Woman who died at Cork Marathon made people feel special, funeral mass hears
Ellen Cassidy (24) of Carhoo, Old Mallow Road in Co Cork, became ill just after she completed the half marathon last Sunday at about 1pm.
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She died shortly afterwards in Cork University Hospital.
Ellen worked in cybersecurity for PVC, having achieved a first-class honours degree in Business Information systems from UCC.
Her father, Tom Cassidy, told mourners at the Church of the Annunciation in Blackpool in Cork city this afternoon that Ellen acquired pockets of friends wherever she went.
Mr Cassidy said that the wake for Ellen in their family home had lasted nine hours with friends pouring in in large numbers to share their precious memories. He stressed that Ellen 'didn't lead with elbows she led with open arms.'
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'That made her stand out. That made her special. That made everyone that came in contact with her feel special.
The result of this approach to life is what we had last night with a nine hour wake. A full church today both inside and outside.
Honestly we never expected what we have seen over the last 48 hours. But it is the result of (Ellen) putting others first.'
Mr Cassidy said that he and his wife Vi had found their daughter's diary in the days after her death. He said Ellen's diary entry on her 20th birthday summed up her approach to life.
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'The entry for March 11 2021, her 20th birthday, reads: 'I am not a child anymore...step out of your comfort zone. Don't follow the crowd. You never know the person you could be if you don't step up. You will never know what life will throw at you but you must embrace it. Make choices and decisions - but don't look back. Follow your gut. Small things make a huge difference."
"I am so lucky to have them (my family) - we are lucky to have each other."
Mr Cassidy said that the day before Ellen took part in the Cork City Marathon she sent her mother Vi 'the most beautiful message.'
It read: 'I would choose my Mum to be my Mum in every lifetime again and again and again'."
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Mr Cassidy she that Ellen 'always had a number of plates spinning at any one time.'
'Swimming, for example, swimming 16 hours per week, music (was) four hours per week, attendance and practice, piano was seven hours a week, attendance and practice, school, her university attendance, exams that go with both and, of course, her friends."
Mr Cassidy said his daughter achieved so much in the fields of music, sport, academia and in her personal life. Particularly cherished family memories include the sight of Ellen eating pasta with ketchup or the time she managed to get a H2 in Leaving Certificate Accounting having scored just nine percent in the subject in a fifth year exam.
Mr Cassidy asked friends of his daughter to continue to call to the family home as the family embark on the long and painful road to 'some sort of normality.'
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He also thanked all those who had assisted Ellen when she became ill as well as family, friends, neighbours and the wider community for their support over the last few days.
Meanwhile, Canon John O'Donovan noted that Ellen had written in her diary that she wanted her family to be happy. He said with her all her achievements in life her greatest legacy was the love she had for her family and friends.
Offertory gifts included a medal Ellen received when she completed the Milan marathon, swimming hats, sheets of music and her music book, a sea shell representing her favourite place which was Alvor in Portugal, and a heart symbolising friendship.
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Ellen was an accomplished swimmer who represented Dolphin Swimming Club, UCC, Munster and Ireland. She was also a pianist who studied at the Cork School of Music.
Ellen is survived by her parents Vi and Tom, her siblings Mary and Charlie, her boyfriend Rob, her grandparents Joan, Billy and Tom, her extended family and her 'many many best friends.'
The song 'We have got the world tonight' by Mickey Joe Harte was sung by a soloist as the coffin was brought from the church to the Island Crematorium in Ringaskiddy, Co Cork.
A guard of honour was formed by members of Dolphin Swimming Club. Large numbers of runners from clubs throughout Cork also participated in the tribute to Ms Cassidy. Friends, many of whom wore bright colours, also walked behind the coffin.
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