22 "Baffling" Things Women Say Men Do On A Daily Basis
"Send dick pics and expect us to actually like it."
"Pursue or lock down a hot girl and get mad when they continue to be hot."
"This is a generalization obviously, but men often go, 'I can fix this.' It doesn't matter how complicated something is, perhaps even requiring a specialist; men will immediately try and do it themselves, often making the problem worse or fixing it jankily."
"Promising to take care of something, and failing to fulfill the promise, so we get to panic and try to do the thing last minute. It seems to go in one ear and out the other when they 'listen' to women."
"Using the bathroom and then not washing their hands. Do they not feel disgusting?"
"Men often refuse to go to the doctor about their medical problems, or a therapist about their mental health problems. Drives me nuts."
"They force everyone to 'pass as a man' in order to play online games normally. Men, if every player around you is always a man, it's most likely since you've made it hostile for women to even out themselves."
"Compulsive contrarian debating."
"Continually ask for women's opinions and then dismiss, debate, deny, and disrespect every fucking response."
"Pursuing you then proceeding to say he's not ready for a relationship."
"Some men complain about not finding 'good women.' Yet they are not self-aware. Their definition of 'good' is a shallow one, and they're attracted to toxic traits. They project their past hurt and punish future partners. They expect traditional loyalty but do not offer stability. They play games, then get angry and bitter when they lose the game."
"Offering 'advice' constantly for things they know nothing about in an aggressively condescending and know-it-all type of way, like they think we'd be impressed and flattered rather than just insulted by how demeaning they are to our intelligence."
"They believe women have no reason to distrust men."
"Hate women without knowing consciously they hate women."
"Not washing themselves properly, not wiping themselves properly, and smelling their hand after they scratch their ass or balls. (YOU ALREADY KNOW YOU REEK!!!)"
"Possess zero self-awareness [regarding space]. Get the fuck out of the way!"
"Not shaving that gross goat scraggly-ass beard they think is so cool."
"Can't handle the work of a relationship and would rather have a 'friend with benefits' so they never need to take accountability."
"Men, just throw away any underwear with holes in them. Socks included. Just toss them. Don't give it a second thought."
"Fear of having any 'female-coded' hobbies for fear of being judged as gay, girly, or feminine in any way, shape, or form."
"Say they want virgins and call women used-up or ran-through if they have premarital sex, but at the same time want to keep having casual sex until they're ready to settle down with that virgin. They're sexually dependent on the women they call whores."
And finally, "Weaponized incompetence: when you ask them to do something and they completely half-ass it so you won't ask them again."
I'm somehow so frustrated reading these, but also laughing so hard. Tell me your thoughts down in the comments! Or, feel free to share your own baffling 'manecdote.'
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