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India.com
4 days ago
- Business
- India.com
Started With Rs. 7K Job After 61.5% B.Tech Score, Now Owns Two Flats Debt-Free: UP Man's Story Inspires Internet
A Bareilly man in a post on Reddit shared a detailed account of his financial decisions that led him to buy two apartments and be debt-free at the age of 35, despite being from a middle-class background. In his post, he included his below-average percentage in classes 10th, 12th, and he also began his career with a Rs. 7,000 a month salary. In the post title, "How I Bought Two Apartments (Noida & Bengaluru) and Became Debt-Free by 35," the man explained that his story is not a 'rags-to-riches' tale; rather, it's a "kept-going-when-it-was-easier-to-quit" tale. "I was never the brightest kid. I was the kind of student teachers used as an example of what not to become. Born in 1990 in Jhumka City, Bareilly, I was constantly in trouble, always underperforming, and barely scraping through exams with written promises from my parents to do better next time," he wrote. He also explained that his percentage from high school till his graduation stayed between 60-70, and he did not qualify for IIT. The Redditor landed his first job in Noida in 2013 and wrote, "I later left that job to pursue the course of PGDAC from CDAC Electronic City Bangalore. My Luck wasn't happy from me this time either, campus placements were brutal and cut-throat competition. I got rejected by 45+ companies before landing my second job. My second job was better and paid me fairly. I worked with some incredible mentors over 10 years who inspired me deeply." Debt-Free Reddit User's Financial Advice The man shared the advice of his then-senior told him, 'Save money like it's rent a non-negotiable aspect." In his post, he also advised staying away from credit cards as much as possible. Sharing his own technique, he said that he tracked every rupee, consumed home-cooked meals, and used instant delivery applications carefully. The man also invested in tax-saver Fixed Deposits (FDs), and more. Bareilly Man's Two Apartments Later, he bought his first apartment in Noida in 2018 using a loan and the help of his father. Later, when he moved to Bengaluru for his new job, his then-pregnant wife insisted on buying their own home, which they did. "I wasn't gifted. I wasn't fast. I wasn't a topper. I didn't crack IIT. I didn't go abroad. I stayed consistent. I stayed disciplined. I stayed hungry not for praise, but for peace," he wrote. He also said that at 35, he is debt-free with two apartments, married, and a father. Netizens' Reaction "This is really nice and wholesome!" a Reddit user commented. "A great story of success by defining failures," another user said. "OP this post is pretty vague and just flexing. You haven't shared how much equity you hold now apart from flats. As people who hold liquidity this post not for you, as OP's max NW is real estate," a Redditor said. One user shared that he had a similar journey.
Time of India
6 days ago
- Business
- Time of India
Denied WFH after father's death: Reddit post by tech professional sparks outrage
A post shared on Reddit by an Indian tech worker has sparked a lot of discussion online about how companies handle situations involving personal loss. The employee, who works with a client through a service-based IT firm, said that even after the passing of their father and while still performing post-death rituals, their request to continue working from home was denied. According to them, the response came with a polite but clear message to return to the office. Leave taken, but WFH appeal not accepted According to the post, the employee had already taken five days of leave and a week of remote work while their father was hospitalised. After their father's passing, they requested an extension of WFH for one more month so they could stay with their mother, who is currently alone in their hometown. Sharing their experience, they wrote, 'My dad passed away one week ago. I took 5 days' leave and one week of WFH as my dad was hospitalized earlier. Currently doing the ritual events.' They further mentioned, 'I asked the client manager for 1 more month WFH permission as my mom is alone in hometown. He just said 'Finish the rituals and please plan to proceed ahead'. Meaning, 'come back to the office'. I asked for a call, he didn't respond.' Reddit post: The employee also claimed that their own company manager did not step in to support their situation. by Taboola by Taboola Sponsored Links Sponsored Links Promoted Links Promoted Links You May Like Free P2,000 GCash eGift UnionBank Credit Card Apply Now Undo Online community responds with support The post quickly gained traction on Reddit, with several users expressing their concern and offering assistance. A moderator of the subreddit wrote, 'Take the holiday, whatever number of days you require. If, for any reason, they fire, terminate, or take any action against you, please know that we (mod team) are here to help. I personally will ensure that your resume gets the visibility it would need on the subreddit, along with our Discord server link and my network of HR professionals to help you find employment, so you don't have to worry about money. I'm here to help OP. No bereavement laws in India– not legally enforceable. It is a shame, especially when so many of our cultures have elaborate rituals surrounding loss. Can't expect all firms to have the goodness of heart. You have 48k+ members with you, OP, including us (mod team).' Another user commented, 'This is inhumane. Sorry for your loss, OP. During my layoff, the email that the head of our company sent mentioned that I was taking too many leaves. The last leave I took was in February when I came to see my parents. These people aren't going to change.' Others had similar reactions. One Redditor said, 'Your mom needs you now. Forget these corporate jerks. I don't want any human being to go through such a decision.' Another added, 'I think WFH has become a luxury in India. Better to apply for leave and carry out the rituals. Then once you're okay, join back. Very sorry for your loss– may God give you and your family strength.'
Mint
6 days ago
- Business
- Mint
Indian techie says WFH denied after father's death, viral post sparks outrage
A heartbreaking post by an Indian IT professional has gone viral online, shedding light on the emotional toll of workplace rigidity during times of personal loss. Taking to Reddit, the techie shared that he lost his father just a week ago and has since been navigating not just grief, but a lack of empathy from his workplace. According to the post, he had taken five days of leave while his father was hospitalised, followed by a week of work-from-home to complete the necessary rituals. When he requested an additional month of remote work to support his mother, who is now alone in their hometown, the response he received left him stunned. 'The client manager simply said, 'Finish the rituals and please plan to proceed ahead.' Which basically meant—get back to the office,' he wrote. The man, who works at a service-based IT firm and is directly assigned to a client, said his request was denied without a conversation. He even tried to schedule a call to explain his situation but got no response. His own manager, he added, didn't step in to support him either. Now caught between personal responsibilities and professional expectations, the techie turned to Reddit for advice, asking how others would handle such a situation. The post has triggered a wave of reactions, with many users expressing outrage at the lack of compassion shown by the workplace. Some empathised with his situation, while others pointed out that corporate policies around bereavement and remote work are often vague or inconsistently applied. "Take the holiday, whatever number of days you require. If, for any reason, they fire, terminate, whatever the fuck they do to you, please know that we (mod team) are here to help. I personally, will ensure that your resume gets the visibility it would need on the subreddit, and our discord server link and my network of HR professionals to ensure you are employed, and don't have to worry for money. I'm here to help OP. No bereavement laws in India, not legally enforceable. It is a shame, when much of our cultures have elaborate rituals surrounding demise. Can't expect all firms to have the goodness of heart.' Another user wrote, 'This is inhumane. Sorry for your loss, OP. During my layoff, the email that the head of our company sent mentioned that I am taking too many leaves. The last leave I took is in Feb when I came to see parents. These assholes ain't gonna change.' 'I think WFH has become a luxury in India, better apply leaves and carry out rituals. Then once you're okay join back. Very sorry for your loss, May God give you and family strength,' the third user wrote.
Hindustan Times
6 days ago
- Business
- Hindustan Times
‘Finish the rituals, return to office': Indian techie denied WFH after father's death
An Indian techie claimed that he is grappling with grief and workplace apathy after losing his father. In a Reddit post, the IT professional alleged that his work-from-home request was denied, and he was subtly asked to 'come back to the office' after finishing the rituals. An Indian IT employee asked Reddit for advice after his WFH request due to his father's death was denied. (Representational image). (Unsplash/Denise Jans) 'WFH request denied for my father's demise,' the individual wrote on Reddit, adding, 'My dad passed away one week ago. I took 5 days leave and one week of WFH as my dad was hospitalized earlier. Currently doing the ritual events.' He explained that he directly works with a client as a service-based IT company employee. He then claimed that the client's manager rejected his request for remote work. 'I asked client manager for 1 more month WFH permission as my mom is alone in hometown. He just said 'finish the rituals and please plan to proceed ahead'. Meaning, 'come back to office'. I asked for a call, he didn't respond.' The man added that his own manager was of no help. Towards the end of the share, he asked for advice from Reddit on what to do during this situation. Take a look at the post: What did social media say? An individual remarked, 'Take the f**king holiday, whatever number of days you require. If, for any reason, they fire, terminate, whatever the fuck they do to you, please know that we (mod team) are here to help. I personally, will ensure that your resume gets the visibility it would need on the subreddit, and our discord server link and my network of HR professionals to ensure you are employed, and don't have to worry about money. I'm here to help OP. No bereavement laws in India, not legally enforceable. It is a shame, when much of our cultures have elaborate rituals surrounding demise. Can't expect all firms to have the goodness of heart. You have 48k+ members with you OP, including us (mod team).' Another added, 'This is inhumane. Sorry for your loss, OP. During my layoff, the email that the head of our company sent mentioned that I am taking too many leaves. The last leave I took is in Feb when I came to see parents. These a**holes ain't gonna change.' A third commented, 'Your mom needs you now, fk these corporate garbage jerks. I don't want any human being to go through such decision.' A fourth wrote, 'I think WFH has become a luxury in India, better apply leaves and carry out rituals. Then once you're okay join back. Very sorry for your loss, May God give you and family strength.'
Yahoo
7 days ago
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Why Man Asked Girlfriend to 'Pretend to Be Japanese' For Reunion with High School Friends
The 23-year-old Chinese woman took to Reddit's AITA forum with her boyfriend's problematic request, before sharing an update in which she revealed where they stand now after Redditors weighed in. A Chinese woman has taken to the internet for advice after her boyfriend wanted her to "pretend to be Japanese" to meet his high school friends -- specifically his male friends. The OP (a.k.a "original poster") shared her story to Reddit's AITA ("Am I the A--hole") forum, asking the internet whether or not she's in the wrong for refusing to fake being an ethnicity of which she is not to "impress" her boyfriend's friends at an event. Redditors weighed in, before the woman later revealed the reason behind her boyfriend's bizarre request, and where they stand now. Read on to see what went down and how Redditors reacted. Chinese Woman's BF Wants Her to 'Pretend to Be Japanese' to 'Impress' Friends In her original post, the woman asked the question: "AITA for telling my boyfriend I wouldn't pretend to be Japanese to impress his old high school friends?" "I (23f) am a Chinese woman living in America. My boyfriend (23m) is American and white. I am somewhat aware of a weird thing for Asian women some white American guys have," OP wrote. "But most of my boyfriend's exes are African-American so I thought I was in the clear." "He's going to attend a event that includes many friends from high school," he added. "He told me he wants his friends to think I'm Japanese. He said I don't have to outright say it, I can just do something subtle to give them that impression." According to the woman, one of her boyfriend's exes, who is African-American, will be at the event, but OP's boyfriend "promises" that his ex being there "has nothing to do with him wanting people to think I'm Japanese." "He said it's for his male friends," OP clarified. "Even though it's people he rarely sees so this maybe a one time thing, I told him I wouldn't pretend to be Japanese." "Unless it's required, I avoid telling people I'm Chinese," she explained. "I feel people put much stock into where people are born and I want people to get to know me for me." Despite her declining her boyfriend's request, OP said her boyfriend "still wants" her to go with him to the event, but noted that "he seems like he's dreading it." "Am I the a--hole ?" she then asked. Reddit Weighs In, Slams OP's 'Creep' of a BF Redditors appeared to unanimously label the woman as NTA, a.k.a. "not the a--hole," and didn't hesitate to rally behind OP, while also accusing her boyfriend of having a "fetish." "NTA and it's really weird that he wants you to lie to show off his 'Japanese' girlfriend like a trophy," a user wrote. Another commenter suggested the boyfriend fetishizes Japanese culture, saying he was "dreading" going to the event because he probably "already told them you're Japanese." "NTA boyfriend and his friends have a weird ass fetish," another wrote in a popular comment, to which OP replied, "Maybe I'm naive. I definitely don't think I understand how kinks and fetishes work." "I was hoping [because] most of his exes are African-American, that would mean he doesn't have a weird obsession for Asian women," she added, before asking how "many" of his friends he grew up with possibly have the "same fetish." "I am not defending him, I just don't know how this works," OP clarified. After a Redditor suggested that the boyfriend may "have a fetish for 'Exotic' women for which any woman not white could fit," the woman said that the commenter's "theory fits the most." "Maybe my boyfriend have an obsession for non-white women but wants to impress someone who specifically like Japanese women," OP said. Meanwhile, another user -- who also said OP was NTA -- asked, "Why the heck are you dating this creep nta." "A part of me was hoping people would say I'm overreacting," she said. Another commenter asked OP if she was "looking for a reason to stay with that weirdo??" "You're not the a--hole for not pretending to be something you're not," the user assured. "It's good to have self respect but….your boyfriend sounds like a piece of work and he'll do more microagressions against you if you let him get away with it. PICK BETTER!" The woman replied, "I was, but this is a problem I can't ignore. My boyfriend has issues." OP Gives an Update The next day, the woman gave an update in a new post, sharing that she had a conversation with her boyfriend, who explained the apparent reason why he asked her to "pretend to be Japanese." "A tiny update as the conversation I had with my boyfriend was less than 2 hours long," OP said. "He promises that he doesn't care that I'm Chinese instead of Japanese. He admitted he's physically attracted to women who aren't white." "He promises that his old high school friends doesn't have anti-Chinese sentiments. He admitted it was a stupid competitive thing between him and his friends," she continued. "He said his friends will be [impressed] that I'm Chinese but one of his other friends has a South Korean girlfriend. In their weird ranking, even though Chinese is ranked high, South Korean is ranked higher. For them, the only thing that ranks higher than South Korean is Japanese." OP then dropped a bomb, telling Redditors, "I broke up with him. I told him and his friends need to have more respect for women." Commenters praised OP for her decision. "Good for you. That sounds like an insanely stupid thing for him to worry about," a user wrote. "The very idea that he and his friends RANK the desirability of female partners according to their cultural / ethnic origin is deeply, deeply s--ty behaviour," another said. "You did the right thing to break up with him. Absolutely appalling behaviour!" "You did great standing up for yourself. You're not some piece of meat for a competition," another person chimed in. What do you think? Solve the daily Crossword
