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Washington Post
2 days ago
- General
- Washington Post
Asking Eric: Niece excludes one branch of large family tree at wedding
Dear Eric: My husband is one of eight siblings. A few live on opposite sides of the country, but they do remain in contact, and we all get together occasionally. One of my brothers-in-law is married and has a stepdaughter. The stepdaughter became engaged, and we were told that since she was paying for her own wedding, they had no say in the invite list and we all may receive an invite or not. Mind you this daughter was invited to any event we had, including my kids' weddings. At my daughter's wedding she responded that she was coming but was a no show.
Yahoo
4 days ago
- General
- Yahoo
Bride Excludes Estranged Sister from Her Wedding, but Feels Bad for 'Innocent' Brother-in-Law
The upset bride said that her sister tried to "weasel her way back into my life" after news of her engagement broke A bride is dealing with lingering guilt after she didn't invite her "innocent" brother-in-law to her wedding because she didn't want her estranged sister to come. Taking to Reddit, the 33-year-old woman explained that she has had a bad relationship with her sister for nearly her entire life, and they've been estranged since around 2020. "From as early as I can remember, she belittled me, mocked me, called me dumb, and constantly made me feel like I was worthless," she explains. "Anytime I tried to speak up for myself or say something logical or reasonable, she'd twist my words or fly off the handle." "Our entire dynamic has always been about her being right, her being in control, and me learning to stay small to avoid conflict," she adds. Things "blew up in 2020 during the pandemic" while the poster "was trying to help" their family find living arrangements, only for her sister to repeatedly send "aggressive messages" and voicemails. Realizing it was "emotional abuse," she wrote that she was done with her "narcissist" of a sister. Though she cut off contact, the woman said things changed when she got engaged in 2023. Then, her sister reached out and tried to "weasel her way back into my life." "I told her clearly and calmly that for my mental health, I couldn't. I asked her not to respond. She responded anyway, of course, with a fake-polite message that ignored everything I had just said," the woman recalls. In response, she clearly stated that she did not want to resume their relationship. Additionally, her sister would not be invited to the wedding. While she said her brother-in-law "has always been good to me," she realized that inviting him would give her sister a way to tag along. So, she also told her sister that he was not invited. At the time, she felt "guilty about excluding" her "calm, kind, and level-headed" brother-in-law. "But I felt I had no choice. Inviting him would've created a messy gray area, and I wasn't willing to gamble my peace on my wedding day," she writes. Years after the wedding, she's still haunted by the decision. "I don't regret protecting myself. But I hate the idea that he never got the truth," she said, adding, "And I hate that someone kind got caught in the crossfire." Fellow Redditors rushed to reply and assure the woman that she was not in the wrong but was caught in a difficult situation. "It sucks that someone kind got caught in the crossfire, but his presence would have risked bringing all that toxic energy into your wedding. Your decision wasn't personal against him," one person wrote. Another person urged the bride not to "feel guilt for protecting yourself." "It hurts to feel responsible for his impression of your sister, but you can't and shouldn't compromise your emotional safety for someone else, even if that person is kind," they continued. Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. One Redditor urged the woman to let go of her concerns about her brother-in-law, saying, "Firstly if he's as kind as you say, he's get it." "Secondly, why do you want to convince him you're the 'good one' and not at fault. If you want to be left alone, leave your sister's relationship alone too. Otherwise you're up for major drama and vengeance. The ball is in your court. Have you really let go?" they asked. After getting some feedback, the woman returned to update her original post. In addition, she included a letter to her brother-in-law. While she acknowledged that he was unlikely to see it, the woman wrote that it would help her find closure. "I didn't make that decision out of pettiness or resentment. I made it out of self-preservation. For once, I chose me. I chose peace," she wrote to him, signing off with, "Wherever you are, I hope you and the kids are well. I hope your life is calm. I hope you're happy." Read the original article on People Solve the daily Crossword
Daily Mail
20-07-2025
- Science
- Daily Mail
How many colours in a rainbow? More than 100: Think Like A Mathematician by Junaid Mubeen
Think Like A Mathematician by Junaid Mubeen (Profile Books £18.99, 352pp) Doing jigsaws with Junaid Mubeen doesn't sound like much fun. Mubeen insists on sorting the pieces according to three characteristics: colour, number of tabs (pointy bits) and size. He uses three trays – one for each size – and creates grids on them, with each row representing a colour and each column a number. His brother-in-law, with whom he does jigsaws, prefers to just fish pieces out of a messy jumble. Mubeen is a mathematician. He believes that understanding mathematical concepts will help us think more clearly about everyday issues. And he's not just talking about 'applied' maths that helps us construct bridges or check our bank statements. He means 'pure' maths, which is more abstract and usually has no obvious utility. 'Pure mathematicians often take pride in the apparent uselessness of their work, even deriding the supposed need for their subject to bring practical benefits,' Mubeen writes. ''Here's to pure mathematics', starts one toast, 'may it never be of use to anyone.'' Across ten chapters he covers topics such as 'dimensionality', 'sets', 'axioms' and 'fractals'. He's good at leading readers through unfamiliar concepts and most of it is pretty interesting stuff. For example, everyone knows that the rainbow has seven colours, right? At school, we all learned 'Red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, violet'. But that number is arbitrary. In his chapter on 'the continuum', Mubeen points out that: 'Those colours represent specific wavelengths (in increasing order) but we could just as well reference ten colours, or a hundred, or indeed any number between the two extremes of red and violet. Isaac Newton, whose experiments led to the discovery of the visible light spectrum, attached mystical significance to the number seven, which is probably why he settled on that many markers.' This leads into a discussion about numbers that can't be accurately expressed as fractions – irrational numbers, such as pi – and then to a description of 'calculus' and, for the first time, I, a non-mathematician, felt as though I understood what the latter is. But his efforts to show how this knowledge can map on to everyday issues are less successful. The jigsaw story comes in the chapter on 'dimensionality', in which he attempts to relate the mathematical concept of spaces with many more dimensions than three to the notion that there are lots of different types of intelligence. An understanding of multi-dimensional spaces doesn't add much to the idea that intelligence is a complex attribute. Elsewhere he writes that just as the limitations of our senses mean our perception of the world is a distortion of the reality, so the sort of mathematical concepts with which we are most familiar do not truly reflect the subject. Then he compares that with the way we provide only a selective view of our lives on social media. The analogy is reasonable but we don't need an understanding of complex mathematical ideas to get the measure of Instagram. I think I might be with those who celebrate pure mathematics for its lack of applications.
CNET
17-07-2025
- CNET
This Smart Thermometer Is So Good I Drove It Cross Country, and Now It's Almost Half Off
Deal alert: The Chef iQ Sense smart thermometer bundled with one probe is available for $66 at Amazon right now -- a 49% discount off the usual price. You can also find the triple-probe set for $160 -- a discount of 11% or $20. The Chef iQ Sense smart thermometer is one of my new kitchen essentials. Last November, I celebrated Thanksgiving 1,100 miles away from where I live at my sister and brother-in-law's home in Oklahoma. It was quite the drive — spread across four days there and back — so I had to be diligent about my packing list. Clothes, snacks and my 10-year-old Labrador were obvious must-brings. But there was another essential on my packing list: the iQ Sense smart thermometer from Chef iQ. I love hosting dinner parties, but I used to be scared to death to cook anything with meat. I would catastrophize that I would end up poisoning and hospitalizing all my friends with undercooked meat. Now I feel differently. With the iQ Sense, my brother-in-law and I confidently cooked the Thanksgiving turkey perfectly. In fact, my brother-in-law and dad were fascinated by how well the iQ Sense works, and swore up and down that they need their own. In short, this smart thermometer works so well that it's become a kitchen (and packing) essential. And it's on sale now at one of the lowest prices I've seen. The iQ Sense doesn't come cheap, but I argue that it's worth the price, especially if you're trying to elevate your cooking skills and impress your in-laws with first-rate kitchen equipment. What makes this product even better is that you can now get any number of probes at a discount. Hey, did you know? CNET Deals texts are free, easy and save you money. I love the ease of use for the iQ Sense The iQ Sense is an unlimited-range wireless cooking thermometer that connects with your phone via Wi-Fi or Bluetooth to alert you when your dish is ready to be removed from heat: No more dry turkey or overcooked steak. You can get one, two or three-probe sets to satisfy any of your cooking needs. If you mostly cook for yourself, you can probably get away with just one probe, but if you're like me and you enjoy hosting dinner parties or cooking multiple steaks at once, then the three-probe set may be your best bet. But the best deal at the moment by far is on the single-probe set. Here's a breakdown of the prices listed right now: No matter which set you choose, you can feel confident that you won't be serving up undercooked or overcooked meat. Each probe has four internal temperature sensors to monitor the ambient temperature, within 1 degree Fahrenheit of accuracy. As much as I love the accuracy of the iQ Sense, I love its ease and convenience even more. I also love that I don't have to constantly open the oven door and stick a probe into the meat to check the temperature every few minutes. I can simply pop it in once and leave it to work on other dishes until I'm notified that it's ready to go. When I say "notify," I truly mean it, considering it comes with a built-in speaker for audible alerts. It's like having a sous chef that perfectly cooks meat in your kitchen at all times. The iQ Sense also makes a thoughtful gift When you think of great kitchen gifts, you may automatically think about a coffee maker or a quality set of pans. I'd argue that you'd get more use out of a smart thermometer. Every time you cook meat, either for yourself or others, you'll use the iQ Sense. For me, this breaks down to daily use, making it well worth the higher price compared to analog meat thermometers. With the iQ App, you can also browse over 700 guided cooking recipes from Chef iQ's in-house culinary experts and follow along to hundreds of videos that break down recipes in simple instructions. If you have a home chef in your life looking to expand their skills without spending hundreds or thousands of dollars on cooking classes, then the iQ Sense is an ideal gift. Will there be more deals on Chef iQ? Chef iQ's line of intelligent kitchen gadgets is not the cheapest, so it's good to keep an eye out for discounts on the website. Big shopping events like Amazon Prime Day are a good time to score Chef iQ products at a discount. The iQ Sense is also available at Costco. For more smart kitchen tech, check out the iQ Cooker, a smart multicooker that also offers the same ease and intelligence to users. If you're looking for other useful fun gifts for your favorite hostess or the chef in your life, here are our favorite kitchen gifts under $50.
Free Malaysia Today
17-07-2025
- Free Malaysia Today
Man dies after suspected accidental shooting in durian orchard
The man's brother-in-law discovered his body at the durian orchard after looking for him when he had not returned home by 9pm. (Bernama pic) PETALING JAYA : A 67-year-old man was found dead from a gunshot wound at his durian orchard in Negeri Sembilan yesterday in what is believed to be an accidental self-inflicted shooting. The incident reportedly occurred while the senior citizen was attempting to scare off an intruder he spotted trespassing on his property in Kuala Klawang, Jelebu. According to a source, the man's brother-in-law discovered his body after looking for him when he had not returned home by 9pm. He was found with a gunshot wound to his chest. Jelebu police chief Azizan Said confirmed that investigations are ongoing and urged the public not to speculate on the case.
