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Daily Mail
17 hours ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
What makes a man in his 50s cheat with a woman OLDER than his wife? Relationship expert weighs in after Coldplay 'kiss cam scandal'
The Coldplay concert kiss cam footage that exposed a tech CEO embracing his female HR chief has become the subject of global headlines. But as the details of Astronomer boss Andy Byron and his employee Kristin Cabot's apparent relationship came to light, it raised even more questions. One of the talking points that surprised online pundits, if they in fact were having an affair, was: 'Why did he cheat with an older woman?' Now, an Australian dating expert has offered an explanation as to why a 50-year-old man might opt for a woman two years his senior given so many choose the cliché 'younger model' route. Perth-based matchmaker Louanne Ward said there's a pervading stereotype that affairs always involve an older middle-aged men cheating on their spouse with a much younger and more attractive woman. But Louanne debunked this myth, explaining that the apparent cheating circumstances unveiled in the viral video are more common than people may expect. 'When news broke that Andy Byron and Kristin Cabot were caught in an intimate embrace at the Coldplay concert while both still married the internet exploded,' she said. 'And yet… he didn't 'trade in' for a younger, sexier model.' Louanne told FEMAIL she wants to dispel the common 'cliché'. 'There's a longstanding stereotype that when middle-aged men cheat, they do so with someone younger, sexier, more idealising, looks up to them or is an opportunist looking for some form of gain. Society almost expects it to the point where people look out for that type of dynamic,' she explained. The Aussie matchmaker then delivered an 'uncomfortable truth' about this type of scenario. 'When the "other woman" is also married, established, and successful in her own right - there's no clear gain, no power imbalance, no obvious manipulation. They both have so much to lose and yet, they risk it. 'That tells us the connection is emotional.' Louanne said that in these sorts of infidelity circumstances, the affair often develops out of a shared emotional 'resonance' amongst the parties that has nothing to do with age or appearance. '[H]e doesn't choose her for status, youth or convenience it's for resonance.' The matchmaker stressed that beyond the recent headlines - and the memes - there was also an important 'societal myth' that we should 'retire' about men only ever cheating for 'youth and beauty'. 'Sometimes… they cheat "up" for something they've never had. Sometimes they cheat up because its a safer option,' Louanne said. 'But let's not forget something important. Cheating is NEVER the fault of the person being cheated on.' 'Affairs are a reflection of the internal void in the person who stepped out.' She explained that although there's never 'justification for betrayal', dispelling the myth that man only ever cheat 'down' was important for anyone in a relationship to understand - and particularly those who find themselves in a similar situation. 'Sometimes when connection is missing, even the most successful person will still crave significance,' Louanne explained - adding that this can be found in someone irrespective of their age. The suspicious relationship between Mr Byron and Ms Cabot was exposed during Coldplay's sold-out show at Gillette Stadium in Boston last Tuesday July 15 when the pair were filmed cosying up during the concert. After they were projected on the stadium kiss cam, a stunned Mr Byron quickly dropped his arm and ducked down out of sight while a horrified Ms Cabot turned away, covering her face with both hands. When Coldplay frontman Chris Martin clocked the couple's reaction to the kiss-cam, he cheekily remarked: 'They're either having an affair… or they're very shy.' Their awkward reaction, along with the frontman's commentary, sent the moment viral online. The fallout was swift. Mr Byron, who had been placed on leave following the incident, officially resigned amid an internal investigation by Astronomer. In a statement, the company said: 'Our leaders are expected to set the standard in both conduct and accountability, and recently, that standard was not met. Andy Byron has tendered his resignation, and the Board of Directors has accepted.' The scandal not only impacted the lives of Mr Byron and Ms Cabot, but also their respective partners, Megan Kerrigan and Andrew Cabot. Ms Kerrigan, who is 50, appears to have since deleted family photos with Mr Byron and changed her surname on Facebook since the incident.
Daily Mail
06-07-2025
- General
- Daily Mail
Yes, the sex may be good right now. But these six magic questions determine if a couple is REALLY compatible in the bedroom... long after the honeymoon phase is over
A master matchmaker has listed the crucial questions every woman should ask to determine if they are sexually compatible with a man. Louanne Ward, a certified relationship expert with two decades of experience, says it's important to dive deep and ask the hard questions early on to establish a solid foundation as the connection deepens.
Daily Mail
10-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
The unexpected word that predicts whether your relationship will survive or fail: 'If it's missing so is your future'
Have you ever wondered what truly keeps the spark alive in a relationship? When you push beyond the unexplained chemistry, fatal attraction or those flirty good morning texts, Australian dating expert Louanne Ward has revealed there's one unexpected eight-letter word that may hold all the answers. Forget everything you've been told about grand gestures or perfectly timed messages. According to Louanne, the real sign someone is genuinely interested and emotionally invested in you is far more subtle - and it all comes down to the small things. In a viral Instagram reel, Louanne has lifted the lid on the growing dating trend coined 'Pebbling' - a behaviour inspired by none other than penguins. 'Pebbling is when someone offers small, thoughtful actions that say, "I remembered", "I saw this and thought of you", "You matter, not just in the moment, but when you're not here",' she said. 'This one word decides if your relationship will thrive or fail... And if this is missing so is your future.' The concept draws from the way penguins offer pebbles to potential mates as a sign of affection. In the human dating world, it translates to those micro-moments that might seem insignificant but are actually quietly monumental. 'They might reference something you said two weeks ago,' Louanne continued. 'They send you an article or a song because it reminded them of you. They grab your favourite snack without being asked. They call after an important appointment.' These moments, are what Louanne stated, aren't just thoughtful, they're powerful. They're signs of attention, effort, and intentionality. And they're what separates someone who's emotionally invested from someone who's simply enjoying the ride. While consistency is often cited as a key trait in a healthy relationship, Louanne argued that real consistency isn't just about replying to texts or showing up on time. 'Because real consistency doesn't just mean following through on what you say or texting good morning. It's about how someone shows up.' And when it comes to showing up, pebbling might just be the ultimate relationship litmus test. 'If they're not pebbling, they're not building,' Louanne warned. 'And no amount of charm or attraction will change that.' Her followers were quick to praise the insight, with many admitting they'd never heard of the term but instantly recognised the behaviour - or the absence of it - in their own relationships. So, next time you're analysing your partner's texts or trying to decode their behaviour, it might be worth zooming in on the little things instead. Are they pebbling, or just passing time? Because according to this dating expert, that could be the difference between a relationship that fizzles, and one that actually lasts. Louanne, who is a qualified matchmaker and coach from Perth, Western Australia, has also revealed a lesser-known trick which she claims makes you instantly more attractive. She claims the 'AT20 Eye Contact Rule' (Around-the-Target 20 per cent) will make you 'ten times more attractive' in conversations. She said you should maintain direct eye contact for 20 per cent of the conversation then subtly shift your gaze around the rest of the face. 'If you stare too much, it can feel intense, creepy, or confrontational. If you avoid eye contact, you come across as nervous, uninterested, or lacking confidence,' Louanne explained on Instagram. 'But when you balance eye contact with subtle shifts - to their lips, cheekbones, or forehead - it creates a sense of natural intrigue and chemistry. 'Most people don't realise how small shifts in body language can completely change how they're perceived. If you want to create effortless chemistry and attraction in real-life interactions.' Louanne said the tactic is 'backed by psychology' and works by 'creating mystery', 'mimicking romantic subconscious cues' and 'feeling natural'. 'Slightly breaking eye contact at key moments makes them want to pull you back in,' she wrote.
Daily Mail
28-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
EXCLUSIVE 'I cancelled lunch and we never spoke again': Extraordinary reasons why so many 40-plus women are breaking up with their best friends - and yes, it CAN be worse than divorce
When Louanne Ward's childhood friend of 30 years ghosted her, she had no idea why. The pair had been close since they were 14. They had travelled together, worked together and Hannah* had been maid of honour at Louanne's wedding.
Daily Mail
09-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Relationship expert reveals the eating habit that will immediately turn your partner off
A dating expert and matchmaker has revealed the eating habit she believes will instantly turn your partner off. Louanne Ward from Perth, Australia, took to Instagram to share five 'icks' that everyone on the dating scene should be aware of, writing, 'Once she sees it, she can't unsee it. And the spark? Gone.' The expert claimed that there's an mealtime habit that can completely 'kill attraction' and warned her followers against it. She said, 'Fingers in your mouth mid-meal,' before explaining, 'She's trying to focus on the conversation, and you're elbow-deep in your molars. 'Bad breath is one thing. But picking food out of your teeth with your nail? It's not just a hygiene fail. It's a primal repulsion.' Louanne also warned her followers that doing 'cutie baby talk' can pose negative consequences for one's relationship. She said, 'Speaking to her like she's your puppy, toddler or cartoon sidekick? It's not cute. It's cringey. She's not 'Mummy.' She's mentally exiting the chat.' Next, the dating coach said 'tech rage' is often another 'ick' that those looking for love should avoid. 'Shouting at the remote. Throwing your phone. Freaking out at a roundabout. It's not passion. It's pressure. And pressure doesn't feel safe.' Louanne also said that 'pouty selfies and AI-generated profile pictures' can be a massive turn-off for potential partners. 'If your dating profile looks like it belongs in a Marvel casting folder… she's not swooning,' she said, adding, 'You're not mysterious. You're just over-edited.' The dating expert's final piece of advice was heavily posing or smouldering in photographs. She said, 'Lip lick. Chin stroke. Perfume-ad stare. You think it's seductive. She thinks you're auditioning for an off-brand aftershave commercial. She's gone.' It comes after a dating expert revealed the 'secret weapon' that men can use to find a partner. Scott Galloway, who is a member of the advisory council for the American Institute for Boys and Men, took part in a 'masculinity debate' on The Diary of a CEO podcast alongside behavioural scientist Logan Ury and host Steven Bartlett. The experts debated if society is failing young boys, today's dating standards and how porn addiction affects men. During the conversation, Scott revealed women tend to look for emotionally intelligent and considerate men who still have 'masculine attributes'. He said: 'What women say they want is an emotionally in-touch man and what they want is a masculine man. 'They will articulate what they want in a man and includes being more emotionally available and then they want to have sex with a traditional masculine man.' Meanwhile, Scott pointed out a 'secret weapon' that men should use more if they are hoping to impress a woman. He said: 'A secret weapon I think for men that they don't leverage is to demonstrate kindness, the little things, have good manners, follow up with people, be thoughtful. 'Women want to see that you are a good person you, you treat service staff well, you're good to your parents, you have manners, you treat people well, even with no reciprocal expectation.' 'Maybe you're smart, maybe you're not, there's not a lot you can do there but the secret weapon I think for men that they don't leverage... is to demonstrate kindness and we don't talk about that enough as men.' Elsewhere, Scott claimed that his research has showed him that women also want a man who can 'signal resources'. He explained: 'It doesn't necessarily mean you have to have a Range Rover right now but you have a plan. 'You have your s*** together, you go home at midnight when everyone's partying because you have to be up for work, you work out which shows a level of discipline and that you can commit to something, you're in school, you've got a good job, this person is going to have resources. 'I don't think that's changed a whole lot, I think a man's ability to to signal future resources has gone down, but I'm not sure it's become any less of a criteria.' He revealed that women also look for 'intellect' when looking for a partner which he claimed is very 'instinctual'. 'If you make good decisions for the tribe, your kids are more likely to survive, someone who's smart is more likely to take care of your offspring than someone who's stupid', he added. 'The fastest way to communicate intellect is humour... I've always thought if a guy can make a woman laugh she will date him.'
