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Yahoo
2 hours ago
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These 3 zodiac signs will get hit the hardest by the Mercury cazimi in Leo
There's a Mercury Cazimi in Leo coming, and it's time to talk, folks. Cazimi comes from the Arabic word kaṣmīmī, which translates to 'as if in the heart.' In astrological terms, a cazimi transpires when a planet is in close or exact conjunction with the sun, right in the infernal heart of it, if you will. A Mercury cazimi occurs when our planet of the mind and the mouth, poetry and slander, short trips and high wires, is within one degree of the GOAT star in our solar system. A cazimi is something of a solar amplifier/purifier, where the inherent energy of a planet is hyped and heightened by its proximity to the sun. In effect and on July 31, the planet of communion is getting a baptism by fire in a sign ruled by the sun — and we'll all feel the heat. 'This one's huge for anyone stuck in relationship limbo. Mercury cazimi in Leo is basically the universe giving you permission to say what you've been avoiding,' Angelika Koch, astrologer and relationship expert at LGBTQ+ dating app Taimi,told The Post. Koch maintains that this cazimi, which is occurring amid Mercury retrograde, will not be gentl,e but it will spur growth. 'Cazimi energy doesn't really give you a choice about timing. Situationships that have been limping along for months are going to face some kind of reckoning. Not because the universe is cruel, but because pretending everything's fine when it isn't takes way too much energy. It's messy, but necessary,' Koch said. Koch notes that now is the hour for real talk in relationships, whether that's defining it, addressing what's not working or being honest about changing needs or a change of heart. This alignment and alliance between the planet of communication and the solar star of the show equals divine messages and shadowy truths, taking a tentative step into the spotlight. At best, the cazimi offers us a portal to the possible. 'This Mercury cazimi in Leo is like having a spotlight on all the things you've been tiptoeing around in your love life. It's not just about having those big conversations – it's about finally being honest with yourself about what you actually want, not what you think you're supposed to want.' While we'll all experience the amplified energy of this cazimi, Koch notes that 3 signs in particular will feel the effects most acutely. Read for your sun and rising sign. GEMINI (May 21 – June 20) 'Gemini experiences this transit as a call toward more direct communication. These are thepeople who usually deflect serious relationship conversations with humor or change the subject,' Koch said. However, as Koch notes, the people of the twin are primed to shock everyone, not least of all themselves, with their straightforward approach to expressing their emotional needs. 'This can result in surprisingly direct statements about relationship expectations or feelings they've been processing internally.' LEO (July 23 – August 22) As Leo hosts the cazimi, the big cats are the biggest recipients of this conjunction. 'Leos find themselves at the center of this cosmic event, with Mercury conjunct the Sun directlyin their sign. This placement encourages Leos to move beyond their typical theatricalpresentations and engage in more authentic self-expression within relationships,' explained Koch. Koch notes that lions may drop the impulse to entertain in favor of vulnerable truth-telling. 'This is Leo's moment to stop performing the version of themselves they think their partner wants and start being radically honest about their needs. So if you're a Leo, expect some very direct 'this is what I want from us' conversations.' VIRGO (August 23 – September 22) Koch notes that Virgos may struggle the most with the energy of the cazimi. 'Virgos might actually have the hardest time with this one. They've been analyzing theirrelationships to death — making lists, weighing pros and cons, having entire conversations intheir heads,' Koch explained. 'But all that mental preparation might just get thrown out the window when this cazimi hits. Sometimes you just have to trust your gut, even when your brain is still working on the spreadsheet.' Astrologer Reda Wigle researches and irreverently reports on planetary configurations and their effect on each zodiac sign. Her horoscopes integrate history, poetry, pop culture, and personal experience. To book a reading, visit her website. Solve the daily Crossword
New York Post
12 hours ago
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- New York Post
These 3 zodiac signs will get hit the hardest by the Mercury cazimi in Leo
There's a Mercury Cazimi in Leo coming, and it's time to talk, folks. Cazimi comes from the Arabic word kaṣmīmī, which translates to 'as if in the heart.' In astrological terms, a cazimi transpires when a planet is in close or exact conjunction with the sun, right in the infernal heart of it, if you will. A Mercury cazimi occurs when our planet of the mind and the mouth, poetry and slander, short trips and high wires, is within one degree of the GOAT star in our solar system. A cazimi is something of a solar amplifier/purifier, where the inherent energy of a planet is hyped and heightened by its proximity to the sun. 5 On July 31, the planet of communion is getting a baptism by fire in a sign ruled by the sun and we're all feeling the heat. Parvin – In effect and on July 31, the planet of communion is getting a baptism by fire in a sign ruled by the sun — and we'll all feel the heat. 'This one's huge for anyone stuck in relationship limbo. Mercury cazimi in Leo is basically the universe giving you permission to say what you've been avoiding,' Angelika Koch, astrologer and relationship expert at LGBTQ+ dating app Taimi, told The Post. Koch maintains that this cazimi, which is occurring amid Mercury retrograde, will not be gentl,e but it will spur growth. 'Cazimi energy doesn't really give you a choice about timing. Situationships that have been limping along for months are going to face some kind of reckoning. Not because the universe is cruel, but because pretending everything's fine when it isn't takes way too much energy. It's messy, but necessary,' Koch said. 5 This alignment and alliance between the planet of communication and the solar star of the show equals divine messages and shadowy truths, taking a tentative step into the spotlight. Soba – Koch notes that now is the hour for real talk in relationships, whether that's defining it, addressing what's not working or being honest about changing needs or a change of heart. This alignment and alliance between the planet of communication and the solar star of the show equals divine messages and shadowy truths, taking a tentative step into the spotlight. At best, the cazimi offers us a portal to the possible. 'This Mercury cazimi in Leo is like having a spotlight on all the things you've been tiptoeing around in your love life. It's not just about having those big conversations – it's about finally being honest with yourself about what you actually want, not what you think you're supposed to want.' While we'll all experience the amplified energy of this cazimi, Koch notes that 3 signs in particular will feel the effects most acutely. Read for your sun and rising sign. 5 Geminis should have direct communication during this time. iqbal – 'Gemini experiences this transit as a call toward more direct communication. These are the people who usually deflect serious relationship conversations with humor or change the subject,' Koch said. However, as Koch notes, the people of the twin are primed to shock everyone, not least of all themselves, with their straightforward approach to expressing their emotional needs. 'This can result in surprisingly direct statements about relationship expectations or feelings they've been processing internally.' 5 Be direct this month, Leo. iqbal – As Leo hosts the cazimi, the big cats are the biggest recipients of this conjunction. 'Leos find themselves at the center of this cosmic event, with Mercury conjunct the Sun directly in their sign. This placement encourages Leos to move beyond their typical theatrical presentations and engage in more authentic self-expression within relationships,' explained Koch. Koch notes that lions may drop the impulse to entertain in favor of vulnerable truth-telling. 'This is Leo's moment to stop performing the version of themselves they think their partner wants and start being radically honest about their needs. So if you're a Leo, expect some very direct 'this is what I want from us' conversations.' 5 Virgos might have a hard time with this cazimi energy. iqbal – Koch notes that Virgos may struggle the most with the energy of the cazimi. 'Virgos might actually have the hardest time with this one. They've been analyzing their relationships to death — making lists, weighing pros and cons, having entire conversations in their heads,' Koch explained. 'But all that mental preparation might just get thrown out the window when this cazimi hits. Sometimes you just have to trust your gut, even when your brain is still working on the spreadsheet.' Astrologer Reda Wigle researches and irreverently reports on planetary configurations and their effect on each zodiac sign. Her horoscopes integrate history, poetry, pop culture, and personal experience. To book a reading, visit her website.
Yahoo
26-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Here's how to thrive in your dating life when Mercury enters Leo
Mercury, our planet of the mind and mouth, is leaving the emo bird bath womb of Cancer this week and setting up shop in the never subtle fixed fires of Leo. Mercury enters Leo on June 26 at 8:15 a.m. EST and will remain in the mouth of the lion until July 30th when the planet skips into its home sign of Virgo. Mercury is our planet of messaging and communion, and Leo is ruled by the sun — the domain of the ID and the inner child. Translation? Expression is necessary, attention is oxygen and flare is the order of the day. In Leo, Mercury is flash and bombast, full of romantic gestures, extroversion, general 'extra-ness', hearts on sleeves and genitalia on billboards. This transit is a lesson in being witnessed and worshipped — making it a fine time to dive deep into relationships. 'Mercury in Leo is the perfect time to ditch boring openers and lead with personality,' Angelika Koch, relationship and breakup expert at Taimi, told The Post. 'Expressing yourself with passion and flair will come naturally now, and you may find that you feel a little more social than usual.' Koch shared that it is imperative to lead with personality in your profile and initial interactions. 'As we all know, Leo energy doesn't whisper, it roars. Whether it's your bio, your messages, or your vibe in general, this is your moment to be unapologetically extra,' the expert said. 'Don't just say you love hiking: name the weirdest trail snack you pack. Don't just say you're into music: talk about your last concert visit or your 'guilty pleasure' playlist pick. The more specific, the more magnetic. Dating isn't about being perfect. It's about being memorable.' Koch imparts that leading with an inauthentic or 'held back' version of yourself is not only a mask that's impossible to maintain, but it also creates a barrier to true intimacy. 'Showing your personality early helps to spark a real connection because you are basing the connection on who you truly are and not a mask. The authentic version of you is the only version you will be able to consistently wear. If you start off trying to impress with a curated version of yourself, it sets the stage for disconnection later.'Remember, folks, if you're too much for them, they'll never be enough for you. Koch notes that abysmal small talk is standard practice in dating app communications, but a confident cold open is a better bet for stoking the flames of intrigue. 'Things like sending a first message that is bold and open allow the person to know you are serious about getting to know them and take charge of the conversation immediately. Cheeky or confident openers are a great way of drawing attention and allowing that person to take an interest in you quickly.' More about making an indelible impression than a perfect presentation — Leo energy is low-key, shameless and refreshingly unafraid of seeming or sounding cringey. 'A message that makes someone smile, roll their eyes or pause for a second is doing more than 'Hey, how are you?' ever could. And if they're the right match, they'll get the joke – or better yet, send one back. So embrace the weird, the bold, the flirty. Mercury in Leo is giving you full permission to take up space in someone's DM or chat – and maybe their heart, too.' To help readers make the most of the expressive energy of this transit, the Taimi team rounded up and tested the 10 best first messages to a potential suitor that actually get replies. 'Let Leo season inspire you to message like you mean it – loud, proud, and unapologetically you,' said Koch. Ready to let Mercury in Leo do its thing? Start with one of these cheeky and 'be real' icebreakers: 'What's something you'd only admit to a stranger?' 'Tell me something unhinged about you. No pressure.' 'What's your go-to move when flirting fails?' 'Let's skip the small talk. What's your weirdest opinion?' 'Would you rather: fall in love this summer or just have really good stories?' 'Do you give off 'texts back immediately' or 'leaves you on read for hours' energy?' 'You look like you'd ruin my life in a fun way. Want to prove it?' 'What are you better at: flirting or ghosting?' 'I could ask about your hobbies or just ask what your type is. Which one?' 'I don't trust people with no cringe phase. Did you have one?' Astrologer Reda Wigle researches and irreverently reports on planetary configurations and their effect on each zodiac sign. Her horoscopes integrate history, poetry, pop culture, and personal experience. To book a reading, visit her website.
CNET
17-06-2025
- CNET
Looking for Meaningful Connection This Pride Season? This AI App May Help
Enter: me, a queer person who's never quite fit neatly into any one box. The whole idea of online dating always felt a little intimidating, particularly when I don't easily fit into predefined categories. Yet, I was willing to try out an app to connect with the community. I found and liked the LGBTQ+ dating app, Taimi, specifically for its use of artificial intelligence in support of community, depth and user safety. The idea of scrolling through profiles and picking from rigid options felt limiting, but this felt like only a small step outside my comfort zone. Generative AI supporting technology -- in support of humans. I could work with that. Okay, let's begin. What is Taimi, and how does it use AI? Taimi initially launched under the name "TameMe," founded by Alex Pasykov, who also founded Hily, a dating app for straight singles. While straight, Alex is known for outspoken allyship and received the Gay Times Honours Community Entrepreneurship Award in 2020 for his efforts to support LGBTQ+ folks (specifically during the COVID-19 pandemic). At the time of writing, Taimi has over 25 million users across 138 countries. Taimi uses AI in three key areas: its matching algorithm, safety and moderation, and its feedback loop. This is to provide its users with maximized compatibility outcomes and deliver tailored suggestions over time. I appreciate Taimi's use of AI to help shift matching away from pairing based on age, gender and location and instead focus on relationship building from your profile's personality. It's pretty community-focused, steering away from casual swiping and toward purposeful connections. How to use Taimi to connect with others The Taimi home page. Taimi/Screenshot by CNET Setting up an account on Taimi is pretty easy, and its AI features work in the background to provide you with a tailored algorithm -- powered by AI and data signals from app activity -- for matches. Download Taimi from the App Store or Google Play store. To set up your profile, add photos, a short bio and your preferences. This helps the algorithm learn your specific needs when searching for friends, dates or other members to digitally (and hopefully literally) connect with. The more you use Taimi, the smarter the algorithm gets at understanding your tastes and compatibility. So, as you swipe and message folks, your preferences are being assessed. Taimi's AI will highlight profiles and groups it thinks you'd align with to help ease the overwhelm and connect with folks more likely to appreciate you and form actual connections. It will also feature smart recommendations that contain nearby events or meetups, and community spaces for creating and fostering healthy relationships. You'll get the most out of Taimi by providing feedback about your experience -- that includes liking, passing and blocking profiles -- which allows the algorithm to evolve alongside your preferences and become more accurate over time. As with any dating app, safety and privacy are key here, especially since the LGBTQ+ community is more vulnerable to discrimination. Taimi also uses AI-assisted content filtering to identify, report and remove key indicators of harm like harassment, suspicious profiles, hate speech and inappropriate messages. For example, I could not screenshot or utilize a workaround photo-taking software within Taimi -- even for tabs that didn't contain sensitive information -- to showcase how the app works. While annoying at the moment, I'm proud of Taimi for diligently keeping information private throughout its user experience. Should you use Taimi? Taimi is built for LGBTQ+ folks who want AI-powered matching and strong moderation to help keep things real and respectful, which matters when you want meaningful interactions online. It's also built for a lot more than dating, which can be an easy entry for folks who are wary of dating apps or the pressure to find solely romantic connections through them. What comes in each Taimi subscription. Taimi/Screenshot by CNET I see Taimi as great for people who want to experiment and figure out how to use the platform for their unique goals. Relationships from dating apps don't always happen overnight, so being flexible about outcomes can make the whole experience way more rewarding. You can access most of its features on its free plan, so there's also not much commitment on the app's side. (Maybe Taimi's keeping that for the actual connections happening within the app.) Now, if you're only into quick hookups or want a super niche dating pool, Taimi's broader social and advocacy vibe might not be your best option, as it's designed for diversity and connection within the LGBTQ+ community. It's also fair to mention that you shouldn't expect to open the app and immediately walk away with a partnership; meaningful relationships take time, both online and off. But like anything else, I am a strong advocate for trying it out before you buy it, and see how you find yourself engaging with others on the platform. Having millions of users is impressive, but what matters is if it works for you. Enjoy your time and happy pride.
Yahoo
05-06-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Here's why ‘loud talking' puts a strain on relationships: ‘I don't realize I'm doing it in the moment'
They say love is about communication — just not at full blast. A Reddit user has ignited an online discussion and debate after posting that their partner keeps asking them to 'lower your volume' — even though they say they're just excited, not screaming. The anonymous user, who goes by u/Farts2Long (yes, really), brought their relationship beef to the infamous r/AmITheA–hole forum, explaining that their voice naturally gets louder when they're engaged in conversation. 'Sometimes when I get excited about a topic, I naturally start speaking louder than usual,' they wrote. They added, 'Not shouting, just louder than normal conversation level. The thing is, I don't realize I'm doing it in the moment.' But their partner isn't a fan of the verbal volume. The poster noted that their significant other will often interrupt them 'mid-sentence,' asking them to 'lower' their volume. The Redditor acknowledged that this likely isn't 'in a mean or rude way,' but stressed that it still makes them feel dismissed and discouraged. Redditors rushed to weigh in, with over 12,000 upvotes and hundreds of mixed opinions. 'I lose my enthusiasm and no longer feel like talking about the thing I was excited about,' the original poster continued. While many commenters agreed the partner's request was reasonable, others urged empathy and better communication. 'I get it, you're happy to be speaking to someone who cares about something you care about,' one wrote. 'However, speaking as someone whose partner is the same as you in this situation, it's very hard to be sat trying to engage with someone when they are essentially shouting in your face.' Another chimed in, 'You have every right to feel how you feel, but it also does sound like you may be disregarding how it makes them feel.' Relationship expert Angelika Koch, of the LGBTQ+ dating app Taimi, recently told Newsweek that timing and tone are crucial when addressing someone's volume. 'Telling someone mid-sentence that they're being loud, even if it's well-intentioned, can feel a bit humiliating,' she explained. 'Most people don't even notice when their voice rises.' Koch suggested couples use a subtle hand signal or touch to gently flag the issue. 'Over time, they might even start to catch themselves,' she said. 'But this can only happen if they don't feel like their personality is being attacked.' If couples are looking for ways to speak up without ruining an entire conversation, they might take a cue from psychotherapist Amy Morin. Morin previously told CNBC Make It that mentally strong couples lean on a few key phrases to keep things cool and constructive. Among them? 'I'm going to tell you something that may be upsetting to hear,' and 'It's understandable you feel that way.' The goal: empathy, ownership, and solution-seeking. 'Taking responsibility for your share increases the chances that your partner will accept responsibility for theirs, too,' Morin said, as previously reported by The Post. 'Then you can both put your energy into developing a solution.' Sounds like a recipe for turning the volume down — without turning each other off.
