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Yahoo
21-07-2025
- Entertainment
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People Are Sharing The Wild Things That Happened At Bachelor And Bachelorette Parties That Should've Caused The Wedding To Be Canceled
Recently, we asked the BuzzFeed Community to tell us about the wildest thing they witnessed on a bachelor or bachelorette trip. Here are some of their responses: Note: Not all stories are from the BuzzFeed Community. Some are from this Reddit thread. 1."Buddy of mine (I wasn't there) had his bachelor party in Vegas and had sex with a stripper. Then he had sex with another stripper the next night. One of the guys who went on the trip with him WAS HIS FIANCÉS BROTHER!!! So when they got back home, the brother said, 'I hope you had fun, but I have to tell my sister what you did.'" "It was a whole thing, but the dude ended up not saying anything, so the brother told his sister (the fiancé) what happened. She married him anyway, and he ended up repeatedly cheating on her. Eventually, they got divorced." —u/ChampionshipStock870 2."It was a bachelor party in Las Vegas. Nobody knew that the groom had a problem with gambling. The first night we're there, we were all in the casino having drinks and playing cards. The groom got up to 'get a drink' and never came back to the group. After hours of searching for him, we finally found him sitting on the bathroom floor of his hotel room crying his eyes out. He lost over $10,000 in just a few hours playing blackjack. We were there for three more days, and he pretty much didn't even leave his hotel room and was terrified to go home and tell his fiancé he gambled away most of their savings." —u/mox44ah 3."The bride, her maid of honor, and three bridesmaids all went for a four-day girls' trip to Vegas. One of the three bridesmaids let it slip that the bride, the maid of honor, and one of the bridesmaids all had sex with guys they met there. The wedding was called off, and the maid of honor's marriage ended." —u/dogguy444 4."It was a bachelorette party a week before the wedding. A couple of other friends and I said it was a bad idea. We knew the bride and knew nothing good could come from a Vegas trip. But she really wanted it. Red flag right there. Sure enough, a video was sent to her fiancé of her making out with some random couple at the club we were at. And apparently that's not all that happened. She said that the couple recorded their threesome." "It sucks, too, because her fiancé was a really sweet guy. She wasn't even drunk either. Not that it would make it better, honestly. But she made all these decisions sober. She told us to fuck off when we tried to get her away from the couple." —u/Living_Bath4500 5."As a bartender and server in Savannah, Georgia, I saw a soon-to-be-groom flip off his fiancée and proceed to make out with the maid of honor at my table, while I was standing there. I didn't know what to do, so I stood there awkwardly as fighting ensued." —tedf4f45654b2 6."My ex insisted on a bachelorette in Vegas before our wedding. I get a panicked call from her sister in the middle of the night that they lost her (my ex) because she drank too much and became belligerent. She went off with two of her bridesmaids, who also were not answering their phones, and the short version is that those two friends hooked up with random strangers from Vegas that night. My ex claimed she had nothing to do with it, which I believed at the time, but came to realize I was fooling myself. Well, those two friends were both in long-term committed relationships that ended when their Vegas antics were revealed." "The rest of the bridal party wouldn't speak to my ex for years after this fiasco because of the fallout. My ex somehow held me responsible for the outcome because I rallied the troops — her sisters and the remaining non-drunk or non-cheating bridal party members — to find them, and called all the nearby hotels and venues I thought they might be at. When I finally found them, they were in the wrong hotel having a stand-off with security, which I successfully de-escalated from 3,000 miles away." —u/ET4117 7."One of my closest friends at the time slept with a stranger from the club when we were out partying two nights before her wedding. It was shocking and upsetting, and since she was my friend, I tried not to be judgmental. But damn, who does that?" —lizk41ced1621 8."This was at a friend's bachelorette! It was a small group of about five girls, including the bride. It was in a city about three hours from where we all live. She invited a male 'friend' to a club we were going to because 'he lived nearby and she hadn't seen him in a while.' At the club, they were in a corner all night, and definitely looked like more than friends. It was incredibly awkward for the rest of us, and he tagged along the rest of the night while she was wearing a white bachelorette dress and her engagement ring." "The next morning, she confessed that she'd always had a crush on this 'friend,' and wasn't sexually attracted to her fiancé. The rest of the trip, she kept asking us what she should do, since she didn't physically cheat on her fiancé. Despite almost all of us telling her to break up with her fiancé, she decided it would be too much to break off a wedding since everything was already paid for. I couldn't stand by her as a friend after witnessing that. I went to her wedding, and now don't talk to her, but to my knowledge, she is still married to the original fiancé she wasn't attracted to." —ilovemymonstera 9."We went to Vegas for a friend's bachelorette party. All the girls I went with cheated on their partners they were with at the time. Bridesmaid #1 was pissed I wasn't partaking in these activities with them. When they came back, the boyfriend of Bridesmaid #1 found out she was still texting/dating the guy she had cheated on him with, and he freaked out. Bridesmaid #1 didn't want to be the only one whose relationship fell apart, so she threw Bride and Bridesmaid #2 under the bus and told everyone that they had cheated as well. The entire friend group imploded, and none of us talk to each other anymore. Bridesmaid #1 married the guy she cheated with, Bride married her partner (he never found out), and Bridesmaid #2 broke up with her boyfriend (he never found out, either). I hate Vegas." —u/mala72 10."My friend's fiancé went to a bachelor party. After he came back, she deleted all of his pictures on Instagram and broke up with him. He had videos on his phone with a $1,500 sex worker. She asked why he even recorded it, and he said because it cost $1,500. Bruh." —u/Prestigious_View_401 11."A relationship that had been sidelined by infidelity (on his part) ended up back together. As good decisions go, they decided to push past the insecurities by getting married. He planned his own bachelor party, and we were just along for the ride. Her one rule: no naked girls. The second stop of the evening (after the all-you-can-eat buffet) was, of course, a gentleman's club. We all chipped in and got him a private dance or two, hoping to soon be on our way. Instead, he went off with two girls and was gone for almost an hour, racking up hundreds of dollars in charges." "We went to collect him and move on, and he said, 'You guys got this covered, right?!' No, bud. We'd already spent what we brought. Bouncers appeared from nowhere and 'politely' prevented us from leaving until he settled up. I had to help him drunkenly activate the PIN on his card to visit the ATM. Guess who was monitoring his spending activity? He flew home to an empty apartment." —u/JohnGalt314 12."At one bachelorette party I went to years ago, it was the bride-to-be's goal by the end of the night to have as many men hit on her/buy her drinks/etc, as possible. It turned out that every single guy was really sweet and mature and self-respecting, and realized, 'Hey, this girl is dressed in all-white with a bachelorette sash. I'll just congratulate her and not hit on her like a scumbag.' And all the people who bought her drinks/shots were other women or the bartenders! Well, my friend didn't like this, and as the night progressed, she got more and more forward and pushy. She was essentially begging men to hit on her, which only in turn made them scurry away. Not really a life-or-death secret, but I guarantee if she knew her husband-to-be acted the same way at his bachelor party, she'd be furious, and if her husband ever found out, he would be pretty sad." —cheesebones 13."A friend of mine was engaged to a narcissist, and everyone warned her not to marry him, but it was one of those 'marriage will fix our problems' situations. The night of the bachelorette, we all got very wasted, obviously, and she drunkenly confessed to me that she'd had an emotional affair with two different men on Instagram. Both men lived in different parts of the country, and she had no intention of meeting either of them, but she spoke to them almost daily. She said she needed the emotional validation from these two men because she did not get any from her fiancé. When I tried to discuss this with her the next day, when sober, she shrugged it off as not a big deal. She got married the week after, and they're still married, but to my knowledge, she hasn't ended her emotional affairs either." —Anonymous, 26, South Africa 14."The bachelor and bachelorette parties were the night before the wedding; two separate locations. The groom disappeared from his. He was found in the morning, passed out in some bushes. His friends were so drunk, they didn't notice he fell over when they went to an ATM. " —Anonymous, 55, Los Angeles 15."OK, I confess, it happened to me and 19 of my best friends at my bachelor party in a packed strip club when there came a swarm of women busting past the security guards, screaming names that were very well-known to me. Suddenly, my right ear was in a vice grip by the wife of a good friend who was also yelling for her to let go of his left ear. All the ladies were grabbing their boyfriends or husbands by their hair or an ear, and then they pulled all 19 of us out of the strip club." "I went back to that bar two days later to pay off any tab left behind. The manager said the dancers paid for it because, in their words, it was the funniest thing they had ever experienced in a strip club. 49 years later, in my only marriage, I bet that was some funny stuff to watch." —magicalcentipede207 finally, "I was the designated driver on a bar crawl bachelorette. The group got separated, and it took a while to locate the very drunk bride. We found her necking on the hood of a cop car with a handsome stranger. The wedding went on as planned, but the handsome 'stranger' picked up the newlywed bride at the airport after her honeymoon. Long story short, she reunited with hubby and they're still together 35 years later. " —Anonymous, 38, TX Do you have any wild bachelor or bachelorette party stories? Let us know about them in the comments below! Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity. Solve the daily Crossword
Yahoo
21-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Woman Says Friend Texts Her Fiancé Behind Her Back, Then Asks Him to Hang Out
"It's a mind game because nothing she's saying is overtly inappropriate, but I'm not getting a good gut feeling about her," the woman wroteNEED TO KNOW A woman and her fiancé are uncomfortable with their mutual friend's girlfriend messaging him privately The girlfriend's texts weren't flirty at first, but recently they've grown increasingly suggestive Though the fiancé is transparent with the woman, she can't shake the feeling of distrust towards the girlfriendA Reddit user is suspicious of another woman getting flirty with her fiancé, despite them all being friends. The 29-year-old woman opened up about the uncomfortable situation between her 30-year-old fiancé and his childhood friend's girlfriend in a post on Reddit. "I need to get this off my chest because it's been bothering me a lot and I don't know if I'm overreacting or trusting my gut," she begins. She explained that the two couples are in a group chat together, but the 27-year-old girlfriend continuously and consistently messages her fiancé privately, while making no effort to build a connection with her. In the past, the girlfriend's messages weren't "explicitly flirty" but rather random questions and comments that, in the poster's mind, would have been just as suited for the group chat. "She's extremely friendly to me and I like hanging out all together. Yet, If we're all supposed to be friends, why is she building a connection only with him privately but not me?" she questions. While the poster has been letting it slide, recently, the messages have taken a suggestive turn. On the fiancé's birthday, the girlfriend stayed up late so she could be "the first one to wish him a happy birthday." "Something about that just really upset me. It felt so intentional, like she wanted to insert herself in a way that made her feel close to him," the poster explains. At a separate time, the girlfriend also texted the woman's fiancé, saying she wanted "to hang out with him with or without her boyfriend." "That sentence keeps playing in my head," the woman writes. "Who says that to someone else's fiancé?" The poster notes that her partner has been very transparent and always shows her the messages and asks how to respond. While her fiancé is equally "uncomfortable" with the situation, he doesn't want to complicate the dynamic between the four of them – him, his fiancée, his friend and the girlfriend. Still, now he's set a "clear boundary:" whenever the girlfriend texts him, he'll send his reply in the group chat. But it's not about trusting her fiancé, the poster notes — it's about trusting the girlfriend. "I can't stop feeling disrespected and honestly, [on] high alert. It's a mind game because nothing she's saying is overtly inappropriate, but I'm not getting a good gut feeling about her," she writes. "She's seemingly happy in her relationship so why is she going to my fiancé for random things?" Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human-interest stories. Those in the comments agreed, noting that they were willing to give the girlfriend the benefit of the doubt until she asked to hang out alone with him. "I could see her sending him non-flirty texts about specific topics that are career related, but the part about wanting to hang out with just him and maybe her [boyfriend] — to the exclusion of you — is troubling," one wrote. "I'd be suspicious as well." Another suggested the girlfriend is "playing a long, low-stakes game" — establishing a connection with the fiancé should either one of their relationships end. Read the original article on People Solve the daily Crossword
The Sun
19-07-2025
- The Sun
I tearfully watched my controlling fiancé tear up all our wedding invitations after hen party kiss… can we reconnect?
DEAR DEIDRE: WITH tears blurring my eyes, I watched my fiancé tear up all our wedding invitations one by one. He'd blown up after my friend posted a photo from my hen night of me giving another man a peck on the lips. There was nothing to it — just a silly dare — but apparently I had disrespected him. Even though my fiancé hadn't always been the best partner to me, I was still devastated when he said that we were over. I'm 26, he's 28. We'd been together for five years. In the beginning, he was a dream come true. I'd just split up from a toxic boyfriend and wasn't looking for anything serious but my fiancé-to-be wore me down with his thoughtfulness and generosity. He stalked my Instagram before our first date, and turned up with a huge bunch of my favourite flowers, and a box of my favourite perfume. Within six months we were engaged. But from the moment I said yes, it felt like his behaviour changed. He didn't like my friends, and moaned if I went on girls' nights out. I often cancelled plans in favour of staying home with him. At first, those nights were cosy and romantic – he'd cook dinner or run me a bath with candles and rose petals. As I sank into the water, I'd pinch myself that I'd met someone so kind. But then he started using drugs, and unsavoury characters would come to our door at all hours, delivering his latest stash. I started having doubts, but was in too deep to get out. It all came to a head at my hen party. We drank a lot and friends shared their misgivings. They thought he was controlling and manipulative. And as if to prove them right he started ringing my phone constantly, demanding that I came home. Annoyed, I turned off my phone and grabbed the closest bloke to fulfil my dare. My best mate must have posted the photo on purpose to split us up. I've moved back home with my mum but my fiancé still wants to meet and have sex, just in secret. He says there's a chance we'll reconnect, if we 'take things slow'. What do you think? DEIDRE SAYS: Unless your fiancé can prove he's committed to changing – agreeing to counselling for example – you'll end up navigating exactly the same issues. Until he tackles his addiction and his jealousy, he'll never be a loving, supportive partner. I know you're upset by the sudden split, but give it a little time and you'll start to see it as a blessing. FANTASIES GET WILDER AS MY WIFE SHUNS SEX DEAR DEIDRE: AS my wife grew less interested in sex, my own desires got wilder. Now I'm keen to have a bisexual experience with a male sex worker. My wife is the apple of my eye, but she had an operation a few years ago that put her into surgical menopause, making sex very painful for her. She tried to hide the discomfort from me at first, but I could see she was flinching. When she admitted it hurt, I obviously stopped all sex. She seems perfectly happy and content to live a celibate life, but I'm frustrated and now my secret fantasies are getting out of control. I'm 56, and my wife is 55. We've been together for 30 years. My most passionate recurring fantasy focuses on having hot sex with another man, who turns up at my hotel room instead of the female escort I thought I had booked. He arrives at the hotel room in motorcycle leathers so I don't immediately spot he's a man. By the time he removes his helmet and I realise my mistake, I'm already too committed. How bad would it be for me to book an escort and turn this dream into a reality? I love my wife and never, ever want to hurt her. But I can't live the rest of my life without sex. DEIDRE SAYS: I understand your frustration. A celibate lifestyle wasn't your choice. Your wife may seem content, but have you spoken to her? This lack of sex means you both miss out on intimacy and affection, not just physical relief. Your fantasy sounds erotic but it could bring your marriage crashing down. I'd suggest you start by having an open, honest chat with your wife. Explain how you're struggling with the lack of physical connection and how much you miss feeling close to her. See if she feels the same – she might not be as content as she seems. Read my support packs Love And The Mature Woman, and Menopause Explained, which go into detail about the reasons women over 50 can find sex uncomfortable, with practical suggestions you can try. Menopausal hormone changes can cause sex to feel painful, but topical oestrogen, vaginal moisturisers and HRT can make a huge improvement. BRA CHOICE TOOK ME BY SURPRISE DEAR DEIDRE: I THOUGHT my husband liked my small boobs. But when I asked him to pick me a new bra recently, he came back with a padded monstrosity designed to make mountains out of molehills. We're in our fifties and have been married for 26 years – long enough for him to know I'm a functional, cotton, B-cup type. I expected him to buy a two-pack of basic bras from the supermarket. Instead, he took himself off to a lingerie shop and brought back a red lace plunging one, with a tiny, matching thong. I can't shake the mental image of him prowling around, gawping at all the models. He keeps asking me when I'm going to wear it. DEIDRE SAYS: If he's an otherwise loving husband, I wouldn't read too much into this. He may have thought he was treating you to something a little sexier. Many men lack confidence in underwear shops. If you really dislike it, explain why, and perhaps buy yourself a more indulgent set to your taste – to give yourself a confidence boost. FAMILY FORUM DEAR DEIDRE: PLEASE could you help me arrange fairer visitation rights? My current situation is upsetting me. My ex and I have three children, aged four, six and ten. Our divorce was finalised six months ago. There weren't any traumatic reasons for the split, we simply stopped getting along. The marital home was sold and my ex bought a new house, which is where our kids now live. When we first split up, I'd return to the family home regularly to see the children. I'd take them out for the day, cook tea, or do bedtime. It was relaxing and cosy. My ex used to go out to see friends or family. Gradually, my contact has been whittled away. Now, my ex only lets me meet the children in public places – like a soft play centre – and she won't even tell me their new address. Apparently this is 'easier' for her. I understand she wouldn't want me hanging round the house with her there, but I feel like a criminal only seeing them in public places. I live in a shared house and there's no room for them to stay with me. But my ex won't even let me have the kids over for lunch. I'm being edged out of their lives. DEIDRE SAYS: I can see why you're upset. The current arrangement isn't really fostering goodwill or healthy communication. Your ex may have drawn a line with you visiting her to try and establish this new chapter more easily. But good communication is key here. Could a relative or good friend provide a safe venue for you and your children? Read my support pack, When Parents Fall Out. It goes into the different ways children can suffer during a split. It would be great if you and your ex could read it together. Another positive step might be mediation. A trained mediator will help you both to sort out a fair contact schedule that puts the children's needs first. Also, try talking to (0300 0300 363), for help and advice. AM I JUST HER 'TOY BOY'? DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend is older than me, and very successful. We met eight years ago when I was 29 and she was 45. We've always had a good relationship, but somehow I feel more like a plaything than a partner. For example, her job paid way more than mine, so I quit to look after the housework. She even bought me an apron and often asks me to wear it with nothing underneath. I also overheard her on the phone, referring to me as her 'toy boy'. Now I don't feel like an equal. I feel like a joke. DEIDRE SAYS: I'm sure most of us have used a jokey term when talking about our partner to a friend. But this one touched a nerve. Talk to her and let her know you feel taken for granted and ridiculed. This might be a sign that you're unfulfilled being a stay-at-home partner. Why not explore getting back into work? A new job could help you rebuild your confidence, and to feel more like an equal inside your relationship.
Daily Mail
19-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
I did something awful in an Uber after my fiancé left the club early... He knew the truth the moment I kissed him when I got home: ASK JANA
Dear Jana, My fiancé and I met in our early 20s when our entire relationship was pretty much built on partying. We were that couple always closing down the club and doing one more line before sunrise.
Yahoo
16-07-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Fed-up woman wants to hire cleaning service — but her fiancé says she's being lazy: ‘He thinks it's not justified'
So much to do, so little time. There are only so many things a person can get done in a single day — and one woman is getting called lazy for wanting to eliminate something off her already busy to-do list. In the r/AITA subreddit on Reddit, a frustrated woman explained a recent argument she had with her fiancé — which was shocking to commenters. In the post, the woman shared that she and her man live together with their two large dogs, and they split everything evenly when it comes to finances — despite her earning a bit more than him. As a result of their full home, their 'house gets messy pretty quickly with all the fur and daily life,' she wrote. 'When we first moved in, I took on most of the cleaning and cooking… but after months of juggling work, house chores, and cooking — sometimes even having to cook while in the middle of meetings — I burned out. Completely,' she relatably wrote. The couple eventually agreed to hire someone part-time to clean their home. 'It helped a lot,' the original poster wrote. It wasn't until this woman brought up the idea of hiring someone to clean the couple's home regularly, every weekday, to 'take some pressure off' her. 'He [her fiancé] got really upset and said it wasn't necessary, that I'm being lazy, and that I'm trying to avoid any responsibility for housework. That made me furious.' Even though the OP told her fiancé that she wants to 'feel taken care of too, not just the one doing everything,' he didn't budge. 'He still thinks it's not justified to have daily help and that I should do more around the house.' Well, expectantly, the people in the comment section sounded off — mostly in defense of the OP. 'He thinks it's unnecessary because… you are the maid.' If you can afford to hire someone, as it isn't as expensive as it is in the U.S., then you are providing someone with a job AND you can enjoy life. Alternatively, your fiancé could get off his backside and stop being a schmuck. He's the lazy a– in this situation.' 'Tell him he needs to do what you do for one month without help and you can revisit the idea of a maid after the month is over. Or he can just zip it and go along with the maid plan now.' 'Sounds like money well spent to me.'
