Minor Issues: I am my special-needs child's deputy. Now what?
Gaining access to my special-needs child's accounts, records and funds is an important part of future care planning, but so is the day-to-day care of her. ST ILLUSTRATION: MANNY FRANCISCO
SINGAPORE – In February, I wrote about how I had submitted an application to be a court-appointed deputy for my daughter with autism, Kate, with my husband as a second deputy.
As Kate is 21 in 2025, she is legally an adult, but lacks the mental capability or awareness to make financial and medical decisions. With deputyship, my husband and I will have the proper authority to make those decisions for her.
Get the ST Smart Parenting newsletter for expert advice. Visit the microsite for more
Try Our AI Features
Explore what Daily8 AI can do for you:
Comments
No comments yet...
Related Articles
Straits Times
16 hours ago
- Straits Times
Forum: Make bus journeys easier for elderly passengers and their caregivers
As a caregiver to elderly parents in their 80s, I find that taking public buses with them can be stressful. Each journey comes with a set of worries. At the start, I have to make sure they board safely and hope they can find a seat before the bus moves off. I also have to remind them several times not to stand up before the bus comes to a full stop. When alighting, I need to support them. Sometimes, buses do not stop close enough to the kerb, leaving a large gap. My parents have difficulty crossing these gaps or navigating big steps. Once, we had to alight onto patches of uneven grass, and I was afraid they would fall. I greatly appreciate drivers who wait for seniors to be seated before they drive off, as well as those who try to slow down gently before stopping, and stop their vehicles close to the kerb. I hope that these gestures can be the norm rather than the exception as Singapore becomes a super-aged society. Small changes like these would keep the elderly safe and comfortable, and ease the stress on caregivers. Yeo Kah Yoke More on this Topic Forum: What readers are saying Join ST's Telegram channel and get the latest breaking news delivered to you.
Straits Times
a day ago
- Straits Times
Minor Issues: I am my special-needs child's deputy. Now what?
Gaining access to my special-needs child's accounts, records and funds is an important part of future care planning, but so is the day-to-day care of her. ST ILLUSTRATION: MANNY FRANCISCO SINGAPORE – In February, I wrote about how I had submitted an application to be a court-appointed deputy for my daughter with autism, Kate, with my husband as a second deputy. As Kate is 21 in 2025, she is legally an adult, but lacks the mental capability or awareness to make financial and medical decisions. With deputyship, my husband and I will have the proper authority to make those decisions for her. Get the ST Smart Parenting newsletter for expert advice. Visit the microsite for more
Straits Times
2 days ago
- Straits Times
The quirks of Singaporean Chinese names
Singapore's language policy has certainly impacted the names by which many of us are called. But even after so many years, dialect names continue to endure. ST ILLUSTRATION: LEE YU HUI If you are a Chinese Singaporean of a certain vintage, like me, you would have gone through the days of being known by a hanyu pinyin name. I grew up in the 1980s, the first decade of the Speak Mandarin Campaign when there was much zeal for all things Mandarin. Join ST's Telegram channel and get the latest breaking news delivered to you.
