Abbie Chatfield reveals her plans for her first sex club experience with boyfriend Adam Hyde in Amsterdam

Daily Mail​

24-06-2025

Abbie Chatfield has revealed her plans to visit a sex club in Amsterdam with her boyfriend Adam Hyde after celebrating her 30th birthday on Greek island Folegandros over the weekend.
Speaking on her It's A Lot podcast, Abbie, 30, said she was 'really excited' to partake in local delicacies with her Peking Duk frontman beau, including smoking weed, stroopwafels and sex clubs.
The high-profile couple began dating in June last year, and Abbie said they been monogamous the entire time, but she is now ready for a threesome.
'I think we will continue to be, probably forever, but I have been gagging for a threesome,' she said.
'I have been gagging to (sleep with another woman) because I'm a bisexual girlypop.'
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'But I haven't been able to in Australia because who are we going to have a threesome with?'
Abbie recounted her first foray into a sex club in Sydney, in January 2024.
The media personality said the outing did not go to plan because she was too recognisable.
'I went to a sex club in Sydney with my friends and I walked in and the girl behind the bar screamed "ABBIE CHATFIELD!"' she recounted, adding sarcastically, 'Hi Queen.'
'Obviously, I didn't touch anyone or do anything. I felt deeply uncomfortable and anxious the entire time.'
'I don't want to in front of people that know who I am. So Europe will be our chance.'
The FBoy Island host said she had considered the option of employing a sex worker, but felt uncomfortable about the prospect of becoming a salacious piece of anonymised TikTok content.
'I don't want to restrict the chooks from telling their friends a great story over wine, but I also don't want to be a great story over wine,' she explained.
Abbie reiterated she has a kink for watching her partner sleep with other women.
'The shame kink is only in the moment,' she said.
'Once I've [finished] I don't like it anymore.'
'So, we've got to go to sex clubs. We've spoken about it a lot - about our boundaries and what we're going to do.'
A fan asked then what the couple's boundaries will be.
On their first visit to a sex club in Amsterdam, neither Abbie nor Adam will sleep with another person.
'Our plan is to go one time... not touch anyone else, not even consider it. And then the next time, then we can talk about what we might feel comfortable with,' Abbie explained.
The media personality lamented how it has been more than two years since she has slept with a woman.
'Obviously I want to continue to explore my sexuality and I feel safe doing that in a European sex club more so than in Australia,' she said.
Adam had floated the idea of introducing male partners, as well as female partners, into the couple's sex club experience for balance.
After mulling it over, she told him: 'I don't want any other man to derive any joy from me, other than you.'
'I don't want to make any other men happy.'
Generally speaking, Abbie said she doesn't find 'men attractive'.
'Unless I have a crush on them,' she added.
Producer Oscar admitted he was confused at this point in the conversation.
Abbie explained she has to get to know a man's personality before becoming attracted to him, whereas she finds 'women instantly sexually attractive'.
'But I've always been the third in a threesome, never the partner,' Abbie added.
'So we'll see how we go.'
After Amsterdam, the couple will continue their three week holiday in Berlin, before travelling to Croatia, and then returning to Greece on the island of Hydra.
Abbie is currently on a 'social media break' and does not have access to her personal phone, which she said is being managed by her assistant whilst she is on holiday.