Friendships on the Line: When Politics and Gender Beliefs Take Over
While political disagreements are a prerequisite for a healthy democracy, excessive moralizing in debates, particularly by the far left, can transform friendly relations into actual private tribunals and cause rifts.
'I'm sorry, but I need to have friends who think alike, for my mental health,' Lucie* explained when she announced their separation. Domitille* has now accepted the decision, but continues to check on her former friend. The young woman in her 30s, who works in marketing, met Lucie while studying literature at the Sorbonne. At the time, the two students rarely discussed politics. 'There were no real disagreements, we just had discussions like all friends do about couples and relationships,' Domitille says.
'But one day, Lucie decided to settle the score.' Domitille received a detailed message in which her friend explained that she could not remain close to someone with 'unconscious sexist behavior.' Lucie's target: statements by Domitille that were deemed anti-feminist. "For example, I had said in passing during a conversation that women were more talkative and communicated more easily by text message than men. The mere fact of having stated that there could be specifically masculine and…
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