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The 'Adventure Capital of Switzerland' Is the Gateaway to the Most Picturesque Villages in the Swiss Alps—and It Sits Between 2 Lakes
Request a room with a view of the Jungfrau peak at the Victoria-Jungfrau Grand Hotel & Spa.
Visit the car-free village of Mürren, accessible only by cable car or mountain train.
Take in aerial views of the mountains and lakes surrounding Interlaken by paragliding or skydiving.
Explore Interlaken in the early fall, after the summer crowds have left and before the snow arrives.
Tuck into a traditional fondue at Restaurant Bären in the historic town of Unterseen; it's within walking distance of central Interlaken.
Located between Lake Thun and Lake Brienz in the Bernese Highlands, Interlaken—which translates from German to 'between the lakes'—is often billed as the 'adventure capital of Switzerland.' And there's only one rule when visiting: Get outside as much as possible. Besides that, you're free to fill your itinerary however you see fit, whether that's skiing, skydiving, rafting, hiking, or any other outdoor activity you can imagine.
Dave Storey, managing director of Hightide Kayak School, also describes it as a place where 'everything is at your fingertips,' from glittering lakes and rivers to mountains, glaciers, and lush meadows. This particular combination of scenery is complemented by modern convenience; Interlaken is incredibly well-connected by train, allowing travelers to use the resort town as a base as they explore further into the Jungfrau region. In less than one hour, you can reach Lauterbrunnen, Mürren, and Grindelwald, three villages that offer the quintessential Swiss Alps experience with mountain views, fondue, and traditional chalet-style architecture.
After visiting for a few days earlier this year, I can confirm the following advice from Storey rings true: 'Stay for longer than you think. There's so much to do; don't let time be the reason why you miss out.' I'd recommend at least three to four days if you can swing it, and come prepared for all kinds of adventure—hiking boots, water-resistant layers, and sunscreen are nonnegotiable. The lobby of Victoria Jungfrau Grand Hotel.
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The Victoria-Jungfrau Grand Hotel & Spa is the grand dame of Interlaken. Overlooking Höhematte Park and the Alps in the distance, the 216-key property is old-school luxury at its finest. You won't find anything alpine-chic or rustic here; it's plush bedding (some of the softest sheets I've ever slept in), Michelin-starred food, and top-of-the-line spa treatments all the way. To recover from skiing and skydiving, I spent most of my free time at the spa, where a Finnish sauna, an indoor pool, steam baths, and relaxation rooms helped relieve any soreness or remaining jet lag.
Like many overnight accommodations in Switzerland, Hotel Jnterlaken weaves together its guest experience using history and modern comfort. This inn dates back to the 1320s, laying claim to the title of the oldest hotel in Interlaken. Inside, however, you'll find the spaces are pleasantly contemporary (and the hotel continues to make renovations). There's free Wi-Fi, and guests are welcome to enjoy a complimentary breakfast buffet each morning.
Grand Hotel Beau Rivage welcomed its first guests in 1874; since then, it's been a place of respite for travelers visiting Interlaken. While the guest rooms could use an update, the spa—complete with a solarium, sauna, and steam bath—the views of the turquoise River Aare, and the sun terrace outside the L' Ambiance restaurant make this a property worth experiencing for a night or two. Scenes from a snow shoeing excursion in Interlaken, Switzerland.
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Sitting at the base of the Bernese Alps and easily accessible by train, Interlaken acts as a natural gateway to the surrounding mountains and villages. From the Interlaken Ost station, journey to the villages of Grindelwald and Lauterbrunnen, which Storey recommends for an easy day trip. Diane Thiebaut, a guest relations agent at the Victoria-Jungfrau Grand Hotel & Spa, also suggests Grindelwald, which she describes as a 'small, charming village' that offers a different view of the Eiger peak. Mürren and Wengen are two other options—and some of my favorite destinations within the Jungfrau region. Both are car-free, and you can access Mürren by the Schilthorn cableway, now known as the steepest cable car in the world.
Thiebaut calls the Schilthorn a 'must-see' when visiting Interlaken. Visitors take the cable car up from Mürren to Piz Gloria, an outdoor viewing deck with a 360-degree revolving restaurant. In good weather conditions, you can look out upon hundreds of alpine peaks, including the Jungfrau, Mönch, and Eiger. It's also a popular spot for James Bond fans; you may recognize it as a filming location in the 1969 movie "On Her Majesty's Secret Service.'
The mountains might get all the glory in the Jungfrau region, but Interlaken's position between Lake Thun and Lake Brienz encourages locals and visitors alike to spend time on the water. Book a kayaking tour on Lake Brienz with Hightide Kayak School, enjoy a raclette dinner as you float down the river from Bönigen to Interlaken, or take a boat cruise and sightseeing tour on Lake Thun.
Adventurous travelers will delight in all of the adrenaline-pumping activities in Interlaken—namely, skydiving and paragliding. 'In Interlaken, visitors have to try paragliding, where they will have a view above Lake Thun and Lake Brienz and the surrounding mountains,' says Thiebaut. 'The landing is in front of the [Victoria-Jungfrau Grand Hotel & Spa], which makes the experience more special.' Book through Paragliding Interlaken or Skydive Interlaken. I went with the latter to officially check skydiving off my travel wish list. Just be conscious that weather conditions can affect either sport, so keep your schedule flexible.
Skiing is one of Storey's favorite winter activities, and there are plenty of nearby mountains where you can get your fill. I'd recommend heading to nearby Grindelwald, Mürren, or Wengen to explore the Jungfrau ski region, which includes the First, Schilthorn, and Männlichen ski areas. Snowshoeing is another way to explore the snowy landscape, and Outdoor Switzerland has a lovely tour through the mountain village of Isenfluh (they provide the snowshoes and poles). Waiter pouring wine surrounded by pizza at Ristorante e Pizzeria Sapori.
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'If you're looking for a traditional Swiss chalet restaurant, try Restaurant Bären in the old town of Unterseen. [It's] walking distance from Interlaken town center,' says Thiebaut. I echo her sentiment; the fondue was one of the best I had in Switzerland, and they even have plenty of options for those, like me, who are gluten-free. Instead of bread, you'll get pickles, pears, and potatoes to dip in the melty cheese.
Ristorante e Pizzeria Sapori, one of Storey's favorites, can be found inside the Victoria-Jungfrau Grand Hotel & Spa. The menu is filled with all kinds of Italian specialties—including pizzas, calzones, and pasta dishes—that will hit the spot after a day of adventuring throughout Interlaken.
For more classic Swiss dishes, Thiebaut suggests Restaurant Stadthaus, noting that it's located next to Bären and run by Swiss TV chef René Schudel. With a raclette rösti , fondue, and a Grindelwald-style Käseschnitte (similar to a gourmet grilled cheese) on deck, there's a good chance you won't leave the restaurant hungry. Cityscape of Interlaken, Switzerland.
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'Interlaken is great all year,' says Storey. 'The busiest time of year is summer, but you can still find secluded places on the lake or the many hiking trails in the area.' The warmer months tempt those looking to hike, bike, or go canyoning or river rafting, but, according to Thiebaut, the winter season is equally appealing. 'Travelers wanting to come at a quieter time should discover the winter. It's more than just about skiing in Switzerland during that time. In Interlaken, even the lake cruise is operating, you can still paraglide (with a pilot), or enjoy the spa,' she explains.
Prices will increase during peak times (winter holidays and from June to August), so consider the shoulder seasons if you're hoping to save money. Mid-September to mid-October is the perfect time to visit if you'd rather experience fewer crowds, mild temperatures, crisp mountain air, and stunning fall foliage. The train leading towards Interlaken in the winter.
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Bern Airport (BRN) is the closest major airport to Interlaken, but travelers visiting from the U.S. will likely fly into Zurich Airport (ZRH). There's an express train from Zurich to Interlaken Ost that takes just under two hours. While you can book a single ticket for the journey, a Swiss Travel Pass—which provides unlimited travel by train, bus, and boat throughout the country—is the better option, especially if you plan on taking the train to the smaller villages and towns around Interlaken.
Like most cities and towns in Switzerland, Interlaken is relatively easy to navigate via public transportation (especially if you use the SBB Mobile app to determine your route). Anyone staying overnight in Interlaken will receive the Interlaken guest card, granting free travel on public transportation within the permitted zone, as well as discounts on select attractions and railway journeys. If you plan to explore other parts of Switzerland during your trip, a Swiss Travel Pass may make more sense.
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Former NFL Great Jimmy Graham's Next Challenge: the Arctic Ocean
Former NFL Great Jimmy Graham's Next Challenge: the Arctic Ocean originally appeared on Athlon Sports. Jimmy Graham has been called an adrenaline junkie, and for good reason. During his 14-year NFL career, in which he was one of the best tight ends of all time, Graham spent every offseason adding to his long list of flying certifications — pilot's license, helicopter license, seaplane license, you name it. When he wasn't flying planes, he was jumping out of them — Graham recently said he's skydived about 100 times. Advertisement Graham retired from the NFL in 2023, and last year he committed to an adventure that will be much more than an adrenaline rush. In less than a month, Graham and three others embark on a trek that will push the limits of human endurance. Graham is part of Arctic Challenge 2025. In early July, he and his new teammates will row their way across the Arctic Ocean — 1,000 kilometers through freezing and treacherous waters. 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Hannah Huppi would be the first woman. Graham would be the first black rower. Advertisement Again, that's if they complete the trip. They begin the journey in Tromso, Norway in a state-of-the-art boat that includes three rowing positions and two cabins. 'We row two hours on, two hours off,' said Graham 'And on your time off, you have to do your job. My job is lead navigation, lead comms, lead weather. 'So I'll be communicating with our ground teams, figuring out our route, figuring out the currents and any storms that are headed our way. And then determining what the right compass course is going to be for the next, I guess, five to 12 hours.' After that, Graham added, there's the job of personal care — calorie intake, hydration, sleep. Advertisement 'The biggest component for me is going to be the sleep,' he said. 'We'll get about 50 minutes of sleep at a time. Once you're dealing with sleep deprivation, you know, trouble can happen and mistakes can happen. And this is a journey that, you know, there's very small margins for errors.' This may be the greatest challenge Graham has undertaken, but the 38-year-old has been pushing himself since childhood. Placed in a group home at age 11, Graham was bullied often as a kid. As he grew into his 6-foot-7 frame, basketball became a way out of his troubling situation as he earned a scholarship to play hoops at the University of Miami. After four years of basketball and graduating with a double major (marketing, management), Graham stayed at Miami to take graduate classes — and that's when he joined the Hurricanes' football team for one season. He only caught 17 passes that year, but five were for touchdowns. NFL scouts noticed that his size-speed combination made him an enticing tight end prospect. The New Orleans Saints took him in Round 3 of the 2010 draft. Jimmy Graham with the Saints Lew-Imagn Images Graham took full advantage of the opportunity. In just his second season, he set career highs with 99 receptions and 1,310 yards. In 2013, he led the league with 16 TD receptions, one of four seasons with 10 or more touchdowns. After playing for the Saints, Seahawks, Packers and Bears, Graham retired with 719 receptions for 8,545 yards and 89 touchdowns. The 89 touchdowns rank fourth all-time among tight ends. The receptions and yards are both eighth. Advertisement Believe it or not, Graham said life in the NFL has prepared him for the rigorous training for the Arctic Challenge — both the hard work put in and the acquired skill of making smart decisions under pressure. 'I think it definitely helps me just staying calm, just having a clear vision and decision making at, you know, very, very dangerous moments when things have to be decided,' he said. 'And two, I think just the pallet for training … I've been working out since I was 15. The longest I've taken off from working out was probably two weeks, after I had wrist reconstructive surgery. 'There's a lot of like misconceptions of what the NFL is. I speak to a lot of kids and mentor a lot of kids and try to describe to them what being a professional athlete is. Most people, they see all the glory, right? They see the touchdowns, the Pro Bowls, they see the commercials, they see the fanfare … but the real moments and the majority of the time, it's a lot of work. It's a lot of sacrifice and it's a lot of suffering, especially after injuries.' Preparing for the cold During his six seasons with the Saints, Graham had the luxury of playing indoors. But he does think his two years each with the Packers and Bears will help him in the Arctic. Advertisement 'Definitely, Green Bay was a great preparation for this, Chicago as well,' he said, adding that his coldest experiences weren't games so much as practices. 'Forget the games,' he said. 'The games, you can always get up for that. In Green Bay, we practiced outside every day. … I remember one day it was probably zero degrees.' Graham said the average air temperature when they get to the Arctic will be around 37-45 degrees — balmy compared to winters in Green Bay. Problem is, the average water temperature for the Arctic Ocean will be 28 degrees, with 10-foot waves and wind gusting between 20-40 miles per hour. 'I think I've had a little bit of prep for it, but in the end, you know, it's just going to be suffering, keeping the digits and feet dry.' The Arctic Challenge Team (l. to r.): Andrew Tropp, Jimmy Graham, Hannah Huppi and John HuppiOmar Barrera As much as the past year has been dedicated to training, it's been equal parts learning. Graham's aviation experience is valuable in terms of navigation and understanding of weather patterns. In late May, he was preparing for a trip to the U.K. to meet with the team's 'weather router,' Simon Rowell, a weather expert who supports record challenges for sailing and rowing around the world. In Graham's role as lead navigator, he'll be in communication with Rowell every 12 hours throughout the trip to mitigate weather risks. Advertisement Back in December, the team was in Idaho for medical training and cold-weather training. He said they were put through a four-year medical course in two days. 'We learned how to do finger blocks, digit blocks, learned how to do dental blocks … You know, learned basically wartime triage medicine.' Mitigating risk As intense as that sounds, Graham is quick to point out that all of this is just a natural progression from everything else he's done that others might consider too dangerous. Whether flying or skydiving, he was always learning from the best and working with the best. And mitigating risk was always top of mind. Advertisement 'I love my life,' he said. 'I want to keep living my life happy and healthy.' The team has already had a couple of sea trials. The most recent was from Miami to Islamorada, midway down the Florida Keys, and back. Of course, the weather was much nicer than it will be in the Arctic, and the trip was a about one-third of how far they'll go in July. Next up for Graham, he's planning to pull an all-nighter about two weeks before the trip. 'I'm going to spend about 24 hours, just to prepare my back and my sit bones and everything,' he said. 'I'll just sacrifice the day … I'll row two hours on, two hours off for 24 hours nonstop.' Advertisement If they can complete the Arctic Challenge in 15 days, that means Graham's 24-hour exercise would be less than 7% of the overall time he'll be rowing two hours on/two hours off in the Arctic. Still, Graham says — perhaps joking? — this could be less grueling than a seven-month NFL season. 'But yeah, it's going to be the hardest thing I've ever done in my entire life. Definitely interesting to see where the mind goes.' Another key aspect of the training and preparation has been nutrition. Graham said he expects to burn 9,000-1,000 calories per day, so he's got to prepare the body for that. Fortunately for Graham, he's been very particular about food and being healthy since he got to the NFL. Advertisement 'I've been eating a certain way for about 16, 17 years now,' he said. 'So nothing has really changed. 'I would say during my trainings, I'm intaking more carbs than I ever had before. You know, with football, I didn't eat a lot of carbs … I limited them.' Don't get him wrong, Graham does enjoy pizza — he just hasn't had a slice in about a decade. It was suggested to him that maybe a slice of pizza would be a nice way to celebrate when he completes the Arctic Challenge. 'Oh, yeah,' he said. 'Well, I'm going to eat everything. I think it'll be about five days of literally eating all the things I haven't eaten in the last probably 20 years.' The team preparing for a sea trial in Barrera For the kids Graham won't just be celebrating his completion of this massive undertaking; he'll also be celebrating the money they expect to raise for several youth charities, including Covenant House in New Orleans. Advertisement Graham's been working with at-risk kids through his foundation for years. Helping raise money for these groups is gratifying, but not as important to him as inspiring kids to be their best. 'Providing them with great opportunities, giving them hope,' he said. 'Giving them somebody who's been exactly where they are, who spent times as a child very alone, very unwanted. For them to realize that when you turn 18, you have complete control over what happens to you. It ain't gonna be easy. But if you put your head down and just work and focus on each and every day, focus on just getting better, focus on getting smarter… 'I just want to encourage any kid that feels alone, feels unwanted, just understand that you have a bright future, you're a bright human being, and if you're willing to work, and put in the time and limit distractions, you can create any life for yourself that you want.' So what's next for Graham after he conquers the Arctic Ocean? He's got an idea. It's something that would check all the boxes: one, inspire kids; two, provide the adrenaline rush he craves; and three, entertain a crowd. Advertisement 'I've spent the majority of my adulthood entertaining crowds,' he said. 'One of the biggest joys I've had, besides the camaraderie with my boys in the locker room, was scoring touchdowns. There is nothing that compares to that. How do you replace scoring a game-winning touchdown in front of 60,000 or 70,000 fans, 12 million people watching on TV? It's a hard hole to fill.' Hmm… Loves to fly, loves to entertain… 'I'm gonna go into air shows at some point,' he said. 'Doing front-flips in a plane with people watching seems like the best way to fill that hole.' Given Graham's track record, don't bet against him. This story was originally reported by Athlon Sports on Jun 2, 2025, where it first appeared.
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I took my 14-year-old on a cruise to Hawaii. Strangers kept telling him how lucky he was to have me as a parent.
I was feeling shut out by my 14-year-old son, as many parents of teens do. In a fleeting conversation, he had mentioned that his dream trip was Hawaii. I decided to take him on a cruise with no Wi-Fi so we could reconnect. A few months ago, I found myself standing in that familiar, painful space many parents of teenagers know all too well — feeling shut out. My 14-year-old son, all hormones and headphones, wanted nothing to do with me. He was deep in the world of friends, phones, and being "too cool" for anything that resembled family bonding. But I remembered something he'd said during one of our rare, fleeting conversations: "My dream trip is Hawaii." So, for his 8th grade graduation, I planned a surprise. Not just a trip to Hawaii — an adventure cruise with UnCruise, a small-ship expedition company that sails the islands with a focus on nature, activity, and unplugged experiences. I booked it hoping, somewhat desperately, that it might be more than just a vacation and that maybe, just maybe, it would bring us closer. Now that I'm back, I can say: It did. One of the best parts of the trip was that it wasn't just us. Our ship, the Safari Explorer, hosted about 30 other travelers. This built-in community meant we didn't drive each other crazy. My son could hang back when he needed space, and I could talk with other adults, some of whom turned out to be unexpectedly insightful allies. Meals were communal style, which took the pressure off having to make conversation one-on-one three times a day. I didn't anticipate how those other passengers would reflect me back to my son in a new light. People kept telling him how lucky he was to have a mom who kayaked, snorkeled, hiked volcanic craters, and actually kept up. I think he started to see me as more than just "mom who nags" and as someone interesting, even cool. He also saw me as someone who talked with others and contributed to group conversations. At home, I'm often wrong by default; here, I became someone worth listening to. There were moments on the trip that transported us both, like when he spotted an octopus while snorkeling and shouted for me to come see it. His face lit up with pure excitement. For a moment, it was like he was little again, eager to share his world with me. We were in this experience together, not as a parent and reluctant teen, but as two people seeing something amazing. The focus of Uncruise is on adventure activities — every day we were out in nature. This almost never happens at home, where my teen would rather do just about anything than spend time with me outdoors. But here, there was no other option. Uncruise is the anti-cruise; it's about the destination, not the ship. That meant every day we hiked, snorkeled, kayaked, and swam. It turns out we both loved it. There was also no Wi-Fi on the ship, and that turned out to be a blessing. Without the constant lure of his phone, he had no choice but to be present. We played cards, something we hadn't done in years. We talked about girls, sports, friendships — the messy, unfiltered stuff of being 14. I kept my advice to myself and just listened. It reminded me that he still wants to be heard, even if he doesn't always act like it. A surprising highlight of the trip was hearing others compliment him. One guest told me he gave up his seat for an older man when I wasn't around. Another said he helped clean up a dropped plate of appetizers. It's easy to get lost in the eye-rolling and one-word answers at home, but here, I was reminded of the kind, thoughtful kid I'm raising. This trip wasn't a magical fix for the challenges of parenting a teenager. But it was a window — a reminder that he's still in there, and that I am too. Read the original article on Business Insider