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How One Mom Is Restoring Joy to Kids Who Lost Their Favorite Toys

How One Mom Is Restoring Joy to Kids Who Lost Their Favorite Toys

Yahoo05-06-2025
Randi Jaffe couldn't sleep—tossing and turning, worrying about all the Los Angeles families whose homes were burning. 'They're losing everything,' the New Jersey mother of two fretted, and then she began to wonder, If I was told I had to leave my home, what's the first thing I would grab?
Randi sat bolt upright because she knew what she would take: her 3 1⁄2-year-old son Ryan's beloved baby cheetah. It had no tags—she couldn't remember where it came from. But Ryan couldn't sleep without it. It was absolutely irreplaceable.
As a child life specialist at a local children's hospital, Randi helps kids through the trauma of scary places, needles and surgeries.
'Does your child have a favorite stuffy?' she asks parents when their little one undergoes an operation. She gives the bear, puppy or stuffed turtle a matching hospital bracelet and sometimes even a gown.
In the OR, Randi stands by until the anesthesia has taken hold. 'Everything's going fine,' she'll tell the worried mom and dad, handing over the stuffy so they can hold it until their child wakes up in Recovery.
'It breaks my heart, thinking about all those children who weren't allowed back home even long enough to collect their favorite toy,' Randi told her sister-in-law, Amanda, the next afternoon. 'I'm hoping I can replace at least a few of them,' she said, and opened an Instagram account: @LostStuffyProject.
Tell me about your child's lost stuffed animal and I'll try to replace it, she wrote on social media, and that very afternoon, Randi's phone began blowing up with new followers asking how they could help.
Among the offers was a message from a mom whose little boy had lost his stuffed unicorn. When you open the zipper, lots of little unicorns fall out. They wouldn't let us back in our house to get it, she wrote, but luckily the stuffy was still available at a store online, and the very next day, an identical unicorn was on its way to the family's temporary address.
Another mom wrote in about her son's lost stuffy, a zoo mascot from a family trip to Amsterdam. By now, thousands of people around the world were offering help, and five minutes after she posted the request, Randi received a miraculous message from someone in Amsterdam: I'm from LA, but we're currently living in Amsterdam. I know the zoo and its mascot. I'll take my kids there tomorrow and buy a replacement from the gift shop.
One request nearly stumped Randi and her network of helpers: My little sister lost her pink bunny. It used to belong to our mom, the message said. It's over 30 years old. There's no way we'll ever be able to replace it.
Randi and other helpers scoured the internet, thrift stores, attics and garages. No luck, but happily, someone had posted the photo to Reddit.
I have that very pink bunny! a woman posted. He's been with me since I was little. I'd be happy to pass him along but he's in pretty rough shape.
That's when another volunteer came forward. I've been looking for a way to help fire victims, wrote Danielle Allore, who restores stuffed animals for a living. Danielle took the bunny apart, laundered, restuffed and sewed him back. Then he was off to a ­second life with a thankful little girl.
When Randi learned of a small Altadena preschool where the kids' classroom had lost their books, toys and 6-foot plush stuffed giraffe to smoke damage, she used donations to replace them—even the giraffe. 'Half of the class lost their homes—we couldn't lose their second home too,' Randi told a local reporter.
Eventually, the fires were extinguished, but not Randi and the other group members' determination to help. 'There will always be more disasters,' says Randi, so she's transformed the Lost Stuffy Project into a nonprofit with a wider mission of replacing cherished fuzzy friends lost in floods, hurricanes and house fires across the country.
'When a family loses their home, they have so much else to think about,' she says. 'If we can help by taking this one thing off their plate and bringing a lot of comfort and joy to little boys and girls, we'll all sleep better at night.'
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People Are Sharing The 'Harmless' Habits That Actually Make Someone Insufferable, And You Might Be Guilty Of Some Of These
People Are Sharing The 'Harmless' Habits That Actually Make Someone Insufferable, And You Might Be Guilty Of Some Of These

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People Are Sharing The 'Harmless' Habits That Actually Make Someone Insufferable, And You Might Be Guilty Of Some Of These

Last week, Reddit user ZumbaRoy took to the popular Ask Reddit page to ask, "What's a 'harmless' habit that actually makes someone insufferable once you notice it?" Obviously, I had to know if any (God forbid) applied to me; and, I wanted to see if I'd witnessed any of these in the wild! So, I decided to round up some of the best answers, so you could be entertained by this, too: 1."Asking a question, not listening to the answer, then later contradicting what you just said." —u/Turtleballoon123 "I've had it come full swing. Doesn't listen to me, contradicts what I said anyway, then feeds me back my own comment as 'advice' soon later. So fucking annoying." —u/Tokijlo 2."Constantly one-upping your misery. You say you're tired, they haven't slept since 2014. You say your coffee's cold, they've been drinking regret for years." NBC / Via —u/These_Detail_7360 3."Never ever agreeing with you no matter how trivial or inconsequential. You will make a point and they will go, 'Well actually...' It's like they have to be right all the time, and it's exhausting to talk to people like that." Warner Bros. —u/porcosbaconsandwich 4."Hinting instead of asking direct questions." NBC —u/caseofthemondays81 5."Never asking questions back." —u/Glittering-Paper4516 "I've definitely had to work on this. I now notice how common it is for people not to be legit interested in each other." —u/psycharious 6."People who can't stand to go a minute without hearing their own voice." Bon Appétit / Via —u/Entire_Teaching1989 7."Those who make being contrarian their whole personality." —u/Immateriumdelirium 8."Always feeling like they have to play the devil's advocate." —u/candyspyder 9."Wanting others to notice their needs without ever actually expressing them. We aren't mind readers." —u/Suitable_cataclysm 10."Complaining constantly." —u/sleepingbeauttee "Or even just never having anything positive to say. Every sentence seems to be, 'I don't like XYZ.' Why can't we look more for things we enjoy and are grateful for? Don't make disliking everything your personality." —u/Obliviousobi 11."Someone once told me I have an annoying habit of interjecting myself into conversations with my own experiences of whatever thing they are discussing, rather than just listening. I've since made a conscious effort not to do that, and now I notice when others do so." Pop TV / CBC Television "So hey, step back, listen, and then if you have something to add do so when the other person has had their moment!" —u/zerbey "I have done this assuming that it's a bonding opportunity to relate over shared experience, but I guess most people don't think this way." —u/Status-Arrival-3757 "There's bringing up a similar thing to relate and show empathy, then there's bringing it up to highjack the conversation and making it about oneself. It really never goes away, does it? Every time it's a consideration. Thank you." —u/The_Mr_Wilson 12."Not being able to sustain a length of time without mindlessly being on their phone." —u/ouuspicymami 13."Mean comments disguised as a 'joke.'" —u/bumblebeebubbley 14."Lying about things that don't matter, either to one-up someone or just for attention." AMC "I have several examples, but just off the top of my head I used to work with a woman who brought her dog to work — he was delightful, she was not. We're all dog lovers and I was having a conversation with another coworker about foods that are toxic for dogs. Every food we mentioned (onions, garlic, grapes, coffee, etc.) she chimed in to tell us she feeds those to her dog 'all the time.' Umm no the fuck you do not. It was like that with her daily." —u/peaceandprisms 15."Loud eating. Nothing makes me angrier than hearing mouth-smacking noises like a llama." Netflix / Via —u/spirit_cat83 16."People who say something and you didn't quite catch what they said so you ask them to repeat it and they say 'nothing.' Especially if they're naturally soft-spoken and it happens a lot." —u/stampedes 17."People who only talk about themselves, and who pivot conversations to always be about them and their life." —u/defnotajournalist 18."Interrupting during a conversation." —u/Major_Smudges 19."Leaving random half-drunk cups all over the damn place, claiming that they aren't done with it even though every cup they've used was completely left alone for days. Put the damn cups in the sink. Holy shit." —u/AscendedViking7 20."When they ask, 'What are you doing on Tuesday?' instead of saying what they want first. You don't know if it's 'I have an extra ticket to a concert' or 'I need you to help me move a sofa.'" —u/Cultural-War-2838 21."It's hard to have conversations with people who are chronically hasty/impatient/jump to conclusions. They love to interrupt you when you are in the middle of answering the question they asked — and the worst part? They don't even realize they're doing it." —u/JustSoil3557 22."People who constantly sniffle instead of, you know, getting a tissue and BLOWING THEIR DAMN NOSE!" —u/KZorroFuego 23."I hate unsolicited advice, especially when it's constant or judgy in nature." —u/alainadm 24."I have a friend who always wants me to guess stuff. 'Guess who I saw?' 'Guess what I did?' And not in a rhetorical sense; she ACTUALLY wants me to guess. No, just tell me." NBC —u/ProximaeB finally: "People who can't make a decision. Where you wanna eat? I don't care. When you wanna hang out? I dunno I'm free whenever. What movie do you wanna watch? Doesn't matter." "Like OMG, can you pick anything?! It's even worse when it's their idea. I'm hungry let's go eat! Okay, what do you want? I don't care!" —u/LillyGirl7 What do you think? Are there any "harmless" habits I missed? 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People Are Sharing The Harsh Life Lessons That Hit Them Like A Truck Once They Reached Adulthood
People Are Sharing The Harsh Life Lessons That Hit Them Like A Truck Once They Reached Adulthood

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People Are Sharing The Harsh Life Lessons That Hit Them Like A Truck Once They Reached Adulthood

Getting older means gaining clarity and perspective on a lot of things, so Reddit user u/Riptidecharger asked people to share the harsh life lessons everyone should know. Below are some noteworthy ones that were shared. 1."You will have to make very practical (sometimes very cold) decisions about what you want from life and what you're willing to give up. And if you don't make them, then life will make them for you." —Anonymous 2."Even your dream job sucks sometimes. Even the love of your life gets on your nerves sometimes. There is nowhere you 'should be by now.' All life paths are different and equally valid. Happiness is a practice, it isn't something you achieve and then you're good." —u/maybenut 3."Don't spend more money just because you are starting to earn more. Lifestyle inflation creeping in is a bitch." —u/Neutrum 4."You learn that the friendships you took for granted as a kid actually fall away pretty quickly if you neglect them, and that even if you don't, time has a habit of changing people. Your best friend from school is different since they got married, and that guy you partied with in college never really got the hang of stopping drugs..." —u/ChubbyWordsmith 5."Life is finite. As a kid, life is just this thing that goes on forever. Consequences don't matter as much because the future is unfathomably far away. It's a good time for making bad decisions, but as you progress through your life, you start realizing that the future is coming up fast, and how it looks actually does depend on what you do now." —u/ChubbyWordsmith 6."You have to speak up for yourself. No one else will." —u/Logical-Command 7."You are not invincible. 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The 'Drunk tattoos aren't ideal' lesson. The 'You can eat whatever shit you want' lesson." —Anonymous 15."Do not lie to your significant other. Have hard conversations and trust them enough to be able to have them with you. Give them the chance and don't be afraid/avoid doing it in fear of rejection or judgment. I learned that one the hard way, unfortunately." —u/Ginoblee 16."Most people are basically decent, but don't rely on it. Really try to see people for the individuals that they are and not who you would want them to be or fear them to be. If your significant other says they love you while treating you as worthless, they are lying. Would you accept such behavior from a stranger? Would they? Honesty is not as valued, particularly in the workplace, as you may be led to believe, but don't give up on it. The people who value your integrity are priceless, and you won't know who they are without it." —u/Selenay1 17."If you have a gut feeling about a particular person or situation, DO NOT fight it. Follow your instincts." —u/Equivalent-Roll-3321 18."Some people who just fucking coast through life and have everything handed to them. Life is absolutely fucking unfair, and the sooner you stop comparing yourself to people who had a 50,000 mile headstart from birth, the sooner you can ACTUALLY start to live." —u/Novirtue 19."Knowing when to say 'no' and doing that is more important than saying 'yes.' —u/wradam 20."If your employer is doing something illegal or unethical and you decide to confront them about it, for fucks sake, do it in a way that all communication will leave a paper trail." —Anonymous 21."Do stuff that makes you happy instead of doing stuff that makes you look cool." —u/Neutrum 22."You learn that being healthy isn't an autopilot thing anymore. That if you eat shitty food and sit on your couch too much, shit will start to hurt and you'll feel more tired and grouchy. There's a similar lesson with booze and drugs." —u/ChubbyWordsmith 23."Very few people actually follow through on what they say they'll do. It can be for any number of reasons, from 'I don't want to hurt their feelings' to 'I want to look good in front of others' or 'I want to please everyone' — and that's just for starters. When you find people who DO, cherish them. It's why I always post 'Look at the person's patterns of actions, not their words, to see their true feelings.'" —u/bmyst70 24."Some things really are just about luck." —u/foreveralready 25."Take care of your mental health early on so you can be healthy and meet other healthy people. You think you've had your fair share of life experiences, but they're still coming, and some hit you unexpectedly 'cause you're not where you need to be mentally in life. Don't say 'that'll never happen to me' because bad people do exist, and they don't discriminate." —u/overthinking_7 26."Pride does absolutely nothing. If you don't say good morning to your boss in the morning because you think your boss is a dick, you're not doing yourself any favors." —u/thisesmeaningless 27."You can love someone and still know they're not right for you." —u/nomadicsailor81 28."Don't do business with family. Love your children more than you hate your ex." —u/emmett_kelly finally: "You'll accept that you're halfway through your life at some point, and that'll freak you out a bit, but it's a good thing." —u/ChubbyWordsmith Do you have any to add to the list? Let us know in the comments!

22 "Baffling" Things Women Say Men Do On A Daily Basis
22 "Baffling" Things Women Say Men Do On A Daily Basis

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22 "Baffling" Things Women Say Men Do On A Daily Basis

Recently, Reddit user Electrical-Ebb-3485 posted to the subreddit "Ask Women No Censor" to ask women, "What is something that many men do that baffles you?" Obviously, I knew the answers would be very entertaining, so I decided I had to share. Here are some of the best: "Send dick pics and expect us to actually like it." "Pursue or lock down a hot girl and get mad when they continue to be hot." "This is a generalization obviously, but men often go, 'I can fix this.' It doesn't matter how complicated something is, perhaps even requiring a specialist; men will immediately try and do it themselves, often making the problem worse or fixing it jankily." "Promising to take care of something, and failing to fulfill the promise, so we get to panic and try to do the thing last minute. It seems to go in one ear and out the other when they 'listen' to women." "Using the bathroom and then not washing their hands. Do they not feel disgusting?" "Men often refuse to go to the doctor about their medical problems, or a therapist about their mental health problems. Drives me nuts." "They force everyone to 'pass as a man' in order to play online games normally. Men, if every player around you is always a man, it's most likely since you've made it hostile for women to even out themselves." "Compulsive contrarian debating." "Continually ask for women's opinions and then dismiss, debate, deny, and disrespect every fucking response." "Pursuing you then proceeding to say he's not ready for a relationship." "Some men complain about not finding 'good women.' Yet they are not self-aware. Their definition of 'good' is a shallow one, and they're attracted to toxic traits. They project their past hurt and punish future partners. They expect traditional loyalty but do not offer stability. They play games, then get angry and bitter when they lose the game." "Offering 'advice' constantly for things they know nothing about in an aggressively condescending and know-it-all type of way, like they think we'd be impressed and flattered rather than just insulted by how demeaning they are to our intelligence." "They believe women have no reason to distrust men." "Hate women without knowing consciously they hate women." "Not washing themselves properly, not wiping themselves properly, and smelling their hand after they scratch their ass or balls. (YOU ALREADY KNOW YOU REEK!!!)" "Possess zero self-awareness [regarding space]. Get the fuck out of the way!" "Not shaving that gross goat scraggly-ass beard they think is so cool." "Can't handle the work of a relationship and would rather have a 'friend with benefits' so they never need to take accountability." "Men, just throw away any underwear with holes in them. Socks included. Just toss them. Don't give it a second thought." "Fear of having any 'female-coded' hobbies for fear of being judged as gay, girly, or feminine in any way, shape, or form." "Say they want virgins and call women used-up or ran-through if they have premarital sex, but at the same time want to keep having casual sex until they're ready to settle down with that virgin. They're sexually dependent on the women they call whores." And finally, "Weaponized incompetence: when you ask them to do something and they completely half-ass it so you won't ask them again." I'm somehow so frustrated reading these, but also laughing so hard. Tell me your thoughts down in the comments! Or, feel free to share your own baffling 'manecdote.' If you have something to say but prefer to remain anonymous, you can check out this anonymous form! Who knows — your comment could be shared in a future BuzzFeed article. Please note: some comments have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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