Gail Porter reveals how she rebuilt her life after losing 'everything' - and says she is 'finally happy and in love'
The TV star, 54, lost her home, career, and confidence after a long battle with mental health issues, alopecia, and bankruptcy.
Now, she says she's found peace – and even fallen in love again.
The former Big Breakfast host became a household name in the 90s, but by 2011, her life had spiralled out of control.
Gail, then 40, was sectioned under the Mental Health Act and placed in a psychiatric unit, where she shared a ward with violent patients and others in extreme distress.
Talking to The Mirror, she recalled: 'It was terrifying. I was drugged up to my eyeballs, sharing a ward with men convinced they were Jesus, and violent patients. It felt like One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest.'
Just three years later, she was sleeping rough on a bench in Hampstead Heath after sofa-surfing failed to offer stability.
Despite applying for work in charity shops and libraries, she was repeatedly turned away and admitted: 'I just wanted someone to give me a chance'.
At her lowest point, concerned loved ones contacted police, who took her to hospital for help. It marked the beginning of a slow but determined journey back from the brink.
Her fall from fame had begun in 2005 when she lost her hair due to alopecia. She famously refused to wear wigs, saying she wanted to stay authentic – but job offers dried up, and she found herself invited to unpaid appearances purely to talk about her condition.
Gail also battled anorexia and depression, and eventually filed for bankruptcy in 2017.
She said: 'I lost everything - my house, my career, my confidence.'
Since then, she's rebuilt her life with the help of charity work, exercise, and a renewed sense of purpose.
She even picked up a BAFTA for her 2020 documentary Being Gail Porter.
Since then, she's rebuilt her life with the help of charity work, exercise, and a renewed sense of purpose and after nearly 20 years without one, has 'fallen in love' with a wig she helped create
These days, she's focused on supporting others through organisations like the Samaritans and Prince William's Homewards campaign, which aims to tackle homelessness across the UK.
While she's ruled out romance in the traditional sense, saying that she 'doesn't date', 'can't be bothered' and 'was married once which was enough', Gail has found a new kind of love in an unexpected place: a wig.
After nearly 20 years without one, she worked with Amber Jean Rowan's ethical wig company to create 'The Gail' – a custom piece that resembles her original hair which she has 'fallen in love with'.
She insisted: 'It's not about covering anything up - it's self‑expression. I now have the freedom to change my look whenever I fancy. I have the best of both worlds.'
Singleton Gail says that she 'doesn't date' and 'can't be bothered' (pictured with ex husband Toploader's Dan Hipgrave who she shares a daughter, Honey, 22 with)
Before that she dated the late Keith Flint from dance band Prodigy
Gail, who is single and doesn't use dating apps, said she's happy spending time with friends, her cat, and her daughter Honey, now 22.
And after years of turmoil, she says the future finally feels hopeful.
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