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MILLIONS of Brits will be blocked from adult content online at midnight tonight unless they pass booze-style age checks.
The new rules mean you'll need to prove you're over 18 – including by showing ID or scanning your face with a phone.
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It affects any websites showing porn, or content linked to self-harm, suicide, or eating disorders. This includes social media apps too.
The new Ofcom rules enforce the Online Safety Act, and kick in on Friday, July 25.
'It's really the rubber hitting the road,' Oliver Griffiths, group director for online safety at Ofcom, told The Sun.
'The situation at the moment is often ridiculous because people just have to self-declare what their birthday is. That's no check at all.'
Major websites like PornHub, X (formerly Twitter), and Reddit have already vowed to follow the rules. Reddit will remain open, but will require an age check if you attempt to view adult content on the site.
Shockingly, around 8% of children aged eight to 14 have accessed online porn in a given month, Ofcom says.
Boys are more likely to visit than girls (at 19% vs 11%).
Now Ofcom can crack down on this behaviour, by blocking youngsters from accidentally stumbling on all kinds of adult content – not just porn.
'One is pornography. The other one is making sure that we've got highly effective age assurance in place for things that aren't illegal but are highly harmful for children,' Griffiths said, speaking to The Sun.
'So that could be suicide content, self-harm, or eating disorders.
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'And we will be starting an enforcement programme next week if there are websites dedicated to that who haven't got proper age gates in place for midnight tonight.'
CHECK YOURSELF
There are three main ways that Brits will be asked to prove their age.
The first one is called an 'age estimation'.
This can work by scanning your face with an approved third-party service like Yoti or Persona.
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Yoti is one of the tools that can be used to estimate a user's age
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Or it could be estimating your age with an email check that examines if it's been linked to a household utility bill.
The second option is linking back to info that's held on you.
For instance, it could be checking with your bank or mobile phone company – both of which would already know if you're an adult or not.
A simple computer handshake works out if you're a child or not, and then you can be cleared for access if you get the go-ahead.
The third method is sharing an official document – a bit like showing your ID at the till in a supermarket.
You might be asked to show your passport or driver's license online.
SAFE SPACE?
This might all sound like a privacy nightmare, especially if you're watching X-rated content online.
But the adult websites don't actually get the personal info about you.
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Ofcom has warned that too many children are being exposed to adult content online
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And the age-checking services aren't learning what kind of content you're trying to view either.
The age-check is compliant with data protection, and simply gives the adult website a 'yes' or 'no' for your account.
You'll remain anonymous and won't have your online habits linked to your identity when you do oe of these checks.
Griffiths noted: 'The key bit of information that's needed is purely: is this user a child or not?'
Companies are able to choose the method they want – but they can't opt out.
If they breach the new rules, they face massive fines.
'These can lead, in the end, to fines of up to 10% of qualifying global revenue for these companies,' Griffiths said.
'So there's real teeth that sit behind this."
THE SHOCKING STATS
Latest figures show the scale of adult content consumption online...
Ofcom stats: Around 8% children aged 8-14 in the UK visited an online porn site or app in a month.
15% of 13–14-year-olds accessed online porn in a month.
Boys aged 13-14 are the most likely to visit a porn service, significantly more than girls the same age (19% vs 11%).
Our research tells us that around three in ten (29%) or 13.8m UK adults use porn online.
Pornhub is the most used site in the UK – Ofcom research says 18% (8.4m) visited it in one month.
Children's Commissioner stats:
Of the 64% who said that they had ever seen online pornography: The average age at which children first see pornography is 13 . By age nine, 10% had seen pornography, 27% had seen it by age 11 and half of children who had seen pornography had seen it by age 13.
. By age nine, 10% had seen pornography, 27% had seen it by age 11 and half of children who had seen pornography had seen it by age 13. We also find that young people are frequently exposed to violent pornography, depicting coercive, degrading or pain-inducing sex acts; 79% had encountered violent pornography before the age of 18 .
. Pornography is not confined to dedicated adult sites. We found that Twitter was the online platform where young people were most likely to have seen pornography.
The maximum fine is £18 million – but a company can be charged an even higher sum of 10% of global revenue. This is aimed at targeting giant web companies who may be in breach of the rules.
DODGY DEALINGS
Of course, some youngsters will go out of their way to dodge the checks.
It's possible to skirt the ban using a VPN, or Virtual Private Network.
These easily-downloaded apps scramble your internet data to boost your privacy from online spies.
But they also let you trick websites and apps into thinking you're logging on from another country.
Ofcom insiders admit there's no way to stop this – but that doesn't make the new rules redundant.
'Our research shows that these are not people that are out to find porn – it's being served up to them in their feeds,' Griffiths explained.
'And we think that these measures are going to have a really big impact in terms of dealing with that particular problem.
Using parental controls and having conversations, feels a really important part of the solution.
Oliver Griffiths
'There will be teenagers – dedicated teenagers – who want to find their way to porn, in the same way as people find ways to buy alcohol under 18. They will use VPNs.
'And actually, I think there's a really important reflection here. It's not just us, in terms of making life safer online.
'Parents having a view in terms of whether their kids have got a VPN, and using parental controls and having conversations, feels a really important part of the solution.'
Another fear around the new rules is that by blocking unverified Brits from mainstream sites, they'll seek out adult content in more extreme corners of the web.
But Ofcom says the porn industry is aware of this, and is working to get everyone on board.
'This was certainly a concern that when we were working with the adult sector,' Griffiths told us.
'The big sites were saying, well if we age-assure here, then won't that just divert traffic to darker corners.
'And I think it was that sort of sense that everybody needed to move together.
'That's allowed us to get to the position where we've got 6,000 websites hosting porn that are going to have age-assurance in place as of midnight.'
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It's extremely depressing that so many young people are being exposed to videos that glamorise this behaviour - without understanding how dangerous it really is. Scrolling through video after video of young women boasting about being strangled is truly horrifying. Explore your fantasies by all means - I'm The Sun's Sexpert, I believe in a varied and vibrant sex life - but there must be a line. Consent, communication and safety must always come first. Because what's fashionable online isn't always harmless - and sometimes it can be fatal. 'Shame' Orla Davidson, 26, was left with bruises around her neck after her partner strangled her during a sexual encounter earlier this year. The restaurant supervisor told us: 'We had a few drinks, went back to his and started having sex - then he began choking me. I did not give consent. 'His hand was pushing on the front of my neck with a lot of pressure, I remember thinking 'this is hard' - and then I don't remember a certain portion after that.' Two days later, bruises emerged around her neck that grew darker, which Orla hid with high-necked jumpers. 'There was a lot of shock and not knowing how to react to it, and feeling a weird kind of shame,' she recalled. 'I knew I should confront [the man] but didn't know how to have that conversation.' Orla confided in a friend who was 'shocked' by the bruising. 'She said, 'he f***ing strangled you.' I'd known it was bad but her reaction confirmed it. I'm definitely worried women are being subjected to similar things.' She is also concerned about the accessibility of normalisation of choking and violent content on social media and dating apps. Orla added: 'There's a lot of videos on TikTok, especially men telling the camera, 'I'm gonna choke you' as though speaking to a woman. 'I've had to block many men on dating apps who say things like, 'I'm gonna hurt you'. "Some people use the guise of being open-minded or being into BDSM when they're actually into hurting women. 'There's nothing wrong with women wanting casual sex, that's not the issue. It's the fact you can go on a date and end up dead.' 'Embarrassment' Another victim, Steph - not her real name - told The Sun she blacked out and had a seizure while a male friend choked her during sex - then convinced her not to seek medical treatment. Now 21, she says: 'Choking was something I'd experienced guys liking and doing since my first relationship when I was 14, which in itself is concerning. 'But this time was different. I remember him choking me on and off and my vision going as I blacked out. "I tried to tap him to make him stop, but the next thing I knew I was thrashing about having a seizure and my leg hit a glass and broke it. "He didn't stop or let go immediately. I dread to think what could have happened.' I remember him choking me on and off and my vision going as I blacked out. I tried to tap him to make him stop, but the next thing I knew I was thrashing about having a seizure and my leg hit a glass and broke it. He didn't stop or let go immediately. I dread to think what could have happened Steph Afterwards, she wanted to go to hospital but the man talked her out of it, fearing it would get him 'in trouble'. 'It was terrifying, I wanted to get checked out but I also didn't want to be seen as that girl who ruins someone else's fun or as a prude," she recalls. "My initial reaction was embarrassment, or feeling like I did something wrong. You're not confident in what's normal or not in sex, especially when you're younger.' Steph fears the accessibility of extreme porn to youngsters is normalising violent sex. She is also concerned about toxic influencers like Andrew Tate - who is facing rape and strangling allegations. A TikTok Spokesperson said: "We do not allow fetish or kink behaviour on our platform, we have removed content which breaches our rules and proactively remove 97 per cent of this type of content before it is reported to us.'
