to split up after having their last straw during a busy holiday season. But it seems that summer might be the new time for couples to take off their wedding rings and say sayonara to each other. Advertisement In June 2024, there were 30,600 searches for divorce lawyers — a steep 13% increase from January of that same year, according to SplitUp. Psychologist Dr. Danielle Forshee explained the logic behind this new trend: 'The increase in sunlight can literally change your brain, leading to more singles than ever this summer.' Supposedly, summertime also allows for post-divorce smooth transitions. 'To have a good separation [for married couples], divorcing in summer helps ease the transition for children and reduce disruption. As they break up from school, there's time to deal with emotions and get used to new living arrangements before returning,' said Forshee. Advertisement 'Additionally, work can be quieter in summer due to customer vacations and extended summer breaks internationally, leading to less traffic or business inquiries. This often results in couples having a flexible work schedule, leaving more time to settle into new routines following a split or divorce.' An expert said that summer allows for easy post-divorce transitions. Svetlana – And it's not just Americans who are looking to have some single fun in the warmer months — Singapore, South Africa, Canada and the United Kingdom also saw a surge in summer divorces, 'suggesting a global shift in relationships this summer,' according to Forshee. If you're a happily married couple and aren't looking to split up this season, be sure to avoid these common mistakes a divorce lawyer often sees people making in their marriages. Advertisement Never prioritize work over your kids and marriage. 'You absolutely cannot prioritize your career over your marriage,' Padideh Jafari, founder and CEO of Jafari Law & Mediation Office, told Business Insider. Another mistake people make is letting social media tempt them. 'From reconnecting with old flames to secret messages, social media is fueling modern divorces,' the expert said. 'Social media makes us think that the grass may be greener somewhere else,' she said. 'But as a married person, you should be thinking about your own home — watering and fertilizing your own lawn to make it beautiful alongside your spouse.' Rushing into romance is another thing people who wind up divorced often do. 'If you're going to be together forever, there's no reason to get married quickly. Instead, take time to see your spouse in different seasons of life, literally and figuratively,' Jafari said.
Yahoo
29-05-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Divorce lawyer reveals the four common mistakes couples make
Till death — or divorce — do us part. Although divorce rates are dropping across America, couples are still splitting up every day — sometimes for avoidable reasons. That's why divorce lawyer Padideh Jafari, founder and CEO of Jafari Law & Mediation Office, revealed the four common mistakes couples make to Business Insider. She shared the top reasons why she's seen couples split and her advice to overcome those obstacles. 'Marriage can be a beautiful thing, but it requires work and intention in addition to love,' Jafari said. One of the main reasons why couples separate is that they lose focus on their relationship and put other things — typically their work or kids — ahead of their marriage. 'You absolutely cannot prioritize your career over your marriage,' the expert said, noting that kids also should not come in the way of your relationship. 'Of course, you love your children and need to look after their physical and emotional needs, but don't forget your spouse.' A special date night or holiday getaway with your partner can be a great way to forget your responsibilities and dedicate time to your loved one. Instagram posts, Facebook albums and TikTok videos keep us connected — but sometimes seeing the highlights of someone's life and being one click away isn't great for our relationships. 'From reconnecting with old flames to secret messages, social media is fueling modern divorces,' Jafari said. The expert claimed that even taking a peek at a former flame's social media account is crossing a line. 'Social media makes us think that the grass may be greener somewhere else,' she said. 'But as a married person, you should be thinking about your own home — watering and fertilizing your own lawn to make it beautiful alongside your spouse.' As the saying goes, communication is key — but it's more than that really. Couples need to not only communicate but also comprehend what their partner is saying. The skilled communicator explained that sometimes this can go awry as innocently as when you finish your partner's sentences, but warned, 'It can lead to frustration and resentment.' That's why she advises people to 'try to pause and be present in conversations' and not make assumptions — you know what they say. She also added that asking follow-up questions can help you better understand each other. Despite what the Beatles would have you believe — love is not all you need. Take time to truly understand each other's values, goals, and ways of handling stress or conflict. Being in love can feel like enough, but long-term compatibility takes patience, communication, and shared growth. That's why Jafari advises against rushing into a marriage. 'If you're going to be together forever, there's no reason to get married quickly. Instead, take time to see your spouse in different seasons of life, literally and figuratively,' Jafari insisted. Spend time building a strong emotional foundation, talk about finances, children, and life plans. The more you know each other, the stronger your bond can become.
New York Post
03-05-2025
- Business
- New York Post
Divorce lawyer reveals the four common mistakes couples make
Till death — or divorce — do us part. Although divorce rates are dropping across America, couples are still splitting up every day — sometimes for avoidable reasons. 5 One of the main reasons why couples separate is that they lose focus on their relationship and put other things — typically their work or kids — ahead of their marriage. Diego Cervo – That's why divorce lawyer Padideh Jafari, founder and CEO of Jafari Law & Mediation Office, revealed the four common mistakes couples make to Business Insider. She shared the top reasons why she's seen couples split and her advice to overcome those obstacles. 'Marriage can be a beautiful thing, but it requires work and intention in addition to love,' Jafari said. Prioritizing your work or kids over your marriage One of the main reasons why couples separate is that they lose focus on their relationship and put other things — typically their work or kids — ahead of their marriage. 'You absolutely cannot prioritize your career over your marriage,' the expert said, noting that kids also should not come in the way of your relationship. 5 Kids should not get in the way of your relationship, Jafari said. Drazen – 'Of course, you love your children and need to look after their physical and emotional needs, but don't forget your spouse.' A special date night or holiday getaway with your partner can be a great way to forget your responsibilities and dedicate time to your loved one. Falling into the temptation of social media Instagram posts, Facebook albums and TikTok videos keep us connected — but sometimes seeing the highlights of someone's life and being one click away isn't great for our relationships. 'From reconnecting with old flames to secret messages, social media is fueling modern divorces,' Jafari said. 5 'From reconnecting with old flames to secret messages, social media is fueling modern divorces,' Jafari said. bongkarn – The expert claimed that even taking a peek at a former flame's social media account is crossing a line. 'Social media makes us think that the grass may be greener somewhere else,' she said. 'But as a married person, you should be thinking about your own home — watering and fertilizing your own lawn to make it beautiful alongside your spouse.' Communicating but not comprehending As the saying goes, communication is key — but it's more than that really. Couples need to not only communicate but also comprehend what their partner is saying. 5 Couples need to not only communicate but also comprehend what their partner is saying. Damir Khabirov – The skilled communicator explained that sometimes this can go awry as innocently as when you finish your partner's sentences, but warned, 'It can lead to frustration and resentment.' That's why she advises people to 'try to pause and be present in conversations' and not make assumptions — you know what they say. She also added that asking follow-up questions can help you better understand each other. Rushing into romance Despite what the Beatles would have you believe — love is not all you need. Take time to truly understand each other's values, goals, and ways of handling stress or conflict. Being in love can feel like enough, but long-term compatibility takes patience, communication, and shared growth. 5 Jafari suggests couples take time to truly understand each other's values, goals, and ways of handling stress or conflict before getting married. AntonioDiaz – That's why Jafari advises against rushing into a marriage. 'If you're going to be together forever, there's no reason to get married quickly. Instead, take time to see your spouse in different seasons of life, literally and figuratively,' Jafari insisted. Spend time building a strong emotional foundation, talk about finances, children, and life plans. The more you know each other, the stronger your bond can become.
